Selfish Parenting

Welcome to Selfish Parenting - where we flip the script on everything society tells you about being a "good parent."

I'm Chance Hinder-Lane (@hindirlane), and I'm here to tell you that what society calls selfish, we call sustainable parenting. This isn't your typical parenting podcast filled with shoulds and shouldn'ts. We're here to give you permission to:  Hire help without guilt  Prioritize your career AND your kids. Say no to activities that drain you  Invest in your mental health and identity  Maintain adult relationships and interests  Spend money on yourself  Set boundaries that actually work
Every episode, we dive deep into the "selfish" behaviors that research shows actually make you a better parent. From working mothers to stay-at-home parents demanding respect, from therapy to solo vacations - we're covering it all with science, sass, and zero shame.

Because here's the truth: Taking care of yourself IS taking care of your family.