 And it's interesting about the way that you're talking about tone because I think quite often a lot of autistic people, because we have a lot of experiences where we don't understand I guess exactly what where the tone is coming from, but we do notice that something's different. And one of the things that just from going up and going through experiences, like any change in tone that isn't just overly, like if someone's just talking overly positive and then there is a change in tone, like I just assume that something bad's really happened or like my stomach drops with me. Yeah, it's just like you just kind of get this empty feeling in the back of your head. You start dissociating a little bit, you're like, what's going on? And then you ask my wife gets frustrated with me sometimes. I'm always asking if they don't give you a reasonable explanation for it. And they don't explain it or they're just saying like, oh, it's fine. It makes it worse. And you're like, well, something's happening. I don't know what it is. You're not telling me. So like, please do. Please do. I'm really happy to hear you saying this. Yeah. Yeah. Well, because it's just that's exactly what happens to me. So and this is the first time I've ever really spoken with someone like this who has autism as well. So you just explaining that to me and the people listening. Hopefully it helps them as well. But that's exactly what happens to me too. So it's cool to hear somebody else for the first time really kind of say that in a conversation. And that happens with my wife at home all the time. Sometimes it causes problems. And it's like not even really her fault, right? Because we'll just be having a conversation and then her tone or her voice will change very slightly. Yeah, just something slight. And then literally I have that panic and I'm like, what's wrong? And she's like, nothing. And I'm like, but your tone changed, but nothing, nothing's wrong. And then I'm still I'm doing your sound like, well, something's wrong because that wasn't normal. That's not how it usually sounds like, you know, because I still like I don't know what any of it means. And my brain understands like the rhythm and the pattern of it. So if the rhythm or pattern is off, even in just a slight amount, whether it's the body language, like you said, or the tone or the cadence in which someone's speaking, then it trips everything off. And there could be completely no reason other than maybe they needed to take another breath or they needed to think about a word before they spoke it. And they added a different thought about something and they were like, oh, that doesn't sound good. Like just a random four or like, you know, maybe they're thinking about work tomorrow or like, but because they don't always express it directly, it's like, it's a lot. And yeah, it's, I mean, you're so sensitive to people having negative reactions to you. It's almost like being at you are like this kind of being sensitive, but it's not like in like a needy way. I guess it's like, you know, I need to know what's going on. So I'm safe and I know how to behave. Yeah. Yeah, that's really what happened. What it is for me like, I need to know how to act. I need to know how to act. I need to know what to expect so I can react. Sure. Sure.