 Hi, I'm Matthew Coast head dating coach and founder at commitment connection calm and today We're we have a question from a woman in our community, and she's asking Does he really love me? So let's talk about ways to Recognize whether or not a guy Love really loves you and so there there's some telltale sign some Signals that a guy will give off if he really is in love with you, and here's what they are The first one is that he initiates contact with you. So if a guy's in love with you, he's gonna be thinking about you a lot and He may not even be able to help himself But con end up contacting you because you'll be like oh man I just like her so much and maybe he's read some crappy dating advice It's told him not to do it, but he'll be like oh, I'm gonna contact her you know and so if he initiates contact with you That's a great sign that that that he might be in love with you The second one is that he expresses his love to you and this doesn't have to be him saying it It could be the way that he acts right so there's kind of a Really popular book out there called the five love languages and it talks about the five different ways that people Express love to somebody else and one of them might be Let's go through the five real quick the first one is Acts of service so if he does things for you that could be as an expression of love Another one is physical touch so if he touches you a lot that could be his expression of love Another one is spending quality time So if he wants to get with you one-on-one and spend quality time with you that could be his expression of love Another one is gift giving so if he gives you gifts That could be another way that he expresses his love to you and the last one is is verbal verbal So you know appreciating you telling you that he loves you that kind of thing So if he expresses his love to you there that's a really good sign that he's in love with you The third one is that he tries to protect you Defends you or he takes your side even even if you're wrong so Guys when they are in love with someone they will start defending that person they will take that person's side They will try to protect that person because they feel like that's their role as a man is to be protective And so if a guy is being really protective with you then he that's a good sign that he might be in love with you as well The next one is that he wants you to meet his friends and family and Don't get this mistaken with he does have you meet his friends and family because You know some guys have friends and family that are not not very great and sometimes they're embarrassed of them and They might not decide to have you meet them, but if he really wants you to And and maybe even if he is embarrassed of him he might still have you meet him anyway So if he wants you to meet his friends and family, that's a good sign and the last one is that he hints about Or he talks about having some type of future with you So this could just be as simple as you know talking about things that he wants to do with you in the future Or spending time with you in the future or just another one is just assuming That the two of you will be together sometime in the future. That's a good hint that he is in love with you So that's it for today If you want more information on how to attract a quality man into a committed Lasting relationship make sure you go to my website at commitment connection calm and take the quiz That's there. I'm Matthew coast and I'll speak with you again soon