 How does the narcissist Really feel about you? It may seem like the narcissist hates you They're always really angry There always seems to be something Troubling them about you they're always pointing out something that is wrong There's always a problem. So yes, it may seem like the narcissist hates you Because they do hate you, but there's a fine line between love and hate the narcissist targeted you Because they admire your qualities and abilities But that love soon turns to hate Because they also envy you They desire to have what you have And that is why they turn against you That is why they become very competitive They start to compare themselves to you They start to compare you to other people Because they do see Some value there. They do realize Your worth to some degree, but they're also very envious So it's all about downplaying your worth Making you seem like you're nothing because they secretly admire Who you are and what you do They just don't want to acknowledge it They don't want you to see that they Think that about you. So instead They give you hate They insult you they put you down, but deep down they do actually admire a lot of things about you and That is their driving force to do what they do. They're always trying to extract from you They're always trying to keep you down Because really the narcissist's greatest fear is That you do Realize your worth because if you do realize it You're not going to want anything to do with them because someone of your worth Does not belong with them. You should set higher standards and expectations You should be expecting more from them In return for what you're putting out and deep down they know this But they don't want you to come to that conclusion They don't want you to realize that because Then you're going to be expecting more from them and they're very lazy They don't want to give anything to you. They don't want to do the work They'd rather just sit back with their feet up While you're doing everything for them. That's their ideal scenario. So yeah, it's It's really a mixture of love and hate They secretly admire a lot of things about you Even though they may never tell you this but they may have revealed this to you in the love bombing phase They may have told you Some of the things that they admire about you, but then once you go for the devaluation You may forget about all of that You may think that it was just fake But there is actually some truth to what they say in the love bombing Sometimes they are actually telling you how they see you How they feel about you narcissists are not Stupid Not completely They know when something is good and that is why Many victims of narcissists that I've seen are very attractive Successful people There's a reason for that Narcissists want the best They think they deserve the best The problem is They don't think that they should have to do anything a return To have that. So yeah at some level The narcissist does admire you They do love a lot of things about you, but at the same time they hate it Because it's not them They feel like you're stealing the spotlight away from them. You're taking the attention That was meant for them And that's why they turn against you That's why they later begin to resent you. It's not so much that they Hate Something about you. It's more The effect the negative effect that everything good about you has On them How it takes the spotlight away from them It makes them feel inferior It makes them feel like they're less than you That's what makes them Haters, but of course they'll never tell you this they will just Pick you apart Point out Your faults and mistakes Your flaws and the perfections But deep down this is what they're thinking This is really how it is When it all comes down to it The hate they have for you Is really just the hate they have for themselves and they project it on to you and even the Love sometimes It's just a projection of their false self The narcissist sees you as an extension of them and that could either be something good or something bad But either way it isn't real It's just in their imagination But as I said, there are some truths to what they say in the love bombing phase some things you may identify with Because it's true if they they say they like something about you They say you're good at something That may be what they actually believe There may be what they actually Feel but I wouldn't really Read into it too much about what they feel about you Whether it's good or bad Narcissists are not a credible source One minute they hate you the next minute they love you it changes all the time But it changes based on Something to do with them their feelings can change at any moment so it really Doesn't have much to do with you anyway how they see you it all depends on their perception How they're feeling in that moment They had a bad day So just focus on how you feel about yourself On how you see yourself give yourself the validation That you're looking for Instead of expecting it from them, that's all I have to say for this video I just wanted to touch on this. I haven't talked about it for a few years now When I made the original video And I wanted to do a live version of it So yeah, please give the video a thumbs up to support our community And leave your thoughts in the comment section. I read the comments every morning Thank you all for joining me And I'll talk to you again soon