How Couples Heal

What actually happens in the moments when couples lose each other, and find each other again? I’ve spent 36 years and more than 41,000 hours working with couples. Here, I slow real sessions down and show you what I saw, what I was testing, why I waited or intervened, where I missed, and how I knew whether something landed. For couples, therapists, coaches, and anyone who wants to understand how relationships actually heal.