Find Love by Loving Yourself First How to love yourself. I learned the hard way that learning to love yourself is the only way to experience true love. It doesn't matter who loves you. If you can't feel the love for yourself then you feel truly loved and fulfilled. In my newest video, I share the steps you can take to fall in love with yourself. If you liked this video please click on the thumbs up and subscribe button. We want to create content that you'll love so your feedback is appreciated! If you want to learn more life lessons check out Mary's playlist "Life Lessons".