 2021 for the New York Fashion Week. A woman called Amanda Nguyen created a catwalk show with clothes that people had been wearing when they were raped. Now you've probably noticed that the moment there is a sexual assault of any kind, first thing that people get asked is what were you wearing? And maybe people don't realize just how destructive those four words are because the moment you say that you immediately take away any responsibility from the person who's actually done the rape and instead you put all of the responsibility on the victim. You blame and shame the victim for what has happened. And so Amanda's idea with this catwalk show was to put this what were you wearing directly in front of the people. Let the world see for itself what are these amazing clothes that seem to invite attack. So on the catwalk you have things like business suits, jogging bottoms, short dresses. There were even a couple of army uniforms but you know I think the saddest part and this was in the exhibition that surrounded the catwalk show was a little tiny diaper because unfortunately there is no protection anywhere from these sick-minded bastards. So the next time you hear somebody say but what are they wearing call it out. Whether you think they were saying it as a joke because yes there are still stupid enough people to think that this is funny. Even if you think that they'd said it innocently even if the person saying it is a good friend call it out because this narrative really needs to change.