BUT SHE'S YOUR MOTHER

Welcome to But She’s Your Mother, a community for adult survivors of narcissistic abuse, toxic family dynamics, and family estrangement. Hosted by Marnie Grundman.

Marnie is an estranged daughter of 35+ years who survived a sociopathic narcissistic mother and maternal grandparents. She also brings a rare, hopeful perspective: after her own daughter estranged from her 20 years ago, they did the work to repair their bond and remain close today. As a mother of 3 and grandmother of 3, Marnie offers a unique, 360-degree view on healing and breaking the cycle of generational trauma.

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What to Expect:Survivor Stories: Real-life insights on navigating family estrangement, low contact, and long-term trauma recovery through my own 35+ year journey.

Media Analysis: Objective breakdowns of estranged parent creators and echo chambers.

A Path to Repair: A welcoming space for parents to heal and take accountability.