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What is happening Magnus like so keeping it on world star I did a reaction video a little while ago to this woman here and she was explaining why she was saying basically you know married people shouldn't have friends of opposite sex so I did a video reacting to that and explaining my side of what I thought about it I was not attacking her in the video but I'll explain my thing but apparently she didn't got a part two to this and I guess she's going to go into detail I assume of what maybe she did the first time I don't know if she got attacked so maybe she's explaining herself I watched the first five like seconds of it and she said like okay I need it so apparently you know she might have been getting flat for it so maybe she's gonna go into greater detail but what she said the first time so let's see what the other lady has to say I give you my you know view on it like I always do alright so I need to clarify some things about having the opposite sex as your friend while in a committed relationship or marriage alright so first of all I want to say it's okay for you to have couple couple I guess other married couples as your friend as well while you're in a committed relationship or marriage that is okay yes we do not isolate ourselves in the world just because I'm married doesn't mean we don't interact with other people sure I have to go out in public but I'm gonna you know conduct myself appropriately as his wife now some people believe that I cannot possibly talk to my husband about every single thing yes the heck you can you know why can't you well what do you think a marriage is supposed to be you know it's supposed to be about you and your husband if you have another man on the side you know telling all your problems and issues to one I don't date you know cuz I can't possibly think of anything else that I can do with another man while I'm married you know if you do all these things with another man then he's pretty much taken up the role of your husband now he's not you know I know some women they say well I need another man because I need opinions from a man's perspective if it's really about a man's perspective how about you go find a brother a father or even a pastor if you need a man's perspective about things see I think that's a big you know why I can't be a man you don't have sex you know say the same thing oh I need a woman's perspective you know my best friend gives me tells me at 100 you know go to your mother fellas if it's about a woman's perspective no I feel like that's one big lie you know that's my opinion on it you know that you have those people who say you know you gotta be one of the most boring person in the world you can't you know control yourself it is not about controlling yourself it is the other person you must understand that the enemy comes in disguises the moment your husband or your wife has a fallout which all marriages every relationship does I don't care who you are I don't care how famous you are how popular you are I don't have fallouts those are the down points with my girlfriend and I ain't fuck none of my female friends right there oh he should have did that oh yeah my female friends oh it can't happen I was with you I would have done that see it that is how they pull you in now when you exercise control money in your life well I'm not in your life or just there because oh I just wanted to be their friend from the beginning still a lot somehow somehow you all fell into this friend zone trust me I've been there I've done it you've fallen into the friend zone so guess what you all been friends for the longest just never find a way to be together I don't care who you are you know having friends of the opposite all the time asking for trouble you know you may not even be attracted to that person but guess what like I said when did you have this falling out with your spouse but that split second and a split moment of comfort oh you're gonna be attracted to that person not because of their physical attract attractive trust me I didn't have female friends that was there for me and I wasn't attracted to it take your relationship telling you right now okay head of this house he leads me there is no room for another man I don't need to talk to another man on the phone I don't need to go on dates with another man I don't need to you know socialize myself with with the male species why I'm out you know at work well I actually work from home so it really doesn't matter but when I did work out in public we keep it strictly professional that's it so for all of those who are trying to make up all these excuses of why are you trying to hold into those friends and those people are like oh no you know if he can't expect except my male friend or she can't accept my female friend then we just can't be together so you're telling me that that male or that female friend is so important to you because they were there before there risk or you know they were there before my girl you've been building for years my girl don't trust me that's an issue because of that friend think about it I'm thinking about so obviously that friend is more important damn right marriage if I'm not married his mother in the beginning of the relationship his wife as the Bible says then what do you think I can clean and still have friends he cleans to know and she can still be a friend you can still be a friend you can be one still a friend I'm ready for all the the nice little comments and excuses people are going to come up with now all right girls listen right so you can have platonic friends I have a few platonic female friends what ain't gonna never be nothing okay I'm gonna give you an example I'm gonna give you a shout out girl Emily Calderon I've been friends with her since Kenny garden that's right I said it ghetto sound Kenny garden okay me and her ain't never danced together we ain't never kissed we never held hands I can call Emily anytime she can call me anytime and she has always been platonic as a matter of fact Emily hooked me up with my first girlfriend named Kim yes remember that we ain't never wanted each other okay so you know it's a possibility now I understand what a sister is coming from she's basically talking about you know you know getting rid of the parents is a evil any possibilities of something happening she's getting rid of and I get that but I don't think that it's needed okay okay now you gotta judge that per specific relationship as far as I'm concerned I do have a particular female friend that we have an attraction to each other and when I was going through something she was there but she knew me way before my girl knew me and I didn't touch her still I didn't do nothing with her still but I understand if I got weak she may have accepted me you know in hand or help me distress so I get what the woman is saying but here's the whole thing sometimes you'll have friends that are attracted to you but realize that the borders have been clearly defined okay I had a female friend before that I was attracted to but the border was defined and guess what we stayed friends through thick and thin and I was always there for her she was always there for well she wouldn't know it she's one of them friends that disappear when she get a man but when she you know then she would but anyway this you reappear when you know she needed a shoulder to cry on or to talk to or whatever but I was never that dude waiting in the shadows like yeah soon as he fuck her over you know it was never like that look I'm not thirsty so I'm one of them do something like okay look I'm attracted to you but you don't want me I'll draw the motherfucking line that's me I will draw the line I will friends on you you don't want me why do I want somebody that don't want me huh what does that make sense okay I'm gonna sit here and try to make you want me so my whole thing is this if you know that your friends and yeah sometimes you know birds of a feather flock together so you attractive a lot of times you know female friends might be attractive or if you you know you're a female and your track of your male friends might be attractive attractive people you know gravitate to attract people you got a little something common a lot of times you hang at the same place you party at the same place okay but it doesn't mean y'all I gotta be fucking each other and using each other as you know side pieces or just in case you get in the argument with you know with your girlfriend or your boyfriend or your husband look sometimes I can't tell you how many times I've had women that all my female friends call me for a man's point of view because they know I'm one of the rare men that isn't gonna try to use it to fuck them and I'm gonna give my unbiased opinion cuz I'm the art and I think they recognize that early with me because I'm the type of friend that will tell you when you're wrong if you expect to call me and me to just take your side just because we're friends won't do I don't do that I'm a good friend I'm gonna tell you when you're wrong I'm gonna tell you when you're right and I'm gonna tell you what I think is best for you to solve your problem okay I'm not gonna I'm not gonna sit here and let you hurt somebody else or mess up your life or anything else like that I want you to both come out of the situation well I won't be the one that's gonna lead you down the right the wrong road you gonna say you know what at the end of the day time and I'm always told me it's straight he always told me it's straight I got one buddy yeah yeah this girl dirty his girl did him dirty he called me mean will it well remember you did that first I know but yeah okay then so you got to understand there's a woman scoring she flipping the fuck out tip for tap I'm not saying she's right I'm just saying I understand now that we on the same page this is what you can do I think to help your relationship flourish now from this point okay so I just think she little too strict on the whole me male female friend thing you know it's like your bodybuilder they say I'll never eat no carbs I always eat clean you know she just can't absolutely cannot have a male friend that she may ask a question from time to time the problem is and you know I mean this can happen with family you know she said well speak to a male you know your dad your brother your uncle you know sometimes your family because they've been close to you for so long they're biased so if you have a friend they ain't got no filter and they tell it straight whether it's male or female I think it's okay to confide in them to see well but you think about this situation you know but if you got a male or female friend then you know once you even though the borders are defined you ain't gonna get no unbiased answer from them cuz English man see they do don't treat you right or you know you said never got with her I knew she was a bitch you know I mean like they're gonna give you that type of answer okay so I'm just saying make sure clear boundaries are defined it is a platonic relationship and make sure who you ever you talking to if you can't talk to your husband or wife girlfriend boyfriend about it no whether it's family member or not that they can give you an unbiased answer or advice okay I haven't rambled on enough about this I'm done one million subscribers with a 100,000 subscribers practice on the way you may now subscribe