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  • A.J. Mahari Welcomes You To Her Youtube Channel

    3,169 views 2 years ago
    Counselor and Life Coach A.J. Mahari talks a bit about her Youtube Channel and shares a few of her websites that you can visit, for blogs, articles, other free information as well as where you can purchase her Ebooks and Audio Programs. Show less
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  • A.J. Mahari on BPD for Borderlines Play all

    A.J. Mahari, author, life coach and strategist, talks about the many challenges and issues those with Borderline Personality Disorder face and how to get on the road to recovery.
    • Devaluation Projection and Lack of Trust in Borderline Personality Disorder - Duration: 10 minutes.

      • 7 years ago
      • 42,042 views
      A.J. Mahari, author, speaker, mental health and life coach, talks about how the negative thinking experienced in the devaluing half of borderline splitting clouds the reality that people with Borde...
    • Borderline Personality - Wants vs Needs - Duration: 9 minutes, 44 seconds.

      • 8 years ago
      • 10,367 views
      A.J. Mahari, author, life coach and strategist, a woman who has recovered from Borderline Personality Disorder, in a video recorded in August of 2008, talks about wants versus needs and the challen...
    • What is Recovery From Borderline Personality Disorder? - Duration: 10 minutes.

      • 6 years ago
      • 6,461 views
      Author, Life Coach, BPD/Mental Health Coach, A.J. Mahari, who herself, recovered from BPD in 1995, talks more about what recovery is and information that she will be blogging about, and sharing in ...
    • BPD Coach A.J. Mahari on her BPD Coaching - Duration: 4 minutes, 28 seconds.

      • 6 years ago
      • 5,602 views
      A.J. Mahari is a BPD Coach who coaches people with Borderline Personality Disorder as well as Loved Ones, Family Members, Partners, Ex's, co-workers, and friends of those with BPD. Coaching helps b...
    • Borderline Personality - Feeling All Alone - Duration: 13 minutes.

      • 6 years ago
      • 8,992 views
      People diagnosed with Borderline Personality Disorder often feel all alone. They are often triggered, when relating in various types of relationships and relational dynamics, back to what is their ...
    • Beyond Borderline Personality - Duration: 9 minutes, 37 seconds.

      • 6 years ago
      • 1,092 views
      Life Coach, and Author, A.J. Mahari, invites you to join her on a new website, new Facebook Page and a new online support community designed to help you get on or move further along the path that i...
    • The Pardox Of Recovery From Borderline Personality Disorder - Duration: 10 minutes.

      • 6 years ago
      • 7,204 views
      Author, Life Coach, BPD and Mental Health Coach, A.J. Mahari talks about the central paradox at the heart of recovery from BPD. People with BPD have layered defenses against emotional pain that the...
    • Shifting the Paradigm of Borderline Personality - Duration: 7 minutes, 7 seconds.

      • 6 years ago
      • 1,294 views
      Life Coach, Author, BPD and Mental Health Coach, A.J. Mahari invites you to join her on her newest website, Beyond Borderline Personality with an open mind. There is a lot to be gained from thinkin...
    • Borderline Personality Pain and Recovery - Duration: 9 minutes, 49 seconds.

      • 6 years ago
      • 5,625 views
      Life Coach and BPD Coach, A.J. Mahari, talks about the good news of the pain that is so formidable in Borderline Personality Disorder (BPD). For most people with BPD there is a profound amount of e...
    • Psychosocial Skills and Borderline Personality Disorder - Duration: 10 minutes.

      • 6 years ago
      • 2,281 views
      Life Coach and BPD Coach A.J. Mahari, in an excerpt from a workshop about Psychosocial skills, talks about how and why these skills are important for people with Borderline Personality Disorder. Th...
    • BPD Triggers are Gateways To Recovery - Duration: 9 minutes, 58 seconds.

      • 7 years ago
      • 13,944 views
      Author, BPD and Life Coach, A.J. Mahari, discusses the central role that triggers play in not only Borderline Personality Disorder, but also in recovery. Triggers produce intense emotional dysregul...
    • BPD Understanding vs Being Understood - Duration: 9 minutes, 35 seconds.

      • 7 years ago
      • 5,957 views
      A.J. Mahari, author, speaker, mental health and life coach talks about the need for understanding about BPD and the need to be understood. For those with Borderline Personality Disorder and their l...
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  • Narcissistic Abuse Cluster B Abuse Recovery Play all

    Information, insight, tools and techniques for those abused by a Borderline, Narcissist, Sociopath or Psychopath or Co-morbid BPD and NPD - Cluster B Personality Disordered person(s). A.J. Mahari, counselor and expert in Cluster B personality disorders helping Loved Ones heal from the painful traumatic abuse of these toxic or pathological love relationships - or any type of relationship with someone with a Cluster B Personality Disorder.

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    • The Only Protection from BPD, NPD, or Psychopath - Duration: 14 minutes.

      • 7 months ago
      • 5,383 views
      What is the only absolute and healthy protection from those with BPD, NPD, or ASPD - the sociopath or psychopath? It is not what you might think. This sure fire healthy way to really protect yourse...
    • No Love From BPD NPD - It's Abuse - Duration: 13 minutes.

      • 5 months ago
      • 4,570 views
      For those who are the adult child of a Borderline or Narcissistic mother or parent(s) at the core of all that has traumatized and hurt you and caused you so much suffering is the injustice of not b...
    • How To End Narcissistic Abuse - Duration: 14 minutes.

      • 5 months ago
      • 3,214 views
      The main way to end Narcissistic and any other Cluster B abuse is by learning to begin (or continuing) to shift your focus from figuring out and dancing with the Narcissist, (or other Cluster B Per...
    • Protection from Narcissists & Psychopaths - Learning Mindful Self Control - Duration: 29 minutes.

      • 6 months ago
      • 2,813 views
      A follow-up to my video "The Only Protection from BPD, NPD & Psychopaths - More about learning to practice Mindfulness and the benefits and process of how Mindful Self Control is really the only an...
    • Why the BPD or Narcissist Can't Get To Accountability - Duration: 14 minutes.

      • 4 months ago
      • 2,742 views
      People with Borderline Personality Disorder and/or Narcissistic Personality Disorder are not people with a fully developed "Self". They are arrested emotionally at a very young age. They did not pr...
    • The Narcissistic Cycle of Abuse Rapidly Repeats - Conversation is Competition - Duration: 29 minutes.

      • 3 months ago
      • 2,660 views
      The meat of the Narcissistic Cycle of Abuse can rapidly repeat, even in a few minutes. In a conversation, short or long. Every conversation for a Narcissist is a targeted competition for supply. Th...
    • Emotional Incest - Understanding the Parentified Child - Duration: 14 minutes.

      • 6 months ago
      • 2,434 views
      When a parent, often with Borderline Personality, Narcissistic Personality or who has Anti-Social Personality Disorder is lacking "Self" and is emotionally so immature that they seek to have their ...
    • Taking Revenge On a BPD or NPD - The One Healthy Way - Duration: 36 minutes.

      • 3 months ago
      • 2,270 views
      There is only one healthy way to take revenge on a person who hurt/abused and/or traumatized you who has Borderline Personality Disorder, or Narcissistic Personality Disorder, or Anti Social Person...
    • Abusive Narcissists Out Themselves - Duration: 11 minutes.

      • 4 months ago
      • 2,182 views
      Let the Narcissist self-destruct and defeat him or herself. Give them enough rope by disengaging and not being the mouse to their cat and mouse game of abusing you just to feel better. Narcissists ...
    • The Narcissist Gets Into Your Head - Duration: 14 minutes.

      • 6 months ago
      • 2,127 views
      Narcissists and Psychopaths are predators. Why can they so easily get into your head? They choose you before you know what is happening. They charm (the verb) they bait-bomb you, they move so fast ...
    • Narcissist Martyr Must Escape Responsibility - Duration: 12 minutes.

      • 5 months ago
      • 1,892 views
      The Narcissist or (untreated) Borderline co-morbid Narcissist will after raging at you, slinging endless accusations against you - accusing you of what they just did to you as if you had done it to...
    • Narcissistic Exploitative Entitlement Targets Your Decency For Supply - Duration: 52 minutes.

      • 3 months ago
      • 1,647 views
      Those with Narcissistic Personality Disorder or co-morbid Borderline Personality Disorder/NPD can in so many slick purposeful ways using a mere word or two exploit you from a place of entitlement a...
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  • A.J. Mahari on BPD for Non Borderlines Play all

    A.J. Mahari, author, life coach and strategist speaks to family members, loved ones, ex or relationship partners of those with BPD - non borderlines about BPD.
    • 5 Key Elements For BPD Loved Ones To Be Aware Of - Duration: 21 minutes.

      • 3 years ago
      • 20,431 views
      Author, Life Coach, BPD/Loved Ones Coach, A.J. Mahari describes 5 very central key elements for loved ones of those with Borderline Personality, bpd family, Ex's, significant others of those with B...
    • Why Cluster B Loved Ones More Emotionally Reactive - Duration: 11 minutes.

      • 7 months ago
      • 921 views
      People on the other side of a person(s) with a Cluster B personality disorder - Borderline Personality Disorder, (BPD), Narcissistic Personality Disorder (NPD) or Anti-Social Personality Disorder (...
    • The Borderline Narcissist - Confusion - Duration: 15 minutes.

      • 6 months ago
      • 3,770 views
      Are you really confused by a partner, loved one, teen, parent or adult-child that you thought had BPD or NPD but that you might not have realized has both Borderline Personality Disorder and Narcis...
    • Emotional Incest - Understanding the Parentified Child - Duration: 14 minutes.

      • 6 months ago
      • 2,434 views
      When a parent, often with Borderline Personality, Narcissistic Personality or who has Anti-Social Personality Disorder is lacking "Self" and is emotionally so immature that they seek to have their ...
    • Enabling/Rescuing Narcissist/Borderline - Duration: 11 minutes.

      • 5 months ago
      • 971 views
      There are many ways and levels of enabling or attempting to rescue a Narcissist or a person with Borderline Personality or co-morbidly both.

      Session(s) NPD Abuse Recovery:
      http://phoenixrisingpub...
    • BPD - Compassion & Loved Ones - Duration: 18 minutes.

      • 5 years ago
      • 6,391 views
      Author, Life Coach, BPD/Mental Health Coach, A.J. Mahari, on video, on the subject of non borderlines, loved ones of those with BPD, partners, and family members having compassion for those who hav...
    • BPD Loved Ones - Validating Borderlines - Duration: 7 minutes, 26 seconds.

      • 5 years ago
      • 5,415 views
      Author, Life Coach/BPD Mental and Self Improvement Coach, A.J. Mahari, talks about loved ones validating how the person with Borderline Personality Disorder in their lives can help or may not help ...
    • Non Borderline Recovery - Life Coach A.J. Mahari - Duration: 12 minutes.

      • 5 years ago
      • 5,598 views
      Non borderlines, loved ones of those with BPD in all various forms of relationships to someone in their lives with Borderline Personality Disorder need their own recovery. This recovery is needed w...
    • Borderline Personality and Relationships - A Toxic Dance? - Duration: 15 minutes.

      • 5 years ago
      • 26,771 views
      phoenixrisinglifecoaching.com - BPD Coach A.J. Mahari - Borderline Personality and Relationships are complicated for both those with BPD and their Loved Ones. Complicated by the very nature of BPD ...
    • Adult Children Need To Set Themselves Free - Duration: 17 minutes.

      • 5 years ago
      • 7,656 views
      phoenixrisinglifecoaching.com - Author, Life Coach, BPD/Mental Health and Self Improvement Coach, A.J. Mahari, herself the adult child of two personality-disordered parents knows what it means and ...
    • Adult Children of Personality Disordered Parents Need Their Own Recovery - Duration: 7 minutes, 41 seconds.

      • 6 years ago
      • 21,166 views
      Speaking not only as a Life Coach, BPD, and mental Health Coach, A.J. Mahari emphasizes to you, if you are adult child of a parent with BPD, NPD, or any personality disorder (or combination of said...
    • Do Borderlines Play Mind Games? - Duration: 9 minutes, 57 seconds.

      • 6 years ago
      • 63,063 views
      Author, Life Coach, Counsellor, BPD and Mental Health Coach, A.J. Mahari, who herself recovered from BPD in 1995 and who is now and has been, in the past also, in the non borderline role and unders...
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    A.J. Mahari's Vlog - Counselor, Life Coach, Author, Blogger, Podcaster, and Radio Show Host
    • The Only Protection from BPD, NPD, or Psychopath - Duration: 14 minutes.

      • 7 months ago
      • 5,383 views
      What is the only absolute and healthy protection from those with BPD, NPD, or ASPD - the sociopath or psychopath? It is not what you might think. This sure fire healthy way to really protect yourse...
    • Protection from Narcissists & Psychopaths - Learning Mindful Self Control - Duration: 29 minutes.

      • 6 months ago
      • 2,813 views
      A follow-up to my video "The Only Protection from BPD, NPD & Psychopaths - More about learning to practice Mindfulness and the benefits and process of how Mindful Self Control is really the only an...
    • Narcissists Never Apologize - Why not? - Duration: 14 minutes.

      • 6 months ago
      • 2,837 views
      People with Narcissistic Personality Disorder (NPD) never apologize. Why is that? How many times have you been down tumbling painfully down the rabbit hole of trying to be seen and heard when you h...
    • The Narcissists' Borderlines' Scapegoated Adult-Child and The Legacy - Duration: 13 minutes.

      • 6 months ago
      • 883 views
      Being the Narcissist's Scapegoated child and then Adult-Child leaves an impacting legacy. In this video I talk a bit about my experience and understanding of this in my own life.

      Session(s) NPD A...
    • The Narcissist's Victim Is Not Seen - Duration: 14 minutes.

      • 6 months ago
      • 1,557 views
      If you are, were, or become the victim of a Narcissist you are not even seen by that self-supply agenda of what they want to take from you. False promises of what they will give you are as unreal a...
    • Reclaiming Self -BPD, NPD, ASPD Abuse Recovery - Duration: 14 minutes.

      • 6 months ago
      • 836 views
      The trauma of loving someone who then at some point morphs into your worst nightmare if you have a relationship with, or were the child and are not the Adult-Child of an untreated person with Borde...
    • The Borderline Narcissist - Confusion - Duration: 15 minutes.

      • 6 months ago
      • 3,770 views
      Are you really confused by a partner, loved one, teen, parent or adult-child that you thought had BPD or NPD but that you might not have realized has both Borderline Personality Disorder and Narcis...
    • Protect Yourself From a Narcissist - 10 Awareness Points - Duration: 15 minutes.

      • 1 year ago
      • 5,576 views
      You need to protect yourself from a Narcissist in your life. Anything short of that will mean a lot of heartache and pain in what can only be intensely toxic and painful relational dynamics. As a C...
    • DSM 5 - Psychiatry Out of Control - Is Everything a Mental Illness? - Duration: 20 minutes.

      • 3 years ago
      • 1,618 views
      Life Coach, BPD and Mental Health Coach, A.J. Mahari, asks what mental illness even really is. Has anyone truly defined it within a context that includes a definition of what Mental Health is? Now,...
    • Dare To Work On The Shame Blocking Your Vulnerability - Duration: 24 minutes.

      • 1 year ago
      • 1,009 views
      Vulnerability is a strength - not a weakness. You need to dare greatly in order to work through your shame and emotional pain to clear out that shame from your past and let in the empowering freedo...
    • NPD - People Living With No Feelings - For Loved Ones - Duration: 33 minutes.

      • 1 year ago
      • 2,282 views
      People with NPD live with no feelings. They do not have empathy, or compassion or the ability to love or reciprocate emotionally in really any way with you. I am an Author, Counselor, Life and Ment...
    • What Loved Ones Need To Know - Toxic Relationships - Duration: 15 minutes.

      • 4 years ago
      • 2,373 views
      Toxic Relationships Coach, BPD/Mental Health and Life Coach, Author, A.J. Mahari, talks to loved ones of people with BPD, NPD, Histronic PD, Dependent Personality Disorder, mental illness, substanc...
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