When We First Noticed

When We First Noticed is one father’s honest journey through raising a child with autism—from the first little signs that something might be different, through evaluations and diagnosis, and into the everyday reality of raising an incredible little boy who continues to teach us more than we ever expected.

I’ll share the things our family has actually lived: missed milestones, specialists and therapies, daycare struggles, sensory overload, school, meltdowns, breakthroughs, sleepless nights, small victories that feel enormous—and the complicated emotions that can come with all of it.

This is a place for fathers who may love their children fiercely but don’t always know how to talk about the fear, frustration, uncertainty, hope, and joy that come with this journey. It’s for dads, moms, grandparents, caregivers, and anyone who wants an honest look at what life can be like for a family raising a child on the spectrum.

He’s our son. He’s our joy. And he’ll always be our superhero.