 wheels the dark mill new returns to answer your question as the magma side movement marches forward to one million subscribers one hundred and let me see here I mean subscribers I got now changes from time to time one hundred and fourteen thousand strong now this was a very simple question this came from the ten percenters this came from the magnet seat dies this magnet seat says she basically wants to know the pros and cons of a long-distance relationship it says proud ten percent Magnus answers request let's keep my name out of the video I've gotten some creepy messages since I started openly openly following your behind tempted to go back to my other username stop being perverts magnet sights and harassing her question were the pros and cons of a long-distance relationship thanks in advance well I'll tell you this moment magnificent I've been in a couple of long-distance relationships and the pros are I don't know how many pros there actually are but I'll just tell you what I've learned from being in long-distance relationships you really learn to love the person for who they are because you do not have any access to them other than phone and maybe webcams now before webcams damn you just had the phone that was it you could send pictures through the mail like that was it but now we're more of a time where it's like wow I can actually see you now I can see you talking but I can't touch you I can't kiss you I can't hug you and when we got that sexual feeling we can't get no sexual healing yeah I mean we can't touch each other we can't do any of that so you learn I'll tell you this you learn restraint you learn patience you learn perseverance you you learn all that all those virtues that go along with waiting for something good to come you know they say good things come to those who wait that's what you learn and I have been in a long-distance relationship where I actually got a chance and only one of them were actually got a chance to meet the girl and I was like wow it was even better when I met her because I had already formed this mental bond the mental love it wasn't physical sometimes sometimes physical physical love can cloud the love of the mind into fooling you you have more or less for the person depends on what your physical you know you know confrontation so to speak was like so the pros are that you you truly learn to love the person you really do and like I said it teaches you patience and long suffering and all that stuff teaches you to wait it teaches you delayed gratification which is actually something that a lot of financial leaders teach you financial gurus they'll teach you about delayed gratification because in America you want it now now now now now now now now now now get it now paid later all that stuff and when you learn delayed gratification a lot of the the people that work financially that way they work and they cultivate an investment they work at it they keep investing reinvesting in themselves and their business and their investments at first things are going slowly but then eventually these investments whether it be businesses what have you explode and all of a sudden the guy that you saw struggling that was riding his bike to work that you didn't know about was just investing in him in himself and he had a business and all this other stuff all of a sudden he's a millionaire because he took the time to cultivate that relationship okay with his business so it's the same thing with um long-distance relationships some long-distance relationships people don't get to see each other much you know what I mean they take you they don't it can be in another state it could be in another country two different countries is the hardest two different states at least you could drive to see each other maybe fly to see each other if you're in the same country and it's less expensive but when you're two different countries that's that's got to be the fucking hardest you know what I mean and what can happen the cons in a long-distance relationship is that sometimes people start to be uh they become delusional like literally they become delusional they let their insecurities get the best of them so they let people um you know they'll they may let people get into their head you know um she's over there he's over there you don't know what he's doing he could be fucking other bitches you know this and that um that's that tends to be the main one um are are you staying faithful to me are you um you know are you really being true to me will I get to see you are you ever or are we going to get to see each other again all that crap they start facebook stalking each other they start instagram stalking each other um me when I was in the long-distance relationship um I actually I trusted the person um I've been in three long-distance relationships one of them I met the person but three this three long-distance relationships and um um you know I like I said I met one of them and but I trusted them um she on the other hand told different side of the spectrum you know what I mean um always questioning me always questioning me if we ever had a disagreement automatically I'm fucking some other bitch well I'm doing this I'm doing that and I'm like you know drive you know I'm you know I had to tell it several times you're driving me fucking crazy you're driving me fucking crazy you know what I mean and um you know it it will ultimately be the absolute doom of your long-distance relationship as well as a close-distance relationship when you're insecure and you let those things get to you okay so long-distance relationship if you have the patience if you have the perseverance if you can do delayed gratification to be one of the greatest things in the world because guess what when you eventually say I love you on the phone after four or five six months whatever it is for your time limit you really mean it because you haven't had sex you haven't touched each other you fell in love with each other's true spirit energy and personality but if you do not have patience if you're not able to long suffer if you cannot do delayed gratification then I suggest that you do not get into a long-distance relationship because um then basically you have to make it an open long-distance relationship because you're going to want the comfort of the opposite sex there was a girl I was talking to where she she actually started to kind of hang with a guy that was interested with her at one time because I wasn't there and although she said they didn't do nothing I don't know it's what she said but I trusted her so to this day I trust what the woman said she didn't do nothing but she did hang with him and she admitted I hung with him on purpose because I missed the attention of having someone there she said she didn't get something nothing just hung with him um but you may want to have an open long-distance relationship where you both get to date other people and you know casually and then when you finally are able to be together then you can be together and then you are actually absolutely exclusive but um it can be done I was able to do it you know before you know you can have an exclusive online long-distance whatever it is relationship it can be done it can be done it's just how much self-discipline do you have and if you know yourself if you you know yourself well if you do not have this self-discipline to do it then I suggest you don't get into one I hope I have helped you out I might never see that if any of the rest of the 10 percenters needing my advice make sure you're right me if any of the 90 percent the testosterone percent need my advice y'all know what to do go to the about section go to the send message and send me an email do not use my business inquiry mailbox or you can go straight to my facebook fan page you can message me there all right one million subscribers