Engineering Love with Kim Polinder

Engineering Love is a podcast and teaching platform focused on how relationships actually function under stress, conflict, and emotional overwhelm.

I’m a relationship coach and associate therapist with over 13 years of direct work with individuals and couples navigating reactivity, shutdown, betrayal, and repair. My work integrates clinical training with practical, real-world application.

On this channel, I translate psychological frameworks into tools people can actually use in the moments that matter. It’s about understanding patterns, reducing reactivity, and learning how to communicate and repair without making things worse.

On this channel you’ll find:
• Podcast conversations on relationships, conflict, and repair
• Clinical explanations of emotional and relational dynamics
• Practical tools for communication, boundaries, and regulation

This work is for people who are self-aware and still stuck.
People who want clarity without blame.
And change that holds up under pressure.