Choreographing Life

Welcome to Choreographing Life — a space for navigating caregiving, loss, faith, and midlife transitions.

My channel began as a talk I gave on Choreographing Closure with our Loved Ones. It grew from my journey as a six-time caregiver. Having said goodbye to five loved ones, I now care for my 94-year-old Mum. 

For 40 years, we ranted and cried, constantly stepping on each other’s toes. 😅 Over the past 15 years, that heaviness has transformed into a graceful dance—joyful, beautiful, and more often than not, truly funny. 🙆‍♀️

I’ve learned never to let "caregiver" be my only identity. I am a woman cared for by my Heavenly Father, loved by Jesus who paid his life for my sins. I enjoy the sweet quiet companionship of His Holy Spirit living in me.

As I age, I realise I must also choreograph my own life and care for myself. Whether you are part of the sandwich generation, caring for others while fumbling to care for yourself, or searching for hope: 

You’re not alone. 🌤️

15 Dec 2025