This video is about learning to ask for what we want and renegotiating agreements when life circumstances change.
Questions explored in this video: Is it okay to re-negotiate an agreement? When is it okay to re-negotiate an agreement? Are you still trustworthy if you request alterations in your agreements?
It's okay to ask for what you want when an agreement no longer works for you. Honoring agreements for the sake of honoring agreements doesn't serve anyone. It creates resentments and relational fatigue. It is more important to be committed to the well-being of the both parties involved than to the commitment itself. We become comfortable asking for changes to be made to an agreement when we are also receptive to others when they need to change something about their promise.