 You are somebody for people that don't know that is all about sex all about femininity and teaches within the realms and expressions of that so When that comes down to it What what is femininity to you? I'm sure you could man. That's Jesus Christ. That's a big question Okay, when you think about a woman and you think sex you see beauty, you know you see that 10 But what is the potential that you're searching for within her? I just answer this in a probably wanky way for anyone hasn't meditated the greatest sex You'll ever have is very similar to meditation You're in this moment with a person. There should be a lot of eye contact. You might be saying I love you You might be in a powerful position and you know, I'm not as Haven't done as much as James, but I've done a lot of meditation. It was Wasn't important to my life. It was crucial to my life But it's just like it's like being in the deepest moments of say a 10-day meditation I think sex can be looking in her eyes and you just often it's like you can just experience I don't know everything around you through sex at that level Yeah, but you know, you don't get that by dragging drunk girls out of bars And you go to find you don't you're gonna find someone special and you know You've got to get that connection and you know nothing you got to break down her insecurities Which is a big reason why a lot of guys have sexual problems because the women in our society are just so fucking insecure Not their fault. Yeah, yeah I mean, I think to be a great like to be able to have a woman who's truly feminine You need to be a great lover of yourself first. Yeah, it's because So many men are disassociated from their penises from their hearts and their sexuality I've talked about this before in terms of things like pornography and you know prostitution use and totally Objectification of women really separates you from actual real relationships and real sex with somebody so until you can really get in touch with your own sexuality Which is means being able to be firstly get over the internal blocks such as shame and guilt and fear about it the the conditioning that whoever has told you that it's wrong or it's sinful or Or it should only be used in certain aspects or that or that if you're a man who pursues his sexual life You're an aggressor and an abuser so being able to work through those which is where ideas and conferences like this start to unplug from this