I Wish I Was a Lesbian

This channel discusses the book I Wish I Was a Lesbian (ed. Angela C. Wild, May 2026 Spinifex Press). 

As more women decentre men or leave heterosexual relationships, the phrase “I wish I was a lesbian” has grown in online discussions about men’s perceived inadequacy and harm. Some women who leave heterosexuality express regret at losing intimate relationships, wishing they could be lesbians while seeing this as unattainable. We explore this politically, questioning the idea of innate sexual orientation and the assumption that women are naturally heterosexual. We’ll discuss the book’s themes and related issues. We’re not here to convince or convert—women are free to hold their own views. Our aim is to share experiences and encourage respectful dialogue. Disrespectful comments will be removed. 

This channel is hosted by Angela, Michelle and Tabata. 
This is a woman-only space.