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  • Connection Busters - E10: Not Investing - Duration: 7 minutes, 46 seconds.

    • 2 years ago
    • 61 views
    It's super easy to get short term focused in relationships. Basically what have you done for me lately...however this short term focus really is damaging to the long term connection. The switch com...
  • Connection Busters - E9: Not Giving People what They Need - Duration: 4 minutes, 10 seconds.

    • 2 years ago
    • 50 views
    Often people think they are helping a relationship by trying to get ahead and take care of needs that they see in their partner without actually waiting for their partner to express what they need....
  • Connection Busters - E8: Avoiding the Check In - Duration: 6 minutes, 17 seconds.

    • 2 years ago
    • 49 views
    Sometimes we know what needs to be said or discussed but we simply choose to avoid it because we are not wanting to hurt our partner's feelings, or maybe avoid negative conflict. Sadly this choice ...
  • Connection Busters - E7: Trying to Cheer your Partner Up - Duration: 6 minutes, 30 seconds.

    • 2 years ago
    • 47 views
    We haven't heard anyone else talking about this but in our personal experience trying to cheer a sad/depressed partner up is frequently a major disconnector in relationships. Listen, validate, shar...
  • Connection Buster - E6: Pride - Duration: 6 minutes, 24 seconds.

    • 2 years ago
    • 43 views
    Being able to see your part in the problem, being able to accept feedback and responsibility is a key to maintaining connection in relationships.

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  • Connection Buster - E5: The Past - Duration: 4 minutes, 47 seconds.

    • 2 years ago
    • 73 views
    Hanging on to the past and not allowing room for seeing a better future or hanging on to a partner's past mistakes is a true connection killer in relationships.

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  • Connection Busters - E4: Trying to Control - Duration: 5 minutes, 25 seconds.

    • 2 years ago
    • 53 views
    Trying to control your partners behavior, choices, outlook is disastrous to the connection in relationships. Remembering that relationship success will always follow the path of controlling oneself...
  • Connection Busters - E3: Ignoring Warning Signs - Duration: 5 minutes, 46 seconds.

    • 2 years ago
    • 348 views
    John Gottman says that couples wait an average of 6 years after knowing there are big issues in a relationship before seeking help. This habit of ignoring the warning signs damages the connection. ...
  • Connection Busters - E2: Unreasonable Expectations - Duration: 5 minutes, 2 seconds.

    • 2 years ago
    • 49 views
    Unreasonable expectations of a relationship can greatly damage the connection.
  • Connection Busters - E1: Not Being on the Same Team - Duration: 4 minutes, 4 seconds.

    • 2 years ago
    • 98 views
    One of the keys to staying connected with your partner is to remember that you are on the same team.
  • Try Again - Duration: 9 minutes, 53 seconds.

    • 3 years ago
    • 37 views
    In this video Sam and Kerri talk about a common statement that individuals/couples say about their marriages. "We've tried everything and nothing has worked." Sam and Kerri explore what may be goin...
  • Don't Stay Cold - Duration: 6 minutes, 42 seconds.

    • 3 years ago
    • 37 views
    In this video Sam and Kerri discuss the concerning habit some couples get into when they hold on to their individual positions in an argument so long that the relationship overall gets cold. Don't ...
  • Don't Lose Yourself in Your Relationship - Duration: 4 minutes, 54 seconds.

    • 3 years ago
    • 120 views
    In this video Sam and Kerri talk about the fine line we must walk in relationships in order not to lose ourselves. Thanks for watching. http://www.thrive-at-home.com
  • Don't Share Your Business - Duration: 4 minutes, 28 seconds.

    • 3 years ago
    • 32 views
    In this video Sam and Kerri talk about the benefits and consequences of airing out your dirty laundry to others. Thanks for watching. For more information visit http://www.thrive-at-home.com
  • Lessons from Mt Whitney - Duration: 6 minutes, 33 seconds.

    • 3 years ago
    • 9 views
    In this video Sam and Kerri share a few lessons they learned about marriage from hiking Mt. Whitney. For more information about Thrive@Home™ please visit http://thrive-at-home.com
  • To Prenup or Not to Prenup - Duration: 4 minutes, 56 seconds.

    • 4 years ago
    • 47 views
    In this video Sam and Kerri answer a question about whether it is a good idea to preceed into marriage if one person insists on a getting a prenup and the other is offended by it. To Prenup or Not...
  • In this video Sam and Kerri discuss the importance of making and accepting repair attempts. For more information please see our website thrive-at-home.com

    Don't Shssh Me! - Duration: 8 minutes, 32 seconds.

    • 5 years ago
    • 62 views
    In this video Sam and Kerri discuss the importance of making and accepting repair attempts. For more information please see our website thrive-at-home.com
  • The ability to allow your partner to speak into your life or accepting influence is the opposite of defensiveness. Sam and Kerri share their experiences with struggling to accept the influence of each other. For more information please see our website thrive-at-home.com

    Accepting Influence - Duration: 6 minutes, 35 seconds.

    • 5 years ago
    • 396 views
    The ability to allow your partner to speak into your life or accepting influence is the opposite of defensiveness. Sam and Kerri share their experiences with struggling to accept the influence of e...
  • You can see the actual Fox5 San Diego interview at our website www.thrive-at-home.com but here are a few thoughts we had as a follow up.

    Fox 5 Recap "Fighting Over Nothing" - Duration: 5 minutes, 52 seconds.

    • 5 years ago
    • 20 views
    You can see the actual Fox5 San Diego interview at our website www.thrive-at-home.com but here are a few thoughts we had as a follow up.

    Most couples have been taught that the top three things cou...
  • Empathy - Duration: 6 minutes, 26 seconds.

    • 5 years ago
    • 38 views
  • Date Night Do Over - Duration: 10 minutes.

    • 5 years ago
    • 21 views
    So recently we had a date night disaster that led us to record this video sharing our experience. If you have ever had a date with your spouse that went poorly this is for you. You are not alone.
    ...
  • How to Get Someone to Open Up - Duration: 6 minutes, 43 seconds.

    • 5 years ago
    • 16,701 views
    In this video Sam shares a story of a counseling school student who had called and asked the question, "How do counselors get clients to open up?"

    He shares four keys using open ended questions, ...
  • Bunker Busting - Duration: 5 minutes, 24 seconds.

    • 5 years ago
    • 28 views
    For more information please visit our website http://www.thrive-at-home.com

    In this video Sam and Kerri talk about what to do when one partner is pursuing in a relationship and the other starts t...
  • I Statements - Duration: 7 minutes, 21 seconds.

    • 5 years ago
    • 1,224 views
    For More Information check out our website http://www.thrive-at-home.com

    I Statements or I Messages are one of the first things that therapists teach couples to improve their communication. They t...
  • Top Ten Ways to Ruin Your Relationships - Part 2 - Duration: 9 minutes, 53 seconds.

    • 5 years ago
    • 126 views
    For More Information check out our website http://www.thrive-at-home.com

    Most people want to save their relationships while simultaneously doing some these. We hope that by discussing the things t...
  • Top Ten Ways to Ruin Your Relationship - Part 1 - Duration: 6 minutes, 28 seconds.

    • 5 years ago
    • 249 views
    For More Information check out our website http://www.thrive-at-home.com

    Most people want to save their relationships while simultaneously doing some these. We hope that by discussing the things t...
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