Rajesh Kumar (MindYourOwnPeace)

I live in a country where SKIN color is used as a parameter to judge beauty and English is used as a parameter to judge intelligence. Men actually face the most intense societal pressures. Our fundamental ideology of masculinity is so flawed that they[men] are expected to be financially secure, successful, strong; emotionally, mentally AND physically!!!

You can’t look at it like competition, you have to look at it being you, the trick is to be you, because if you are being you, then nobody else can copy you because there can only be one you. Everyone have something unique about them hence they are in their own lane and performs as per what they have. But if anyone is trying to be in your lane i.e. If anyone is trying to be you, then all they are is a weaker copy of the original i.e. they are a weaker copy of you!!!

Nobody is superior, nobody is inferior, but nobody is equal either. People are simply unique, incomparable at micro level. You are you, I am I.