 Who know like better pain like who know like that thing? Not me. Definitely not me What's the best thing you think about in your life so far? My my family That's the best thing I think I've had. Yeah, definitely the best thing I've had My family My sanity Because it's a cold war than it had My sanity It's the best thing I've had in my life so far. It's not even about the money, but The fact that I am still able to differentiate between right and wrong Get my sanity right try to fix my life know that I have goals Inspirations things like that if you know we're working out but I have you know a Yeah, so it is my sanity for me because man Like I've had my sanity for two days Like Do you know what it means I'm getting to work in 15 minutes a journey that takes me 15 minutes How many hours you spend in normal day And then you spent on the and are that is your journey to work every day is like 30 45 50 minutes without traffic It is the it's your son Is that where you see What's your local government? You look at me No, you have to be And I feel like I still You can imagine the struggle to get here on time Try my guy 45 minutes without traffic Yeah, oh my gosh Give from from my junction is like take something means from my junction so from y'all see your joint I love what something is like 15 minutes. You are see your junction six minutes Wow Oh my god, I know my sister But yes, we still want to move further down, please we want to come close out Many five minutes to work Five minutes. I want to just strike. I don't need I don't want cars no more I don't have a living on the street here. Yeah, that's true But you go and make food Yeah Anyway, let's move on to the first story of the day and this one is on Ghanian Norwood actress and Which is Juliette Brian has revealed that a boyfriend locked her up and raped her for days She narrated that while he was raping her the boyfriend was smiling and when she told him it was rape He said they were in a relationship. She said when I told him it was rape He said but when the relationship I didn't say yes, I was in the mood It pinned me down and was doing whatever he wanted. He was smiling. I told him he is a rapist I fought my way out of that relationship because he even locked me in his house for days It was my sister Sonia and I came to find me. I was scared I panicked because it was huge and taller than me. It raped me for days. I Mean one time now I'm talking about for days But you know in Nigerian law, you know, now I know this is what I'm talking about a relationship Oh, I feel it is telling of the fact that you know, there is nothing like marital rape in our laws So I mean there is there is there is no law like it's not an offense there You cannot assume I actually had to go and read up about it earlier today like there is you can rape your wife Except she's not up to puberty You can't if she's up to puberty, it's not considered as rape. So I feel it's telling of that fact Yeah, I know this very fact like it's time of that fact that he said Yeah, yeah, yeah, like I actually did read so it's time not for that Yeah, people say I'm your wife now or you're my wife now. So how can I rape my wife? I mean we when we got to the order we got married and everything So how will it be good at I raped you so I feel it is coming up that fact that he just said that and If in like for a certain this is just like the mindset of everybody I feel it is high time that A law is put into place concerning this because most people just go of the fact I mean we're talking about we we saw this story where a lady said she arrested her husband because He I think he's slapped out something and when she got there What were people what were people saying are fellow Nigerians already saying that it's your husband So why are you arresting him for something like that and everything? I'm like is it that we give leeway to some of these things to happen and for some of these remain to go through this And going to report then seems like a big deal because I mean who's going to take it serious Like who's going to take it serious who's going to believe and everything so in the law it says okay except you are Not up to puberty. That is when it is considered rape. You've confirmed it, right? So except no, no, but the Penal Code the Penal Code is also standing recognizes that the criminal law doesn't but the Penal Code does So if I go to a police station and I told him my husband According to the Penal Code. Yes, you can be he can be prosecuted. He can yeah, but hold him to the pen now We are talking about as a law a standard law in Nigeria. I go to the police station and I told him Of course, even if it does say if you go police station go see my husband beat me They say what do you do you get that's the first thing a police officer would even ask Oh, what do you say? Why in beat you? About what she did Jonathan like who cares about what she did the woman came with black eye So long first and then the first thing you're asking now. What do you say? What did you do? It's just like how they ask great victims. What were you wearing? Where were you wearing? Why were you doing like such questions? Yeah So for me, right for me in as much as you know, I'm on Juliet side Of course if she says she has been right. She has been great. My problem with Juliet is that I remember a book I read the book cover to cover a toast to life I was at the book launch at Oriental or something and all of that like I was there I covered this this same story was in that book. She came on tea time. She said the same story She's gone to several interviews. She said the same story and this guy is still walking free Do you know how many other women is probably doing it too? Like can you just call out this guy for crying out loud? You see where I'm going because if it's all set in stone If it's something that we take very very serious, he won't be walking free. Do you get? But we take it seriously I'm talking about law. Of course we take we the citizens We are always the one gonna in that seat But at least that we call the person out. Can he come out to defend himself? Can you see something? She has refused to say who it was. I know that, you know, rape victims do not and no pressure on any of them It is when you're bold enough You remember the Nigerian girl that went to where was the Kigali Where she was raped by she was almost raped by the security guard. Do you remember that story? The last story You know, she was almost raped and everything. This girl was in therapy for a year She wasn't able to speak. She was still traumatized from the event But she just spoke up this year and was you taking us seriously? Jonathan like things are being done. People have been fired. People have lost their job You just have to do your job today. You have to tell us if you have to come out No, but I feel like it is when she's comfortable Maybe she's not comfortable to speak up because I've been to the comment section I'm also of the opinion like come on. You've been telling us. Just tell us who this person and the fact that she says this person is Nigerian You didn't know that part, right? Yeah. She says this guy is Nigerian Jonathan, she's a Ghanaian woman Accusing a Nigerian man. A lot of people actually thought it was a last relationship Which was to icebergs lame But with this new description, he has been vindicated because icebergs lame is a shuddy Say what you like It's just sad that a lot of these things where we talk about them We talk on social media we clamor for justice and everything and at the end It's just swept to the side as if nothing happened and I feel like the same time. Yeah I'm glad she's actually speaking about it But I'd like you said it has to get to a point where she's very comfortable releasing The identity of the person and I feel at that point Justice has to be served because you can't really she's she's making claims She has not directly accused anybody so you can't just try to hang on and force that to say okay What's it this person? So we have to actually wait till she's comfortable. I can only imagine how Traumatizing going through something like that is imagine You don't see now. This is the Narrative I don't want to put out there You know for people to start feeling like oh the law won't take you seriously people won't take you seriously They they don't come out I don't want to push that narrative. Can they not take you seriously, but can you speak to truth? Like that's what I keep telling women like if you feel like a man is Come and speak up call his name let people ask you you too Are you sure but you be ready to see now let them talk let them talk But at least the next the next person will be wary and then if he happens with the next person She'll also come out to talk and once they say there's no smoke without fire by the time the second thought basic comes out To talk you have to look into you. Yeah, I mean like we would actually take it seriously But you know big shout out to all the women out there the ones who are in very toxic Relationships, but you know have to stay there and have to still endure Well, you really don't have to endure because you deserve to enjoy so please You know speak up speak your truth and do your thing You