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The guys of "That's What He Said" talk about who should REALLY be taking charge in the bedroom. Ladies, you're definitely going to want to hear this one because their answer may surprise you!
Dear Abby ain't got nothin on us.
YourTango goes straight to the source and gets guys talking about sex, dating, make ups and breakups. I'm Sami Jarush and this is "That's What He Said". Who usually takes charge in the bedroom?
I'd give five thousand dollars in my left hand if I never had to take charge again in my life. If I just had to pay a sum and for the rest of my life, I know I could just sit back, and sleep, and eat.
Nobody wants to be with the woman where you have to constantly be the instigator. Nobody want to be with the guy who's just waiting.
Essentially, you don't want a dead fish but you don't want her to assume your role too much.
For Giancarlo, the latter. Definitely doesn’t want to do too much.
Say you're trying to pleasure a woman and she's telling you what to do. Saying "I don't like it like this. I prefer it this way.” Are you open to that or is it kind of like a blow to your ego a little bit?
If you're married and you've been together for a while and she wants to say "Honey, I was thinking the other day you did this thing that was really great. Try it again."
Of course I'm gonna try it again. I I had a girl that actually told me I kissed her too much. whoa hey I've been doing this long time ain’t nobody complain.
Hey we're actually having sex and she's like telling me something to do, she goes “If you do that, you'll have me."
I have you!
It's a gross generality to say that most men are task oriented and if someone is going to lay out instruction, by the way we do X Y and Z, this will happen, you're like okay! I love when they're sexy and they say I really love this, can you do this?
What I don't like, I've had these-this happens pretty often-they grab your hand and put it somewhere else.
It's like they're saying you don't know what you're doing. Yeah I had one woman who when I would say top she thought I would say stop. So we kept having that problem.
I will never say stop, that will never be a word I use.
I told her that. It's only forward here, believe me.
Maybe you should tweak that to tip? I think that could solve that problem.
I tried tip and she didn't something weird. She left money on the nightstand?!
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