The Relationship Help Doctor
  • Stayed too long in a toxic relationship.... [The Relationship Help Doctor]

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    Any chance you feel embarrassed because you stayed in a toxic relationship a long time? Many people do. Today, I want to talk with you about changing that perspective, and freeing yourself from it.


    I am Dr. Rhoberta Shaler, The Relationship Help Doctor.

    I offer relationship advice for dealing with difficult issues and relentlessly difficult people.
    I focus on helping my clients to stop tolerating abuse, and give them strategies for changing relationship dynamics.

    Are you in relationship with a Hijackal®? Someone who consistently behaves in ways that undermine you, put you down, make you crazy? I can help you understand that behavior and how to keep yourself safe and sane.

    I works with individual and couples clients, worldwide, through private, secure video conferencing.

    Visit to learn how you can get relationship help today.

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    This content has been created and recorded for the general interest and information of the viewer/listener. Nothing said or implied on this site should be taken, or construed in any way, as legal advice, or personal advice of any kind. It is entirely informational, offering readers, viewers, subscribers, followers, and members educational resources, anecdotes, case studies, and stories.
    Optimize Life Now LLC & Rhoberta Shaler, PhD makes no representations about the suitability of the content of this site for any purpose. All content is provided “as is” without any warranty of any kind. Show less
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