This is the most important quality to look for in a romantic partner, and how to know when you’ve found it.
Hint: it’s not something you can find on their bumble profile!
When you’re out on a date, you are processing a lot of information. You’re asking questions of yourself and evaluating how you feel about the person sitting across from you.
Can I see myself with this person in the long term? Does this person seem attracted to me? And so on.
But the #1 quality to look for in romantic partner is: Does this person show signs of relational self-awareness?
Watch this video to learn what relational self-awareness is and how to know if you’ve found it. You can also take a deeper dive by ordering LOVING BRAVELY: 20 Lessons of Self Discovery to Help You Get the Love You Want.
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