New Vision Mindset™

Breaking the cycle of childhood trauma and self-betrayal — one honest conversation at a time.

I'm Goldy James, author of Choosing Myself: Breaking the Cycle of Childhood Trauma and Self-Betrayal. This channel is where the book comes to life;  real stories behind the chapters, the patterns that keep good people stuck, and the tools that helped me finally choose myself. My hope for this channel is that not only will my story inspire and resonate with you but that you will be able to use the tools necessary to break the cycle keeping you trapped in self-betrayal a lot sooner than I did.

Expect chapter breakdowns, the Deep Question Isolation™ practice, real talk on boundaries and self-worth, and updates on the book, Companion Workbook, and New Vision Mindset™.

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📖 Get the book + workbook | Coming to Amazon and Barnes & Noble AUGUST 2026: choosingmyselfofficial.com

Freedom begins when limited beliefs end™