 Good evening friends and family You're listening to dr. Henley and today I'm going to talk to you about the very unknown so-called invisible disability The neuro typical syndrome now for anybody who doesn't really Understand what neuro typical syndrome is Today, I'm going to run you through some of the more Early-to-late development markers of the neuro typical syndrome now there is a lot of things that people don't really understand about Neurotypical people we usually refer to them as Naspis and There are a lot of difficulties that come with neuro typical children There is some debate about in the In the community about whether there are different levels of being a neuro typical and They all represent and define as very simple but important distinguishable Attributes in the human mind. So today I'm going to give you a little bit of a breakdown on the type of things that you'll be looking out for when you believe that your child may be suffering from the neuro typical illness I have a list of documents here to Give you an idea of the type of things that you can look for So in in comparison to you know a normal human being a neurotypical firstly shows some level of Lack lack of logical development at a young age and it can be quite impairing for them One of the difficulties with mainly neurotypical based skit schools is that There will be a lot of inter-social difficulties Neurotypicals when they when they band together and when they reach the age of teenagehood tend to fall To put it lightly and not not to offend anyone into a rut where they are very very much focused on What everybody else is doing? What what everybody thinks of them? Whether what they're doing is considered to be cool, which is a term that is used by the neurotypical population and to in in some some vast toxic way to to Normalize what's considered to be an attractive Thing or an attractive quality or an attractive person the Neurotypical people the children will congregate in small social bubbles These small social bubbles are very difficult for people to penetrate or other children to penetrate These circles tend to display a lot of dominance hierarchy so they Will form some form of primitive Bands together they will try and attack other groups. They will actively vet and judge and Get into the minds of other people in order to make sure that the right people enter their group now one of the the sort of the toxicity from this this Pathological behavior is that there are many many children whether they are normal or neurotypical that Aren't in any group So they will either default to a much lower status group, which severely affects their Their social life and their social development, but they will also tend to act out For attention or act out for some form of social gratification Now this is just one example of the many things that People with neurotypical syndrome may do There is a lot of issues around Emotions at that age Although they do tend to show a heightened ability to understand emotions and social groupings They also Seek out and follow their emotions in some sometimes a very pathological Way this could mean through bullying other people in other groups in order to Give themselves some form of self-esteem boost But also to really Reinforce their own independence and bypass some of the logical Disabilities that they they they show in in that type of age. There are a lot of different highlighted malformations and difficulties one of which appears in early early teenage hood and carries on for the for the rest of a person's life because Of course, everybody is born as a Neurotypical and they are neurotypical children But every neurotypical child grows up to be a neurotypical adult and we need to be aware of this Neurotypical teenagers and children tend to have a mild intellectual disability meaning that as opposed to a normal person they would have eight points of IQ lower than your average and Which in the grand scheme of things isn't a large amount, but it still can it should still should be considered to be some form of intellectual disability and hence the the need for Funds and and trusts in order to make sure that these these these children get on in life Well, it seems to be it seems to me that the incessant following of emotions and higher placement in social status causes a lot of malfunctions in Society in social groups these very emotionally driven almost almost impulsive characters that inhabit a lot of schools When we move up into into late teenage hood There seems to be a difficulty when it comes to open-mindedness and empathy neurotypical individuals tend to Feel very strongly about placing themselves higher in a certain level or group and for a lot of Individuals a lot of normal children. This may be a problem the more rampant or more outwardly expressing neurotypicals ones that show a lot of traits and that we were considered to be pathological tend to Be the ones who cause others the most distress things as I've said before about bullying social isolation whereby any deviation from the certain norms in that person that affected individuals head and Becomes a guideline for the amount of abuse that one can give or one social group can give to a Normal healthy child of course, it's it's more founded in logic in our society that people Would go about their life picking up on certain individual things certain interests in order to work on Things that they enjoy whereas the neurotypical person tends to go through a lot of cycles of difficulty because they they feel the need to go for the most appropriate and most normative way of living and and henceforth they will bash and they will Try and pick out those people whose interests are Most unlike their own in adulthood the neurotypical disability this sort of hidden hidden disabilities we like to call it Tends to affect lives in a very negative way it makes them Specifically not not of course not all of them, but it makes them specifically difficult To work with they tend to have a lower attention span Which can make it difficult for them to focus on topics of interest which I know is something that many of us find quite normal and easy, but we have to be very Considerate of this and also they tend to mimic and they tend to pass over the social Deformities the difficulties that they they have socially the pathological Problems and they transfer that into the workplace which can make life for a lot of people and a lot of normal people working very difficult in terms of the the social realm that we live in Most people tend to be quite They like to have their own space They like to follow up on their own interests and of course now and again We all like to meet up for a talk For maybe one or two hours, whereas for a neurotypical person this need for social interaction is very incessant Almost the point of pathological in some senses They will divert divulge information about other people in the workplace or in their life that is not deemed to be appropriate for modern society they will Also tend to act very emotional in in situations To do with conflict instead of trying to talk about it or approach someone with authority and Resolve the issue in a calm manner there tends to be a lot of traits of BPD in this neurotypical syndrome where they will Let's say blow it out of proportion just despite the logical and Directness of normal people they find it very difficult to handle Now this tends in our society to Isolate them of course in in the typical neurotypical schools they They thrive in this behavior But as soon as they go out into the real world and they realize that these pathological social mechanisms aren't working Then that's when we start to see the issues we start to see the issues with unemployment and Particularly isolation which is very sort of contrary to the Mechanisms that they had at school and they will tend to follow into relationships ones that aren't particularly Healthy they have they don't talk about their feelings and they don't modulate their behavior in any way or At least not as much As a regular person and that can be very difficult for them to develop long-standing relationships based on Logic and based on direct communication of wants and needs so it can be very difficult for them to navigate in all sorts of environments in later life many of them will take to Consuming legal highs Such as alcohol this alcohol can of course enhance which it is particularly bad because it can enhance the already emotional Already over an overly social mind of the neurotypical Of course, it's it's Difference who were when a normal person would consume alcohol Probably make them a little bit more relaxed That's why people do it but for them the the addiction starts from the the effects on their social life and This is of course not a all-consuming statement for every single neurotypical people. I've seen a lot of people come into my practice and Talks talk about the the struggles of it and behind every every neurotypical There is behind every diagnosis of a neurotypical. There is another Neurotip person inside that we can relate to it's the nature of the the disability and the nature of the difficulties and The traits that go along with it make it excessively hard to treat these individuals and bring them back to a more logical and Fault based and rational View that we all we all know that it's important for healthy living Although their social abilities seem to be accelerated to some degree This Does not follow suit for their logical Basis so they will be very far behind in terms of developing morals and understanding different walks of life and difficulties and being a bit more open-minded and For some that can be quite debilitating Especially if they reach the legal age and they don't particularly have a good awareness of the consequences of things Obviously a lot of normal people have a good idea of what does what and what dangers line in something But a group of neurotypicals together They tend to exacerbate these Sort of risk-taking and motion driven behaviors and it can be very toxic for the person or people in people involved that get roped into this sort of social peer pressure Which is not really seen in in regular society. There are a lot of difficulties about a neurotypical disorder but I think with an with an open mind and and an idea of trying to Work out what's similar and what's different. We will be able to understand a little bit better What's going on in their heads? There seems to be a large president in in patients that I've dealt with with neurotypical disorder that they Don't really recognize these flaws There seems to be a bit of a streamlined black-and-white approach to this where if there is something that is considered to be Mainstream then it is therefore accepted as part of a culture and of course that is not the case and anything to do with illegal activities or consumption of dangerous Chemicals and and toxins and compounds There always has to be some level of restriction on that and there also has to be some level of Support in place to make sure that these neurotypical individuals do not affect others Other regularly humans in that group despite all the negatives that come with the neurotypical syndrome. There are a lot of important good Aspects of being of have been neurotypical of being an aspie one of which is a very high level of emotional understanding So they would make very good people to talk to people to get to know once you've got past the the social groups once you've got past the the mask of What's acceptable and what isn't and really start to get to the meat of who that person is you can have access to a lot of the quick firing social orientated emotional thoughts That could be of great utility to yourself for the future. It's just about bringing those thoughts out and teasing them out and applying some of the common-sense logic to those thoughts and There's been some great results with that is very important thing to do. They are also some of the most loving Individuals on the planet. They they thrive very much on on feeling as at one with a group so if you tend to have a Singular group that you meet up with on a regular basis they will be likely to pull off input into that group and Make sure that new things within reason of course or and introduce to the group for people to try They have a tendency of adding a little bit more spice to friendship or a relationship With them with their tendency towards impulsivity and a tendency towards Novel-seeking behavior in a very sometimes maybe in a pathological and brash way But it can encourage other people and people in that friend group and in that relationship to try things that they would normally not consider Following their routine their regular routine that we all follow. They also have an extraordinary capability for executive functioning Meaning that they are very good at making snap decisions about things and processing information at a remarkable speed so that that Ability would be be more suited for tasks that require a lot of organization and management We see we see a lot of people with new neurotypical syndrome organizing for events Putting on parties bringing the communities together so they can do a lot of good In society as long as the the negatives of the disability are made up for and The things that affect other people in our society are minimized By proper education at a young age. I realize that there is not as much media attention on the neurotypical syndrome and it's something that I very much strive to Change and improve We need a lot more awareness around neurotypical syndrome We need people to understand Neurotypicals understand where they're coming from in order to be Empathetic towards it so Providing that empathy towards them can sometimes be a little bit difficult You'd have to expect that you would have to give more in the instance More empathy in the instance in order to get a sufficient response from them But there are a lot of things that we can talk about in the future scientific Talks as I'm doing now and if you want to see some more work by myself and read more about the neurotypical Disorder and I would encourage you to look up The other videos on my youtube channel to make sure that you are fully aware of What you need to do whether you're a parent whether you're someone who's suffering from neurotypical syndrome Whether you are friends with someone or in a relationship with someone with neurotypical syndrome It's always important to get up to date with these things and learn and more personal and important understandings of the neurotypical syndrome just for healthy living and proper integration of these people into into our Society, I hope that you found this useful and I wish you all the best and hope that I can talk to you again soon Thank you