 Okay, act, baby. Yo, check this out, man. I'm with one of the hostess with the mostess, man. Yo, this is one of the most gorgeous ladies of the new school, leaders of the new school, man. She has got a voice that will command a whole arena. Come on now. You know what I'm saying? When she be talking that shit, she be talking that shit and she does her research and she know what she talking about. Say that. Backwards and forwards. It don't matter who she's talking to. We're gonna never go over her head. She gonna always be over your head if you under-informed and whatnot. Like I said before, she is the host with the most analysts with all the analysis. Y'all give it up for the one, the only. The one, the only, Stephanie. I'm called my, Thompson, let's go. Come on. Yeah, and her voice is music to my ears. I watch her ear every day for nothing. By far the best intro I've ever, ever received. So thank you. I remember you so deserving. I appreciate that. And I appreciate being here, Jack. You know, especially to be on a new set. You know, I feel, I feel like I made it. I feel like I made it now. Yo, you did, man. The birds are chirping. And I appreciate that. I love waking up to birds chirping. Yes, yeah. I don't like that shit, but you know what I'm saying? It is what it is. Why not, Jack? It's like another reason to appreciate God. I did it, but I just feel like my windows ain't thick enough. You know, like man, it's like, is this motherfucking in my house? Trying to wake you up with nature. It's just too real in my house in the morning. Okay. Well, yeah. Okay. Your birds sound disrespectful. It's like they there, right? By the window. Mine not disrespectful. Doing that. Yeah, yeah, yeah. But I, you know, I was once, you're 28 now, right? 29. Oh, you're 29. Come on now. Turn 30 this year. You turn 30 this year. I do. Wow. May 1st, Taurus. Which I think you're Taurus, right? Yeah. See, and that's why the kindred spirits. Okay. You knew that I was a Taurus? I may have looked at a, you know, interview or five, 10, 11, 12, you know, plus I watch you. Yeah. Yeah, I don't just, when I tell people, I appreciate you or I love the work that you do. It's not just cause it sounds good or it's the right thing to say. It's cause I genuinely do. Man, I thought you was Captain Kangaroo the whole time and wait a minute. Captain Kangaroo. That was what I was like. Wow, you're a freaking Taurus. Yes, I am. Yes, I am. That's what's up, man. And why are Taurus is special to you? So I appreciate Taurus because of our loyalty. I think we are some of the most loving people. It's just, you know, just like a bull because that's what represents us. It's like you flash a red flag so many times. Like I'm going to tell you like, hey, so that's the bull kicking back. Hey, I don't like that. That's the orange. Hey, I don't like that. And then you keep flapping, flapping, flapping that red thing and then I'm just going to charge. And at that point it's no return. But it takes time to get there. Before that, we're the most loving people. It does. And motherfuckers, we always trying to act like, you know, you ain't getting more change. How are you? Why are you acting like? It's like, no, and I'm, I love communicating. Like I will tell you, I don't like that. Don't do that. That's hurting. And then after so many times it's like, oh, okay, so you don't understand this language. Okay, let me level up, which I don't like going there. But if I have to. Yeah, yeah, yeah, that's a, man, I've never heard it, you know, spoken so eloquently. And now I know how to do it from here on out. The reason why I don't fuck with you is. Don't use it as a crutch. Yeah, I don't know. Yo, I'm going to, yo, I'm going to crush you. No, no, Jack, it's, I mean it's all. I'll crush you black. No. Yeah. Jack, you, you, it's like, we know that's a part of us, but it doesn't mean we had, we use it as an excuse or a crutch. It's like. Listen, let me, I don't, like a lot of times, like in my, I'm 40 now. So I'll be 41 next month. Come on, 41. And so what, what that means is what I've learned is I don't need to have an explanation why I don't fuck with you no more. Oh no, that's a fact for sure. You know, when you just see me not talking to you or calling you or accepting your calls and blah, blah, blah. I feel like, you know, the last nigga that I just cut off. He told me, oh, so you, you, you, you mad because, and he hit it right on the head. Yeah. So he knew he had them disrespected me. So you don't explain why you just cut people off? I just cut people off. Okay, see. Because, but I had, but this was the third time. Okay. This was the, no, I'm sorry. This was the fourth time. And, you know, really, it's, you really are supposed to make the same mistake twice. Correct. First time, you know, that's on me. Especially once again, once again, when you get my age, Yeah. It started to get a little redundant. Like, yo, you feel for that again? Yeah. And I do it to myself too, Symphony. I'm like, damn. You did it again. Leave, I feel for that bullshit right there. I know better. Yeah. And I think that's a lot of us too. Like we, we put up with more than we need to, but I, and I think too, I think you hit it right on the head. Like as you get older, you just understand, like, it's just certain people I don't want in my life. And that's okay. As long as, as long as I've communicated to you along the way, hey, I don't like this, but you keep doing it. Then yeah, cut them off, block them. Do what you have to do to protect your piece, protect, you know, the world that you want to live in. But yeah, no, I'm not about to, even at 29, I don't believe in having people in my life that just don't add value. Or, you know, and that can be in a challenging way, or just, you know, all positive. Like I love friends that hold me accountable. They tell me like, hey, Symphony, you know, girl, you know you did XYZ. I love those. But if you're just all negative, or I feel like the energy is just not right, you know, no, no, no, block, my block list have grown. Yeah. Yeah, no, I love a good block. Yeah. Because, you know, too many times we be having like default friends in our life, you know, like you said, just be just hanger owners. And you're like, man, you know, what, I think 50 cent, he said it the best, man. You know, the people you talk to about nothing determine your outcome. And what that means is that if you spend your time talking to somebody that has nothing to teach you. Yeah. You know, what are you talking to them for? Yeah. You know what I'm saying? You're wasting your time. Yeah, and time is something you can't get back. You'll never get it back. It's the most valuable thing in the world. Yeah, we say time is money and I find that to be one of the most false statements that we push. Time is not money, because I can get money again and again and again, but I can never get my time back. No. And especially I feel like right now, like time is just moving so fast. Like I don't know what it's been lately like. My time has just been. It ain't even been lately. What's happening now, as you get older, it's not enough time, because it's more behind. When you were younger, you couldn't wait to get to where you are now. Right, yeah. Now, you know, you recognizing that you're turning 30, then at 30, gonna turn to 40 or 35 real quick, then it's 40. Yeah. Man, what the fuck just happened to me just now? For real, and even like with COVID and all like, that freaked me up. Like it still blows my mind that it's 2023. My mind is like in 2025. Like I don't know where the last two years went, but they just, yes, it's maybe that I'm just getting older because, but I don't know. When I went to Mexico, time slowed down a lot. When I was baiting it, I don't know. You was having all the fun in there. I seen you twerking inside your eyes. No, I couldn't see. You know nothing? No, I took it out. I see you. You was on that with them girls. I'm gonna tell you two things, two ways I know you like. Okay. You will never ever, ever, ever, ever, ever, ever, ever, ever. You were twerking from the front. Catch me on live twerking. You were twerking from the front. And two, I don't even drink. You don't drink? No. Get out of here. That's crazy. Hey, yo, Chrissy, let me get another drink. I'm gonna drink it. You want some water? I have some. Okay, cool. I brought water and kombucha. Now, kombucha has a little alcohol in it. Technically, fermented tea, but. Fermented tea? Yeah. That's how you do it. It's good. Oh, okay, you look good, girl. You got to work. Oh, she's fine. It's all right. Come back here one more time. One more time. Yo, spin around for, yo, come on now. That way. I think she's trying to play shy. Girl, you're shy. She ain't nowhere near shy. You knew when you woke up this morning, you put that on, you was like, you know I look good. She just showed me a picture of her butt naked. He told me, girl, and you was like, oh, and I'm glad he did, because you look good, girl. She comfortable even with, that's like too much for her right now. What should be comfortable in? Man. Oh, you like, you like. With the kucha cutters on. Okay, okay. With the kucha. Girl, baby, do what you do. Ass out, all that, yeah. And y'all be, y'all like it. Shit, and she, you know. We deal with it. Not, not y'all, not y'all deal with it. We deal with it. Come on, Jay, look at her. You know what I'm saying? You know, everybody got their friends. Look at her. No, you look good though, mama. You look good. Yeah, you more than welcome. Come back one more time. We make it much better. Because we gotta, you have to motivate your people. You have to motivate your friends. And that's your way of motivating your people. Yeah, yeah, more time. Go ahead and twist it. Okay. More time, yeah, right there. Because sometimes you gotta put the medicine in the candy. Sometimes you gotta put the medicine in the candy. Because it's full of sugar. We'll make the medicine guide now. I see what you did. I saw what you did. All right. You are a mess. That's Chrissy, the bartender right there. You can catch her around here in these Atlanta streets. Come on. And tip her good. Tip her good. Actually tip her great. Yeah, you should. You shouldn't leave without a tip. You should tip her. Yes, yes. You should definitely tip her. As a matter of fact, anybody that gives you service, you need to be leaving a tip. Period. Mm-hmm, mm-hmm. 100%, yeah, yeah, 100% man. Yeah, so you, I mean, you probably wasn't drinking, but you was over there. You know what? I saw your neighbor. Okay, I mean, I mean, it's, of course. I saw your neighbor. The sun was out. I will say though, it was a great time as far as like the weather, but it was actually probably the worst vacation I've ever been on though. Why? Tell me what happened. I heard a white couple try to proposition you. Oh my gosh. Okay. Put it down, put it down, put it down. So I won't go into like be too specific because I don't want to, the person that I went with, that's their livelihood and I appreciate them for having me, you know, and I don't want anything to happen to their livelihood. However, my experience is my experience. So I was there, as I said, I don't drink. I'm not a- It's black girl. The person doesn't matter. The people there. See how you trying to get me? The person, yeah, the person doesn't matter. It looked, the person doesn't matter. It was a girl. I can say it was a girl. I knew it. I knew it. That's all the way you look at Chrissy. Not like that. Not like that. Not like that. She's a married woman. Whatever. A married woman. Anyway, focus, focus. He's a married woman. You said she's a married woman. You see? That was last. That's how headline. That's what y'all be doing. Who is y'all? Y'all just what y'all be doing on that show. You can never compare me to y'all. Did you say I am one of one? Yeah, you even won that one. I am the only symphony. So I can never be prepared to be compared. But anyway, Jack. I'm sorry. It was right there. Of course people were drinking, right? Like everybody was just drunk, toasted. So. Man, everybody don't drink. Everybody there was. Like they were done. Anyway, so they were, I had a couple. First he started out telling me how much he loves his wife and then he was like, yeah. She calls this time like leaky time. Like when I wake up in the morning and I'm really hard and Seaman just starts coming out of my penis. And I'm like. I was, I say, we didn't know you was gonna do that. Especially the way you just covered this shit up. I didn't know. I didn't know. We didn't know you was gonna do that. Surprise. Surprise to y'all. Spoiler alert. But it didn't stop there, Jack. Okay. It didn't stop there. Holy shit. I went from white women telling me like, oh my gosh, I love your lips to oh my gosh, I love your hair to one night I dressed up. I had my hair pushed back and it was like in a big bun. Mind you, I'm probably the, it was a couple of other black people there, but I have locks in my hair. And so I'm the blackest looking woman there. You know, in the sense of like. Vlogging it. Yeah. In the sense of like if people thought I was from, they were asking me like, oh, are you from Africa? Are you from da da da? This lady, she says, oh, you are definitely Wakanda forever tonight. Oh, right. Oh, I ain't now. Oh, I ain't now. There ain't nothing racist about that. And I don't want to say anything because I know the person right now. And I'm just sitting there like itching. Like my face is hot. Then the couple comes back and was asking if I can come to, asking if I can come to the room with him and his wife, trying to get him and his wife to, or get his wife to like touch my butt. Oh wow. And like a couple men coming to me like, it shouldn't be like that. What I saw at the pool, it looked real nice. I just want to tell you that. And I was just like, you know, Dear Heavenly Father. What was you like? Dear Heavenly Father. Dear Heavenly Father. I come to you today. Please give me the patience. It was honestly the worst trip because all I kept thinking in my mind is, one, it's disrespectful to even say certain things. Yeah, that's not right. Think what you want to think. But like to my face to say it and have the boldness to say it and then show up next day as if you didn't. But in my mind, I was like, if these were black men talking to a white woman like this, oh, y'all would be in like, y'all would be done for. Your job would be gone. You might be arrested. Might get beat, you know, beat up in the middle of the night. But the boldness to like say it to my face and show up next morning like, oh hi, Symphony. Wow. Good morning. And I'm just like, I really want to say some things. So it was a great experience because I got to get away for a little bit. But it was the worst. That's probably the worst. And I've, you know, gas stations here in Atlanta be, they be on and I know, I know you get them. I know your fine tail get them at the gas station. Oh, dang, she, no more, but you once did. Don't do me like that. Yeah, I do know what she's talking about. Like the electric pump. Yeah, I do get electric, the electric stop. Why she do me like that, Jett? Why she hit me like that? I didn't roll back out of from out of town with Chrissy before. How many times she had to stop? Man, my nigga, it took us by two days to get back home from a two hour trip. Correct. I thought we were gonna get raped at one stop. One electric pump stopped. It, cause it sounds nice, right? I got some batteries in my book bag. Correct, it sounds, the idea of it is beautiful, like, and I even thought about it. Like I really want an electric Jeep, but yeah, to stop, that many things. I'm gonna think about it. Chris, I'm like, cause I know she wasn't gonna do shit. We gotta stop again. I mean, she, you know. In the, That's Buck Hood now. Yeah. Surround. Oh. Yeah. Oh, yeah, yeah, yeah. Smart woman. Hold on, hold on, where are you from? Where are you from, Chris? Miami. Oh, okay, so yeah, you did know, okay. Yeah. You know. You have to pay, you have to pay attention. Yeah, you gotta pay attention. Everywhere I go, my neck is on the swivel. And I was about to say, oh baby, I keep one tuck. Don't, don't, don't play with it, don't play with it, don't play with it. Now baby, who's gonna play with it? Y'all, I can tell both of y'all are real violent behind the scene, cause they're so nice. They're really nice, really good people. You have really great people, but it's just if you push me there, but also too, like, to live in the world that we live in and not be prepared for the worst case scenario at all times, y'all, some of y'all men be real aggressive. I said some. No, no, I'm aggressive. I'm definitely aggressive. You one of them? I'm, but I'm aggressive if you let me be aggressive. Okay. You allow me to. Give me an example, give me an example. Okay, like, I didn't hit on you before. Have you just, but not in a subtle, it was in a subtle, okay? But that's no, not in a aggressive way though. That's aggressive for me. Okay, okay. That's aggressive for me. Okay. Like, you could tell I like you, but I ain't finna, like, grab you or no shit like that. Or I ain't gonna be like, man, I sure would love to sit on your face. I mean, you to sit on my face. That's all I was saying. I knew what you meant. It's okay, I knew what you meant. That's what I meant. Well, yeah, no, you've been a gentleman. Every time that we, Yeah, it was super regular. Every time I've seen you, I've been around you. Yeah, I'm light aggressive. Yeah, I wouldn't put you in that category. Yeah. They don't be light, they be heavy. Real heavy. So heavy. Like, for instance, what's heavy? Heavy light. And I want to, your Chris, I want yours too. I want to hear yours too. But she works in a bar. That's why I really want to hear, what's the heaviest aggressive? What's your heaviest? My heavy, yeah, my heavy, I wouldn't compare my heavy to hers because she's in a bar. But yours might be lighter. That's what I'm saying. You think you have her? Hers might be lighter than yours. I don't know. So it makes it worse. Exactly. You can't say it real bad because I'm so... Okay. What's your sign? Okay, I'm gonna have to, okay. Look. What's your heaviest, Chrissy? And what? And aggressive come-ons to you. Guys, approaching you. Oh, baby. What's some shit? Especially they be like, you know, like, can you do the VIP with me up there? Hold on my phone, time out. I'm a bartender. Wait, do the VIP with me? What do I mean? The VIP were on. They wanna be on the VIP. They be doing it? No. I mean, no, that does not happen. No. We civilians. Yeah. But, yeah, yeah. Hey, I ain't been in the VIP since I was, like maybe 16 years old. I had the worst VIP experience in my life. What happened? I'm gonna tell you after you tell me what's your most aggressive, yeah. My most aggressive was on my trip. That was the most aggressive. And that's what it was. It was like, because I feel like growing up, I've always had to deal with the typical, like, hey girl, let me get your number. And you tell them, no, you dumb, B, da, da, da, da, da, da. Yeah. Or like, somebody would disrespect you and call you a dumb, B. What? Because you don't give them their your number. What? I love my rejection. At all. I love rejection. And then, and then, they don't. And then you'll tell them they, you'll tell them you have a boyfriend. Oh, no, I've had, I've dated older men. Baby, it's just like that. And then I just be looking like, you haven't had any life, I don't know. What's the, what's the what? But anyway, yeah, I've had men where you'll tell them, like, oh, I got a boyfriend. And he'd be like, well, if I was your boyfriend, I wouldn't have you at the gas station by yourself. And it's like, boy, no, if you was my boyfriend, you'll be hollering at another woman at the gas station while I'm at the other gas station for my life. Stop playing. But yeah, no, so I'm used to that. But my trip, I've never experienced that in my life. I was like, and I ain't know what, you know, how to respond. I was sweating. It was, that was the worst for sure. Now you guys, now I've never, have I ever been in VIP? Yeah, you have. I don't think I've ever been in VIP, Jeff. Yes, you have, you have. Okay. Now that's when I used to dance now. I did do my videos. You used to dance? But I used to have them. Oh, you learned the new things. I don't know you. I used to use VIP for them, they wanted to make coke. Yeah. And I made money, hella money. You were selling coke as Nancy? No. Oh. Cause they don't know how long they been in there. You were dokin'. What? Oh, shit. No. You was cancin'. I don't know how long they been in that VIP. They just know they got that white with them, they good. Oh my God. It's crazy out here. It's all, listen. That's what I said, time. I thought I knew y'all. Time is the most valuable. You can get money in multiple ways. You can't get time in multiple ways. Wow, that's nuts. Okay, man. Your VIP experience? Oh my. You thought you was about to not tell me? I was in Magic City. This is before, once again, I'm 17, I'm 41 now. So it don't look like the way it look now. This motherfucker, as a matter of fact, inside my memory is actually ragged in a motherfucker. So mind you, I'm a young man. I'm workin' at MCI World Come and whatnot. Kevin Samuels was workin' there when I worked there. Really? Yeah. Really? I remember him workin' there. He's been around for that? Well, I mean, I know he's been alive. But he wasn't doin' that. He wasn't doin' that. Okay, okay, okay, okay. He was one of the top salesmins there though. Okay. Yeah, and so MCI, you'll hear a lot of guys, my age and a little bit older, that were workin' at MCI World Come. And I was makin' more than everybody in my house. I was makin' maybe 2,000 to 2,500 a week at a sellin' long distance and whatnot. Come on. But mind you, it was some kind of scam, some shit, cause the company end up foldin' and stuff after a while, but I had already quit and committed to comedy by them. But so I had took one of my checks. Well, half of, I took maybe $700 of my check and went up to Magic City at 17 years old with a fake ID. Oh, Lord. And man, this was for BBLs. Yeah, yeah, like before the... Different era. Man, these motherfuckers were so naturally fine. I ain't seen no grown woman butt-nickin' in life in my life. And they were all just walkin' around like ponies. It's everywhere in there. Not like ponies, Jack. They were all round there, mother... Lookin' so... Bruh, and when you young, you just be nothin' for nothin'. Oh my gosh. I'm 17, like just walkin' around, nothin'. Ah! Ah! Yeah, they thought I was having seizures in there. But anyway, I sit down and I called myself by the, I ordered a Shirley Temple, because I heard, I thought it had alcohol in it, but I didn't understand it, didn't, because I'd seen it on TV. I used to drink it all the time. I went drinking at the time. Right. Oh, that's good, you said 17. This is 17. Yeah, I was 17. And this fine-ass, big booty, big titty motherfucker, she was so crazily fine. Asked me to go in the VIP with her. And then we went in there and she's like, was dancin' on me and then unzip my pants and pulled my whole dick out and got down with rubbin' on the motherfucker and then kissed the shit and then said a little bit of pussy on there and shit. Mind you, I ain't put on no condom or nothin', and like, you ain't thinkin', you not thinkin' about that when you 17 in the groan. You're not thinkin' that. Right, for sure. Yeah, you're like, yo, I'm fuckin' a grown-ass woman and I can't wait to tell my homeboy. So, that nigga's not gonna believe this shit right here. So, yeah, so she had, she sat down on half of my dick and then came up and was like, hey, so, you know, how much money you got? I said, shit, I got $700. And she was like, that's perfect. Give me that, I'm finna rock your world. And I heard rock your world on a whole bunch of TV movies and all that shit. And I was like, I need to get my world rock because I was just havin' regular sex. Right. You know, I ain't had my world rock shit. Right. And all she did, she took my $700 and then sat down all the way on my dick and got right up and then walked out to VIP. She came back in, gave me her phone number and I called her a few times and shit and she was asking me for more money. And I thought we went together. Ooh, Jack. That was my first and last finesse in VIP. I was gonna ask, what'd you learn from that? Yeah, I learned that these hoes don't love me. Well, you know, yeah, I... Yeah, I thought we went together for real. In her defense, Jack, you know, you went to Magic City. Yep, yep, yep, I didn't know what that was. Yeah. It's okay, but you learned. I thought we had a connection. Mm, no, you had a money connection, you know. You were at ATM, she, you know. But you know, I'm glad you learned something. Yeah, I, yeah, listen, I learned so hard of a lesson that it never happened to me again. Well, one more tip time later on, but yeah. What happened to never again? Hey, but the next time... That's how folks meet up, like, yeah, no, I definitely learned. I learned my lesson two hours later. Here you go, Jack, pull him back up. Well, let me just go try one more time. It never happened in the strip club again. Okay, it was just somewhere else. Nah, yeah, and the next time it happened, it didn't even have no sex involved. Oh my gosh, Jack. Yeah, and so that's a whole different robbery. You're a storybook. You have the most extreme stories. Yes, I do. Definitely. Ever. But other niggas got them too, but they just won't tell you. You're right, you're right. They won't tell you. I'm not the only nigger that didn't bin booboo the fool. No. Or when they lumped along. And we appreciate your vulnerability. Now, people that are watching this, younger guys who's probably 17. They gonna say that. They gonna say that. That was me, I did that. But even, oh, I thought about doing it. Let me not do that. So you're just, you know, preparing. I give away the secrets now. Yeah. I give away the signs, all of that. So you'll know that you're supposed to be getting fucked on the first date or the second date at the most. At the most. That's not really where I was going. Oh, that's the one what she was gonna say. That was a, like a big, big turn. You know what? I'm not gonna let you finesse these niggas no more. Oh. And yeah. Not on the first, not on the first or second date. Listen, listen. Find out first. Oh, bless it. And find out first, fellas. Ma'am, before, I think you find this hell and everything, but do you think I'm sexually attractive? Oh my God. Are you sexually attracted to me? And if they tell you no, nigger, you probably shouldn't go out on a date. That sounds like a six day trip. So you're saying you only go on dates to have sex? No, I'm saying I only go on dates with people that I have a connection with. And if you don't have a connection with me, but I just got a connection with you, then we're not connected. But men are more physical. Like y'all see things, like women, I've dated men that I didn't find attractive, but because of the emotional and mental connection, like that, like I oversaw. How long did it take? Watch what I'm about to do for y'all, fellas. I'm going to save you some time, when y'all might save some time, girl. I don't recall. She don't even know. She recalls, she don't want to tell you. But I also like, I tell people from jump, like if sex is what you're aiming for, this is not the place for you. I tell guys that from the very beginning. Now that's dope. Yeah, if you want to have sex, I'm gonna go, you don't want to date me, because I don't want to have sex. Now I'm not a virgin. I've had my experiences, but I don't want to have sex again until I'm married. Because I've seen the effects of how sex, what sex can do to a relationship for me. And yeah. What did it do to you? Love is blind. Love can be blind. I know. Again, standing situations that I don't need to be in. So, and then plus two, like, I realized some men rely on like sex to like block out this emotional availability. Like I really desire my man to have, be emotionally available. What does that mean to be emotionally available? Talk about how you feel. Being able to, if we have an issue, articulate what you're feeling and hear me too and understand what I feel and let's converse about the things that we experience. You know what, you know what happens. Now just like, oh, let's go, I'm mad, you mad. Let's have angry sex. And it's like, no. Yeah, yeah, I get that. We gotta talk, we gotta talk about it. But see, I think that goes into once again, the same thing that I'm talking about. And that's the interview process and whatnot. And if you get there off the rip, like talking. Yeah, talking. Yeah, yeah, yeah. Yeah, talking and making sure that, you know, it's not just him being interested in you. Right. You being interested in him. Cause a lot of women are not interested in the guys that they're talking to. They wanna see how far that you will chase them. How much you wanna know about me and whatnot. And then that's how I depict out of all my options, how far I go with you. Who's going to work the hardest? But who's working hard for him? Nobody. Well, I don't date women, so I can't, you know, what you've experienced is what you've experienced. But for me, it's important for me to pursue my man as well. Like I don't like, like just being, like he's doing all the work. Naturally, I put in work as well because I do feel like men don't have, and I think we're getting to a place where it's becoming better, but like y'all don't have those safe spaces or where you're able to, you know, you have to go out and have all this armor on. Black men have it the roughest to me in the world because like y'all, just what the world put y'all through is just crazy. You know, black women go through it too, but black men do as well. So for me, like I always want to create a nirvana, a safe space for my man. When he comes home, you feel comfortable to release and take your K-pop, talk about what you feel, being able to release. And then also I'm gonna let you know every day, like, you know, I'm feeling you, I love you, you know, I'm vibing with you, whatever it is that I'm pursuing you as well. It's not just you doing all the work. So I don't date women. I don't know what other women do, but as for me and my friends, we pursue our men. 100%, I definitely, I definitely, I concur with that. I agree with you on that. Oh, look, I was a green-way object. Yeah, we got to a good space with that. And ladies, y'all need to start pursuing y'all men for real. Like y'all really need to show them love. Black men have it tough out here. We have it tough as a community. As a matter of fact, black men and black women stop all this going back and forth and trying to compete with one another and going, head, head, oh, well, you did this and I did that. We don't need that. It can't be tip for tap. It can't be tip for tap because we go through enough as black people and we're never, and I don't like using words never and always, but we will never make it to the other side where we say we want to be until we come together collectively and say, you know what? I know you go through it and I go through it too. There's no reason to compare our traumas or compare what we go through on a regular basis. I understand what I have empathy for you. You have empathy for me. Let's heal one another and then move forward. But we will never reach where we want to reach until we do that. Yeah. And when I was saying what I was saying, just to clear up some shit and whatnot, I just don't want you to be that negative fellas or ladies, I just don't want that guy to be that guy. You say, man, I got this one stupid ass nigga. He be paying this and that and that and that. Don't lead him on. And I got this other stupid ass nigga. They talk about you like that. Yeah, yeah, don't lead him on. They talk about you like that. And I don't have that. You don't want to be that guy. You don't want to be that guy because it is another guy that's out here. He ain't got them getting to a hotel room and then he up here fucking in the car in the bushes in the woods. She coming out that motherfucker with goddamn leaves in her head and all that shit. You want to be that nigga. Now, hold on. No, Jack. No, Jack. If she asking you for shit, if she asking you for shit, you better make sure you say, hey, so what's that going to get me? Well, Jack. Jack. Yeah, what that going to get me? Jack, or just walk away. Leave. You ain't got to ask for, oh, what's But if you don't, if you walk away, you don't know what that will going to get you. First thing, what's she going to say? You got to stop. No, no, no, no, Jack. Chrissy, where you at with it? Chrissy, Chrissy, you got some dumb dude. She's going to give you the secret. Chrissy, Chrissy, you got them dumb dudes. I got this dumb dude. Is that you, Chrissy? You be saying that. Chrissy will finesse the fuck. OK, 35, but my soul is very old. Same here, yeah. I don't believe in that back and forth drama stuff. I'm quick to just walk away. We can't talk about it, communicate about it. Yeah, and just be upfront. Like if you hear for one thing, say that because you're giving me the opportunity to choose. Let me figure out if I want to say it. Yeah, yeah, and that's the thing with men and women. Like if you want to be in a situation and it's like, hey, I'm just here. I want to be here for six. OK, cool. I'm here because I want to spend money. Say that and give it to them. Yeah, because you never, and some people make, some people get jiggy with it. Some people be getting down to get down. People love it. Yeah. There's people for it. But don't stay, Jack. Just leave. No, no, 100%. Yeah, definitely leaving if I'm not getting my drink money back or I'm not getting my Ruth Chris money back. You be taking on the Ruth Chris. Come on, Jack. OK. But it only happens on some Bruno Mars shit. When I say Bruno Mars shit, look it for you. That's what I like. I was going to anyway. And you just happened to be. It wasn't because you wanted to go. OK. OK, that makes sense. Yeah, and it balances out that way for you. You know what I'm saying? So you don't like, let's say she is tricking your ass. He would like, shit, I was going to get a steak anyway. So it's like, I just ain't finna take this motherfucker because I just learned another name. Women will make you what they learn. Like, you could be my food buddy. Now, bitch, I don't want to be your motherfucking food buddy. She telling you a friend thought. You're like, what is a food buddy, fellas? A food buddy is a guy. Well. She ain't been to this restaurant yet. You take her out on different food dates and whatnot. And she just eating off you because she ain't got nothing to eat anyway. And she got by, like, 10 of y'all in the phone that she didn't talk to that day that's asking her to go out. She just trying to see who want to take her to the best place. You know what I'm saying? You don't want to be that nigga. But it's all about the type of chick that you pursuing and whatnot and what she's asking for from you. When I say that, ask her, what happened to the last guy you was dating? And you got to listen to that and don't be thinking to yourself, I'm better than him. Correct. Because she just ain't met me yet. You know, no. She like that. Yeah. Don't be trying to change nobody. No. You know what I'm saying? And the same thing with women. Don't be trying to change them. Listen to what he, if he tell you I got three baby mommas, why the fuck would you want to be the four? You know what? I've been asked to be a baby mama before. No, you haven't. I swear to Bob. It just dawned on me. I don't know. He has, I think he has three, four baby mommas. Ashley, you know what? I've been asked twice. This is crazy how this is like, oh, I've been asked twice. One guy in the industry. Actually, both. Both in the industry. Now, you definitely got some good-ass baby momma. If I wanted a baby. Dang, I bring baby momma energy. Yeah, man. You got the kind of athletic build. I feel like I bring like mother, like the mother to my children energy. See, Chrissy wants you to be the mother to her kids. Yeah. Can you do that? Be the mother to your kids. 16-year-old already has a beautiful mother. Yeah, yeah. Yeah, no, but I've been asked twice. And that's just crazy to me. So what did you do? Oh, no, I told him, no, I, no. Oh, OK, cool. I thought it was pending. Let me just. You got to ask. Thank you for asking. No, Jack. I told both of them, no. And in the, don't disrespect me like that. No. You definitely more than a baby momma. You see what I'm saying? And if you end up, there's, you know, if you end up being a baby, but like walking into it, like, oh, I just want you to be my baby momma. That's the, that's what I'm talking about. Not, you know. And some people be like, really? Me? No, they don't, Jack. Shut up, I wouldn't. No, I will believe that. I mean, there are all sorts of people in the world. And that lifestyle may work out for some people. Because I mean, Nick Cannon's, Nick Cannon's, you know, his technically like their baby mamas. And that's OK. Like, I don't see anything wrong if both of y'all have an understanding of like, hey, this is what I want. This is what you want. It makes sense for a woman to want to be Nick Cannon baby momma. I get that. For them, yeah. It don't make, make sense for somebody who want to be Nick Gunn baby momma. Or Nick, or Nick Pistol baby momma. That don't make sense. But I also don't think those type of guys would even ask somebody to be their baby momma. No, it always makes sense. Like, you have to have, you have to have some type of stability to like want women to be your baby momma, right? 100%. You, you think that, but it is some, some people like, damn. I just want. Yeah, I got to crap this one. It do be people that just be like, I just want, I just want to keep it. Yeah, I want that for my self. I don't want a relationship. I just want to keep it. I want, they want access to you because of the way you make them feel. And you want them people to make people feel good. I appreciate that. Yeah, I appreciate that. And so they want that energy and an offspring that gives off of that too. So you have to be really protective of your power. Oh yeah, no, I am. I've learned that the hard way, the hard way for sure. But yeah, no, I can't, I can't be no. You had abortion. Have I ever? I have. I thought you said you learned it the hard way. No, listen, that's not about that. I learned I have to protect my energy, Jack. Got you. I understand. Jack said he has to ask. And that's OK. It's for them. Because I know you. You know, you know, I wouldn't disrespect you like that. It's your dog. It does not bother me at all. 100%. It does not bother me at all. Showed up. So like, you know, tell us where it all started at, man. Did you always want to be a, first, I need to understand what you categorize yourself as. Would you say you are a journalist or a reporter? Would you say that? I say multimedia personality. Because I host events. So like MCing, you know, I moderate comedy-hype news show. I conduct interviews. So just multimedia. And now I'm into like producing. And I have my own TV show. So yeah, I just use multimedia personality because I do so many things. And I plan to do more things. But to go to what I think your other question was, was did I always want to? I think it was always in me. Because when I was younger, I used to put on like little productions for my family. So I used to put on like talent shows and like all those things growing up. But because I was conditioned to like, oh, you got to go to school, then you go to college, then you get a good job. I used to tell myself that I wanted to be a lawyer. Because I like debates. And even to this day, like I like a good debate. When it comes with, you know, you have your information, I have my information. And then we can debate on something. So and then, but I went to college to actually be a physical therapist. So I ran track in college and just said, oh, I'm going to be a physical therapist just because I was in the sports arena. And then my junior year, I was like, yeah, this internship made me realize this is not what I want to do. But, you know, I'm going to finish college and then see where life goes. And honestly, I got into media. Sounds cliche, but because of God, I moved to Atlanta for a corporate job, started going to different events, and then just kept meeting people. And they were like, oh, I love your personality. Have you ever done this? And I'm the one to never say no. I'm like, yeah, yeah, yeah, I did, I did. And then it just, it just kept happening from there. I wasn't lying, Jack. I was stretching. What do young people say? You was manifesting. No, I was stretching the truth. I'm playing with you. Because I told you, I used to put on little productions for my family. So technically, I've hosted. Technically, I've done interviews. You know, technically, I did those things. Technically. But you know, cause they never asked, you know, how big was the audience or how old you were. It was a technique, yeah. You see, they just said, have you ever done it? And I was like, yeah, I have. So now. And I showed up and did it. Yeah. And now I've done it. So now. Yeah. Big. So how do you land into being a personality? What you mean? I do like, when I first seen you, you was on comedy hype. Yeah. How did you even get to that space? Well, is that the first thing that you started off with? No. So I started, I started out modeling. And I was at a, I was doing a, I think it was a hair show or a fashion show or something. And the photographer there, he saw me and he was like, it's just something in you that I saw. And he was like, I would love to do a photo shoot with you. And you know, at first I'm like, mm, you know, who is this? This is back home in Greenville. Big shout out to Chris Kelly. And so I did my first. That's the thing from Chris Cross? No. No. That's what you talked to? No, no, no, no, no, no, no. This is from Greenville, South Carolina. He's a photographer, as well as a studio owner out back home. So yeah, he was like, hey, I want you to do a photo shoot. Did my first photo shoot. And then he was like, hey, come to a fashion, you know, a fashion show with me. And I went there and met a guy named Jerome in the house media. He's always a nigga named Jerome. I know Jerome and his production is in the house. Jerome in the house, big shout out to Jerome. And I started doing red carpet interviews. And Jack, I was working a full-time job, literally. And I would leave and probably do three, four events after my full-time job, doing like red carpet events, hosting different people's parties and all this kind of stuff. And then every time I went to a red carpet event because I wasn't getting paid, my idea was, OK, every time I leave, I need to leave with some type of contact information or connect with somebody. And just make sure it's mutual. It makes sense. And I would just go and just be myself. And people would come up to me before I could go up to somebody else and be like, hey, I really love your personality. I'd like to introduce myself, blah, blah, blah. And then met a guy named Daytrick Davis with Dayray Media. Daytrick. Big shout out to Daytrick. Yes, I'm shouting them all out. He's a Daytrick. Yeah. This man, I love it. And yeah, so then we started doing events together. And it just grew from there. So Comedy Hype came around during the pandemic. So by time, Comedy Hype came around by this time, I've hosted with Bronner Brothers, Essence Festival. I've been on tour with Ford. They do an HBCU tour. And big events like that as well as events here in Atlanta. And Comedy Hype reached out to me during COVID. And everything was shut down. I was supposed to do the Tom Joyner cruise that got canceled because of COVID. And then next thing I know, Comedy Hype reached out to me by email. Yeah, man, I was so hurt. We were rehearsing for Tom Joyner cruise because the crew that I was going to go with, big shout out to Amari, I was going to go with. The whole thing is a lot different. And I really love it because we get to do some dancing and some games. And it's very interactive with the crowd. It's not just welcome to such and such and dah, dah, dah. And curating the event. But you're actually involved with the people. So we were coming up with a dance. And it was great. It was going to be with Christina Grainsville, Amari Harvard, as well as DJ Genius. And I know there's one more person I'm forgetting. But yeah, we were supposed to do it. And then it got canceled. And maybe like a week or so later, Comedy Hype reached out to me. They emailed me and were like, they were looking for a moderator for a new show that they were going to be putting out, Comedy Hype New Show. And told me to come by the studio. And since then, it's been history. It's been a great ride. I've learned so much about comedy. Oh, so you wasn't really into comedy like that before on this type of level? No, I've always been a fan of comedy, obviously. Yeah, of course. But never having the information that I have now or understanding the art of comedy. Like, I tell people come to me all the time, like, oh, are you a comedian? I'm like, no, I would never disrespect that art. Because people that really understand what y'all do and what y'all do for the culture, there's no way I could ever get on stage and disrespect that art. So the things that I've learned up to this point, man, it's been so eye-opening to not only like comedy, but just life in general. Because that's what y'all do. Y'all take the things that we go through, put it in a storyline, and then come on stage. And sometimes make us laugh, sometimes it's not. Sometimes it's a think piece, depending on who's the comedian. But it's definitely been a journey that I'm appreciative of, because it's opened my eyes to so much. And then learning about a lot of the black stories that I didn't know about, the TV shows, how to use us to spit us out for networks, and things like that. Yes, it's been a good journey. But now, I think now we're 810,000 subscribers on YouTube. What? Yeah. We'll hit a million. We'll hit a million. That's amazing. Man, yeah. And I wish I could go back to see what it was from the beginning, like when I first got there. But I remember when I came in, Pierre was there. And you know Pierre. He gave me the hardest time. Who's your favorite comedian and all this kind of stuff? Pierre was trying to fuck. That's all you. No, he wasn't. That's his game. No. That's his game right there. Pierre has never tried me. Contrary to what everybody thinks. Yes, he did. You just didn't know he was. No, no. You didn't pick up on it. You didn't pick up on it when I was trying you. Jack, Pierre did not. Pierre, no, literally, stop making me laugh. I'm not laughing. I'm telling the truth. Pierre has never tried me. Sometimes I see people in the comments like, oh, Pierre, just flirting. Pierre has always been like a big brother. Him and Capone have always been. You ever had a big brother that wanted to fuck you? Oh my god, not the big brothers. Well, I don't use that. I don't use that time loosely. You don't want to say that. I don't use it loosely. I don't use it just, oh, everybody's my big brother. Tell me some big brother shit that nigga did for you. Watch this. Well, I won't say a certain person. But Pierre has definitely set me up for some big wins as far as for my show, as far as for my career, like connecting me with people to bet, you know, whether it's me learning something, because again, I'm not a comedian. So there's just some things that I do not know. I do that too. Jack, who have you connected me to? No, I do it. Like, you want to be connected with. No. What you want to do? We can play this game. Don't play. No, Jack. I just choose not to. It's true, but. Yeah, he 50. I'm 40. You know, I like, yeah, I say that shit for ladies. I can't stand this man. I appreciate you. I know, I know, look, I'm be looking at you the side now, like Jack trying to help. No, I'm gonna tell you, I'm like, listen, if I do this. And you, I'm gonna tell you, you can start right. I'm gonna be like, no, you can start right there. You can start, because what's for me is it's gonna happen regardless. All right, what's for you to come faster if you do it like this? I don't like fast. What should I do it slow? I don't do my business fast. I like, I like my business take its time. So you sound like a cat, wouldn't I? I do my business. Not like cat. Cat would be doing his business. We're on the. If fast business don't, fast business crash fast. I know you are. You're crazy for her. I don't do my business. I don't like, I don't like it fast. I ain't talking fast. You just listen slow. My business ain't even South Carolina. South Kackalacket, born and raised. We're over here doing the business. But I love Georgia though. I love Atlanta. I do love Atlanta. You down here by yourself? No, my dad actually moved down here over 10 years ago. And cause I used to come to Atlanta all the time. Like I used to go, I can't remember the name of the skating ring, but I used to go to a skate ring. No, it was a skate ring that turned to a team club. It turned to a team club. Oh, okay. I don't know. Cause there was a couple of them, I think, in Atlanta. Got you. But yeah, no, I used to come up here all the time and have always loved it. Like my dad used to make sure we did things around the city. Like we used to go to the underground, like the old underground. We used to catch the Marta on the book. You started out selling drugs? I stopped. I started and stopped the same day there. Yeah. What, did something happen? Yeah, I was, I met this dude and he was like, I'm trying to sell him some weed and stuff. And he was like, how much you got? I like men's shit. I got a hundred and twenty dollars. Where he said, give me that. I'll be right back. I gave him all my shit. He didn't come back. I waited there like three days. Jett, did you stop selling? You should stop selling drugs that day. I did. Okay. Completely. The games are real. I realized I was not Franklin St. No. That day. No. I'm like, I don't got this. No, it ain't in you. And it's okay. Yeah. It's okay. Now you out here slanging jokes. Yep. For 100%. Mm-hmm. And it's working and stuff. You know, so you got this new show. Yeah. Tell us about this show, man. Man. And you got some dope ass players on that motherfucker, too. Including you. Including you, you're on it. Thanks to you. Yeah, no. It was truly an honor. So I have a show called Black Friday Report that I co-produced with Killer Mike. So the show actually came up. I don't know if you have seen Trigger Warning on Netflix. But in Trigger Warning, one of the episodes, Killer Mike, he... Oh, yes, I have seen that. Yeah, where he's tried to support Black on Businesses for like three days. He's crazy. Listen, again, I would never disrespect the art of comedy. So I'm not gonna call him a comedian. Now, Killer Mike is funny. He funny enough to do it. He is funny. If he ever thought to like, hey, let me partner with this comedian to really learn, like, he's funny. You know why he don't do it? Why? Because he know it ain't no money in that shit. I think when he retire, he might. Yeah, it's easier. It's like it could be a side hustle for someone like him on his level. People would come to see him. But when you gotta do show after show after show after show and whatnot, like it ain't, it don't balance out to what he does in one night as runner-jewels or with the deals that he on another level. Yeah, no, he is. And it's crazy. It's like he's still growing. Like he's still relevant. He's still growing. I'm super excited for the things that's coming. Like the managers, like I'm always in awe that we are even connected. And I'm always grateful like I don't take that relationship. That's the cloth you come from. Yo, you are amazing. I appreciate it. A wealth of knowledge. You are a role model. And you got your head on straight. You know exactly what your purpose is. And you know, when I see you, I see a young Tracy Edmonds. Come on. You know what I'm saying? Come on. I don't say that lightly. Like that. And it's saying, what the young people say, it's saying no cap. Yeah, no cap. No, I appreciate it. I don't take those words lightly at all. So thank you. I appreciate that. Dig, dig, dig. So yeah. So yeah, in the show, he talks about supporting black on business. He challenges us to support black on business every Friday. So I took that challenge and ran with it. Like I've always been a person to support black on. Like to this day, every day, you will see me in black on right now. My shirt is black on. Shout out to Kelana Barfield. My bag is black on. Shout out to who she thinks she is. So every day I'm very intentional about wearing a black on product every single day. But when he pushed out that, it was like, okay, well let me take it to social media and I'm a whole him accountable. So I used to like ask everybody every Friday, like, hey, here's who I'm supporting, who are you supporting? And then I would ask killer Mike, okay, like, hey, it's Friday, who are you supporting? And then he and I connected. He like, he appreciated me holding him accountable. And so I thought of an idea to where we should host like black Fridays at the swag shop. And he connected me to, you know, the store there and we started doing those at the swag shop where every Friday black vendors would come there. Cause, you know, the barber shop is like, back in the day, that was where you would, cause I used to go to the barbershop to get my neck shaved up cause I'm real hairy. Oh yeah, I felt your arm earlier. Yeah, yeah, no, it's. It's thick. You know, it, my mama didn't bless me with a lot, but she blessed me with a lot of hair that I do have. So I used to go get my neck, but every time I was there, like people would come with like, whether it's clothes or food or whatever to like sell it, you know, come into barbershop. So like that was the culture of bar, you know, the being at the barbershop. Make a fine ass little bear. That's me for real. Like these arms are crazy. It's, it's, yeah, no, I could probably braid my arm. You could comb your head. No, I could. I could. What's that? Yeah, no, it's there. And I'm not ashamed of it. No, no, no, no. I've done photo shoes and they'll be like, do you want me to take it off? And I'd be like, no, keep that. Can I tell you something? What? It's sexy. Is it? Yeah. I've never been told that before. No, it's very sexy. Thank you. Yeah, I appreciate it. I didn't know I was into that. I'm gonna start treating it like a beer. Yeah. And really like take care of my hair on my arm. Yeah. I should come out with a product. Yeah, that's good. That's good. I like it. I mean, I need, I got to hop on it right after this. Listen, it ain't symphony and they don't have the platform that you have. There you go. Y'all heard it here first. Y'all heard it here first. I'm gonna come out with something. 100%. Okay, let me focus. It's sometimes it get dry, so I'm gonna come out with it. Yeah, make sure your hair wet. Yeah. Let me finish my, let me finish my story of things. So anyway, so Killer Mike told me to come out. This man, my stomach is tight. Boy, I don't need to work out. I just need to come around here and laugh. Killer Mike told me to come up with something for social media so that he could support me because he appreciated what I was doing. And I'm a creative, so social media is nice, but I'm thinking about longevity. How can I reach more people? How can we spread more messages? Because the dollar only stays in the black community for six hours. That blows my mind. The stigmas on black on businesses blows my mind because I hear people so quick to say, oh, this is why I don't support black on businesses or I'm not gonna support a black on business but you have a bad experience at one Walmart and you still show up to that same Walmart. Granted, some people don't go to Walmart anymore. I eat myself. But you know when we were going to Walmart, I know when I go to Walmart it's gonna be long lines, customer service is gonna be horrible and the food is bad, whatever, whatever, but people still showed up. So that's, I want people to, if you have a bad experience at a black on business, yes, hold them accountable but give them that feedback back to them. So that's where I came up with the idea for Black Friday Report, which is my new TV show where myself and a celebrity guest, we go in, we visit a black on business, that's activity-based because there are different black on businesses. Some people think, oh, black on businesses are only hoodies and da-da-da and those are nice but it's like, no, there's a plethora of black on business that are out here. You may not just have access to them or you don't know about them. So let me create a platform for them. So we go and visit a black on activity-based business and at the end of our experience, we grade it in three categories and as you know, the cost, the customer service and the overall experience because based on the research, those are the top three reasons why people stray away from supporting black on businesses. It costs too much, the customer service is bad and then they talk about what it looks like, what it smells, the venue and all these type of things. So just overall, and just putting the, as we said earlier, when Ms. Fine walked up here, putting the medicine in the candy, look, she said, that's me, putting the medicine in the candy of like, hey, we're having a good time but I'm also giving you a call to action of when you go support these black on businesses, one, show up because the dollar needs to stay in our community for so much longer than six hours. Like we're the number one consumers. There's so much power in that. We talk about not having power, but my gosh, we, first of all, we have culture and we run them numbers up. We keep businesses alive for a long time. We make their businesses pop. There's so much power that we do have. We just have to know how to use it. So when you go to these black on businesses, show up. But then also if you have a bad experience, give them that feedback instead of going to go run your mouth somewhere because you could use your mouth for better things, go and eat something good, go, you know, go talk into somebody, go speak to yourself, whatever it is. So I want, I want Black Friday report to not just be something that's entertaining but also informative and where I'm speaking to your subconscious because consciously you're watching and you're just having a good time. But I want you to watch it every Friday and subconsciously I'm just talking to you. Telling you, oh, when you have this same kind of experience, oh, hey, go do this. Or, you know, hey, hey, make sure you're supporting a black on business, leaving those books, planting those seeds. So yeah, Black Friday Report airs every Friday at 8 p.m. on Peachtree TV and we're also in talks with Bigger Network so you'll see it in other places as well. That's what's up. Hey, Wizzy Craig, he had a question for you. Yeah. Hey, Craig. How you doing? Good, how you doing? Pretty smooth. So I know you working with Killer Mike. Yes. And he always said that, you know, if you live in Atlanta and you're black and you have business about yourself, you know, you have the opportunity and the, you know, moral duty to like mold the culture. You know what I'm saying? So do you feel like you're doing that with all the works that you're doing? You feel like you're like, you know, molding the culture some? Man, you know what, I, and I'm, cause I like to stay candid and honest. For a while I didn't understand the impact I was making because sometimes you work so hard, right? That you don't take the time to look up or look at yourself, right? Until the other day, somebody struck it like right in my, like right in my throat. It was just, you know, sometimes you get that fraud when you got the crowd in your throat, it was right there. So they said, you come from South Carolina, like I'm from South Carolina. I, you know, my dad was here but I didn't really know anybody. And I've come to Atlanta and been able to create opportunities for other black owned businesses. And, you know, the things are nice, being on a billboard, being on TV, but like there are true businesses that look to me and thank me for like, hey, I appreciate you for X, Y, Z. A couple of people have come to me like, hey, you helped me create a business that's doing very well. So now, yeah, I do understand the impact that I'm making and I don't plan to stop. So now that I have that understanding, it's like, oh, it's really go time. Like it was go time before, but now that I understand, like truly understand my impact and I see it not just, you know, people telling me or whatever, like I see the value in that, absolutely. And it's not going to stop anytime soon. So yeah, I appreciate it. You got anything else with us? Yeah, one more thing. Come on, Craig. The name Black Friday Report. Did y'all come up with that name, like after y'all came up with the idea? Cause I know you're explaining it that you're going to these different businesses every Friday, but like I was thinking too, like maybe they got the name from, you know, the day after Thanksgiving. So like, was it the name first and then the idea or like the idea and the name? No, so actually I came up with the name first. So because he challenged us every Friday to support a black owned business. And he said, you know, redefining what Black Friday is. So I took that and then knowing that I wanted to give the businesses feedback, like a report. So then that's why I combined the Black Friday Report. Crazy thing is I, so I came up with the idea and called Caleb. I'm like, hey, I want to present something to you. Cause even though like we're close, I still treat him like, hey, you know, I just want to, and I presented the ugliest presentation. Like to this day, I keep it, but it's so, it's hideous. Like it's, it's so hideous. But I met him at the studio and broke down what I wanted to do. And he was like, oh, let's run it. Like he love, he love the name. He love the concept. And he was like, oh, let's, let's go with it. And it just made sense. Like I did think about, you know, the day after Thanksgiving, but that would, that didn't come to after, like when I thought about it and I was like, oh, this is it. I didn't even consider the day after Thanksgiving at all. However, you know, it, it all makes sense. It all intertwines because it's like, you know, the money that you save up to spend on Black Friday, you need to be, every Friday you need to be putting in, making it, being very intentional to spend money with, if you, to spend money with Black business. If you can say, oh, the day before Thanksgiving, you know, I got to show up at 4 a.m. people standing in lines to fight to get inside. If you can do that for a business that probably don't give two craps about you, your culture or anything about your community. My gosh, you can pour it to your community every Friday. It can be as small as going to go buy a necklace, cologne. Like there are businesses that have affordable things that are within your price tag. But then also there are some people that you go and buy the Louis and the Gucci's and a blah, blah, blah. And you know, I'm not going to, you know, talk down on anybody that does. However, you, if you can spend that money, then my gosh, you can go spend this money over here, somebody that sells hats for $400. Shout out to Fruitwish and Hat Company. You know, they're hats, high quality, real hats. And I hear people like, oh, it's expensive. But then I'm looking down at your shoes, like, well, hold on, one plus one equals two, right? The money that you spent, do are they pouring back into your community? Because I doubt it. Like it just, there has to be some reshaping of the way that we see each other and the way that we see our businesses and the way that we understand our people and what we need. Cause we get upset when we see somebody else do something to us, but it's like, but what are we doing for us to make sure that we're protected and that we're good? So yeah. 100%. God is good. And this is not for me, this is for a friend. Somebody wanted me to ask you. They know that you're waiting until you get married to have sex. But in between that time, are you cool with tongue kissing and feeling on each other? Shout out to your friend for that answer or that question. For me personally, because for me, there has to be limits, right? So when you're practicing celibacy, you have to have that conversation with your partner of what's far for you. Like what gets you in the mood? Because, you know, when the, when things get to rolling, you know, sometimes the tumbleweed- Things get to trolling. You see what I'm saying? So it's just like for me, I have to be mindful. So I can't do the like, oh, all right. So we gonna, we gonna tongue kiss and rub and touch our body parts, but we gotta stop, right? Like no, you done, you done got me high, round up. Yeah, yeah. Correct. And then now I'm hurt out. No, no. Men talk about, and see, but I, and the thing is, I love having conversations about sex because I still think it's important. I still think it's important, especially for women. We don't talk enough about sex and not just like, I agree. We don't talk enough about like what we need and our sexual experiences. People wanna know what y'all need. Men, there's a, there's a series called Sex, Love and Goop. It was on Netflix. Sex, Love and Goop. And it was G-O-O-P. The most informative series I've ever seen because women, a lot of women never experienced a real orgasm. Never. We fake it. And we make it, and we make it seem real. We just fake it so much that it'd be like, we think like, okay, this is the norm, but there are a lot of women that never experienced it. And it's just, sometimes y'all just gotta slow down and just, you know, take it, learn, right? Because what I learned from that series is how they actually took the clitoris out of books because they were like, oh, it's childish for a woman to be experiencing an orgasm. White man came up with that idea. And so there wasn't a lot of education on a woman's vulva because actually we were calling it a vagina when it's not even that. So education, you gotta educate yourself. It's very difficult to take a woman there because our bodies are a lot more complex. But men just go educate yourself. Start with Sex, Love, Goop. It was a great series. I learned a lot about men. You learn about men and women. And it's like a sex therapist that takes a couple of couples. You know what I'm talking about? A sex therapist that takes a couple of couples through different experiences and they learn what they like and all these type of things. So, you know, learn. But yeah, I think women need to have more conversations about it because y'all get y'alls. Y'all be good. Y'all be, yeah. And yo, cause I'm celibate too. So when I was having sex though, I wanted to definitely understand what it takes for women to get theirs. Cause you know, I think that was my goal. I didn't care about me. Really? That shit's... That's selfless. Yeah, and it's not right. That's the end, that's selfless. It's not right. That's selfless. Why everybody laughing at you? People don't believe you. I believe you, Jack. You get the immaturity. Jack, I believe you. Immaturity. Jack, I believe you. People evolve and you know. Then you know, you've grown personas. You see, come on. Being infamous and all that other stuff. But yeah, they don't know how I really am. You right. I don't want to, you can't do this except every energy on you. You know, you have to, like I'm... When I get married, that's... Yeah. Jack, you want to get married? Of course. I've been married before. Oh, I did. I did know that. I did, I did. Yeah, it was a hot six months. Yeah, I think I heard that in one of your stories. It was on the comedy hype, yep. Okay, yeah, yeah. Definitely, yeah. Got married on Valentine's Day. Got divorced on Halloween, you know. Yep, you got... That's two crazy... That's two crazy holidays. Got a trig and a trig. It happens. You dribble, you shoot your hope for the best. There you go. Can I be in the wedding? Say it again? Can I be like a flower girl or... I think that we probably can find a place for you there. Yeah, I feel like I could be a lit flower girl. I'm actually about to have my first grown flower girl experience, but it's not real. I never got... You know what's funny, too? I never got a chance to be in a wedding because I got married to the couriers. Oh, so are you... When you do get married again, are you gonna have like a wedding? It just depends on where we are financially. Okay. Yeah. Yeah, well, I mean, this had to be big though. Say it again? It doesn't have to be a big wedding. It doesn't, but then it depends on who you marry and what they need. That's true. That's true. So once again, it's not about me. It's not about you. It's always been about the woman and, you know... It's about y'all. Happy spouse, happy house. Yeah, happy spouse, happy house. There you go. Instead of happy wife, happy life, happy spouse. That's not cool. No, that is, I don't want that, please. Oh my, let's get rid of that. We both got to be happy. Correct. I do not want a yes, man. Don't just... Okay, whatever you say. I'm definitely a no-man. Yeah, because he just wants you to shut you up. Shut up. Okay, baby, yeah, okay. Whatever you say. And then he gone about his business. But truly, like men deserve to be loved on, like, nah, happy spouse over, yeah, yeah. And so that's what I'm doing in my life right now. I look forward to it. That's why I was asking that. Yeah, no, yeah, no. In the meantime, no. But we can hold hands. I like holding hands. Yeah, 100%. I'm a hand holder. Yep. Jack John Abel, it's... What a... Okay, Jack. Sure thing. Sure. Man, I really appreciate you coming over here to New Jack Thriller City, man. And I'm, like I said, I'm a really big fan of yours. And I can't wait to see what's gonna happen. And I can't wait for the new show. Even like I said, even though I'm on it, if I wasn't on it, I did something that I definitely support. And I support you in whatever you do. This isn't your first, and I hope it's not your last time that you come on here. And I look forward to, you know, just like I said, just growing and expanding this friendship. Yeah, absolutely. And again, I appreciate you for having me here. I don't take your words lightly. You know, we joke, we have a good time, but anytime that you pour into me, like I really take a moment to stand still and receive it, because I don't take words lightly, especially when they're coming from someone that I really care about. So thank you so much for having me. All I ever wanted to do was pour into you. And until next time, I'll see y'all later. This is New Jack Dillard City. We over when we out of here. Jacky. Take a seat. Right, Slick. Look, don't even say that. They always want to slide in there. Slick is on no wood. Okay. Look, like look. I'm, like, look like I'm on fire now. She has me in the free around it. Kelly, when I have a drink, and shiny when I pump, he'll talk like, look, don't be fucking with my tape there. You listen to this Marvin, you won't listen to this mother tongue.