 Bismillah wa sallatu wa sallam wa la rasulallah, you know once again it's really my pleasure and honor to be with you tonight in this blessed month When when oftentimes as we're sometimes physically and mentally preparing definitely for Ramadan You know, we have opportunities to send salawat on Prophet Muhammad sallallahu alaihi wa sallam We have the opportunity to increase our fast as Prophet Muhammad sallallahu alaihi wa sallam did in this month Which would be something excellent for us to do and And and one of the very special things that I wanted to highlight for tonight Is is this concept of forgiveness? And this is a beautiful month to go ahead and do that as we as we ready ourselves for Ramadan inshallah You know We want to be able to rid ourselves of anything that's taking up space and to do a clean You know a spring cleaning of sorts, you know, this is definitely A perfect time because it is spring or spring is upon us Ramadan is coming And and you know, just like when we do spring cleaning in our home We want to do spring cleaning in our hearts so that we can really reap the benefits of siyam of you know zakeh of charity of Of our prayers of you know having more energy having positive outlook on people and individuals and subhanallah And really the only way to do that Is um is is by starting with with our hearts inshallah. So, you know, I wanted to start by giving A relaying there's many very many iterations of the same concept. I'm going to choose one of them inshallah Abu musa radoan who he reported that prophet Muhammad sallallahu alaihi wa sallam Said verily Allah looks down in the middle of shaaban in the middle night of shaaban and he forgives all of his creatures Except for an idolatry or one harboring malice subhanallah So Allah subhanallah forgives all of his creation except for the one who commits shirk and the one who what Harbors malice in his heart subhanallah may Allah subhanallah You know not make us of those people. We want to be forgiven by Allah subhanallah And you know, uh, what's interesting the word in in arabic for the one who harbors a grudge basically is Musha'in And what's interesting? It's literally the one who fills up You know when you when we talked about the heart again, you know, your heart is filled up with this grudge It's filled up with this with this enmity with this hatred There's so many negative qualities around this concept of holding a grudge And that's why it's so important as it fills up your heart We need we need to release it and we'll definitely talk about that inshallah so that we can make space A bit in the lai ta'ala. I definitely want to focus on prophet Muhammad say salam and how he encouraged This quality very much. And the subnalik Radhid al-A'nuh, he said that prophet Muhammad sallallahu alaihi wa sallam Said young man told told Anna subnalik said young man If you are if you are able every morning and evening to remove any malice in your heart towards anyone do so Then prophet Muhammad sallallahu alaihi wa sallam said young man, that is my sunnah Whoever revives my sunnah has loved me and whoever leaves loves me will be with me in paradise And don't we want to be with prophet Muhammad sallallahu alaihi wa sallam in paradise? Ya Allah, we we definitely want to be So It's it's so important for us to follow his sunnah and to forgive people Which is easier said than done, by the way And I definitely want to leave a few moments, you know, we want to highlight prophet Muhammad sallallahu alaihi wa sallam I definitely want to leave inshallah Sometimes just to give some practical tips inshallah because it's it's definitely easier said than done Anna subnalik also reported That he was sitting with the prophet Muhammad sallallahu alaihi wa sallam and Prophet Muhammad sallallahu alaihi wa sallam said coming upon you now is a man from the people of paradise And he was a man from the ansar Whose beard was disheveled by the water of wudu and he was carrying both his shoes in his left hand The the next day prophet Muhammad sallallahu alaihi wa sallam repeated the same words and the man came in the same condition So nothing looks special about him some kind of law The third day the prophet Muhammad sallallahu alaihi wa sallam he repeated the same thing again about that particular man who looked the same When the prophet stood up to leave Abdullah ibn amd followed the man and said i'm in a dispute with my father And I've swore not to enter my home for three days. May I stay with you and the man said yes Abdullah stayed three nights with the man, but he never saw him praying at nights Whenever he went to bed He would remember Allah and rest until he woke up for morning prayer Abdullah said that he never heard anything but good words from his mouth When three nights had passed and he did not see anything special about his actions Abdullah Asked the man. He said all servants of Allah. I have not been in dispute with my father nor have I cut relations with him I heard the prophet say three times that a man from the people of paradise was coming to us and then you came I thought I should stay with you and see What you are doing that I should follow but I did not see you do anything special Why did the prophet Muhammad sallallahu alaihi wa sallam speak so highly of you and the man said I am as you have seen When Abdullah was about to leave the man said I'm as you have seen Except that I do not find dishonesty in my soul towards the muslims And I do not carry anyone because of the good that Allah has given them. I do not envy. I'm sorry I do not hold any grudges against any of the muslims and I do not envy anyone Because of the good that Allah swt has given them Abdullah said this is what you have achieved and it is something we have not accomplished subhanallah Look at the power and the you know The the the status the elevation of this of this ansar who You know was able to clear his heart every night of two things Of enmity towards anybody so removing his heart from grudges But also from hazad you know from having that envy towards other people And when you think about these type of emotions that they're they're very powerful They're very powerful unfortunately in not a good way Because you know for example, you know, you have a grudge in your heart So you have some type of an upset feeling that upset feeling can you know lead to you constantly thinking about it That constant thinking about it rumination of of this bad feeling Can make you have resentment towards the person that resentment can turn to hatred that hatred can make you wants to exact Revenge against this person. So do you see how it festers and then then the the problem is That grudges not only affects you it holds you back. It ties you down. It consumes your heart But then it's affecting the other person um, it's affecting perhaps the people related to them because Maybe now you don't even want to associate, you know other people that associate with that person Maybe you're telling people in your family Don't associate with this person and how many times have we unfortunately seen family situations Where almost this empathy is like kind of forced apart. Don't talk to so-and-so. They've wronged us. They've taken our So-and-so has this And so we see that this dreads All and it all starts with this grudge So so it's so amazing how professionalist I sell them really promoted this concept um In many different ways and was very powerful if you think about some of the people that he forgave It's it's a big deal uh, uh, Prophet Muhammad sallallahu alaihi was hired, you know, was was was a slave and he was going to be freed By hind if he were to kill the the uncle of prophet Muhammad sallallahu alaihi sallam, uh, hamsa Um, and so during one of the battles, uh, washi You know stood above and and he took his spear and he killed Um, and he killed hamsa roda laan Uh, and this tore the heart of prophet Muhammad sallallahu alaihi sallam You know, he was so fearful the muslims he hid but what was amazing that eventually he actually accepted islam and he went to prophet Muhammad sallallahu alaihi sallam and uh, uh, uh prophet Muhammad sallallahu alaihi sallam accepted his islam He removed the death penalty for him uh accepted his repentance and forgave him however He could not look at him and he asked him to never Come in front of him again subhanallah So, you know, it just goes to show that forgiveness can look different Does not mean you have to be best friends with somebody who has wronged you It does not mean that if somebody has abused you or has oppressed you Uh, uh that you need to put yourself in harm's way But what we're talking about forgiveness and we're moving a garage. It means Freeing yourself From that connection that you're forever making between you and the person who has wronged you Uh, and and and the idea is to sever Sever that grudge and what it does it frees you and and even subhanallah, you know in the In the world in the secular world Um victims of some really bad abuse, you know, really gone through traumatic things have talked about The moment their life changed was the moment that they cut that tie and they removed the grudge from their heart subhanallah I mean, it's it's just again We're reflecting upon all of this To to really absorb the importance of removing a grudge Especially in this special time of year when we're really reading our hearts spiritually For the month of Ramadan, inshallah Um, you know, one of the the other uh, really interesting stories of proffam as-salaam and and his forgiveness Again, something really really special Is that uh, proffam as-salaam was um, he had sent A letter inviting one of the leaders, uh, the arab leaders of uh, of yamaama and banu hanifa Um had sent him a letter inviting him to islam and his name was sumama sumama ibn utthal al-hanafi Um, subhanallah due to his anger of receiving this letter Inviting him to islam. What did he do? he Had killed a group of proffam as-salaam's companions And and and that's of course, you know, that's You know, very very tough to to absorb. That's a loss of a lot of people And now look what happens subhanallah Um, sumama ibn utthal was captured by the muslim army during a war He was brought to the masjid Where he was restrained the proffam as-salaam, um, you know was ordered that he be fed he even he even Gave him milk from his own camel proffam as-salaam And then he approached sumama and said what have you oh, sumama What have you got going for you? Basically is what he's asking him and sumama replied he said actually I have a lot going for me If you kill me you kill a man whose blood will surely be avenged My people will get my back and they will take revenge for my from my death if you kill me If you are generous then you are generous to a man who knows how to be grateful If you are after money then ask of me whatever amount you like proffam as-salaam let him be You know, sumama said what he said and proffam as-salaam let him be the next day proffam as-salaam approached the man again He asked him the same thing sumama gave him the same response and he left finally on the third day proffam as-salaam Uh Told the guards to let sumama go and what did sumama do subhanAllah? He left the message He made ablution. You know, he made hosal He came back He took his jahada He he subhanAllah this whole experience Really drove into his heart the true meaning of islam based upon proffam as-salaam's character You know previously think about proffam as-salaam Sent him a letter inviting him to islam And what did he do? He killed a group of companions Uh, may Allah SWT be pleased with them and and and now He is in kept held in captivity by proffam. Muhammad sallallahu alaihi wasallam and now he accepts islam Like what happened? Clearly we see the effect of his character as aisha rada on her She said that proffam as-salaam sallallahu alaihi wasallam was a walking Quran You know, he he exemplified the the qualities in the court the characteristics Of what Allah SWT has commanded us to do subhanAllah. So look at sumama's You know statement that he made he said I bear witness that there is no god But Allah and I bear witness that you are the messenger of Allah. He says oh Muhammad sallallahu alaihi wasallam I swear to Allah that there was no man on the face of the earth why he did more than you Now you have become to me the dearest of men and I swear by Allah that there was no religion on earth More loathsome to me than your religion, but now it is the most beloved to me of all religions There was no country on earth more despised by me than your country Yet now I love it more than any other country in the world subhanAllah subhanAllah look at the power of You know dealing with people with grace It's it's dealing with people with mercy. You have the ability To punish someone and yet you don't right and and you know He was a prisoner of war I mean he could have done whatever he wanted to but he still dealt with him in a manner of grace Showing it, you know his exemplary characteristics And look how this By Allah's will by Allah's mercy, you know softened the heart and turned the heart of this very tough man So, you know in reflecting upon this emphasis that prophet Muhammad sallallahu alaihi wa sallam had unforgiving people on on On telling us the importance of In the middle of shaaban to the alas fatala will forgive everybody except for those who commit shirk And those who hold a grudge in our heart. It really Um, it is very important that we take this to heart inshallah But of course some things will come up. Well You know, it's not that easy Sometimes what happens in the spirit of everything at hamdulillah. We're really enlightened. We feel very motivated we feel very spiritual and we make the intention to forgive this person And uh, you know, whether it was something More minor or something really major or severe, right? There's too many different degrees of of you know, what can lead to a grudge and so, um Um What happens is that we may go ahead and make that intention We do it and then what happens maybe a month or two or maybe even a year goes by and then we have Something reminds us of this great injustice and uh, we have a tough time You know letting go and then we start to feel bad about ourselves Was I not sincere the first time I forgave the person? Why am I having difficulty to me? My why am I having difficulty my hypocrites? But what is wrong with me? You know, you're a human being But so so there's nothing wrong with you. Um, and and the subhanallah, you know, perhaps it is The reason why there's so much reward and there's so much emphasis on forgiving because it is difficult and um and what happens is uh You know when we go through this process of forgiving individuals and the feelings come again It just means we need to work on it again. You know, maybe there's something unresolved maybe You know, we we just kind of suppressed the feeling and we didn't really get to to work out how we felt It doesn't necessarily mean by the way that you have to talk to the person Um, you can if that's something that you can do you say, you know, you know We've had an argument for so many years. We've had a disagreement or what have you I would like to clear the air I I hope you can forgive me and so on and so forth That would be amazing, right? And and and guess what sometimes you may do that and that person may not forgive you But you've done your part at least and obviously if there's anything that you need to return or something that you've taken from them Obviously, that's you you have to do that. Um, but Oh when it comes to somebody that you can't talk to maybe they've passed on Maybe it's not safe for you to reach out to them. There can be too many different reasons or the the situation is too aggressive um, this can make it hard to You know be able to forgive and move on Permanently so if these feelings come up, uh, you know As one of my therapist friends recommended you can journal it You can write a letter to this person never send it to them But really express yourself and of course ask Allah swt to help you in this process of forgiveness And and definitely remembering that the ultimate justice lies with Allah swt is very very helpful When we sit and wallow in our upsetness at being victimized by this person or being taken advantage of or being oppressed Being humiliated whatever it is You know what we're doing is is is we're just surrounding ourselves with this negative Feeling and we're also kind of forgetting sometimes forgetting the bigger picture that ultimate justice is with Allah swt Nobody's getting away with anything Allah swt sees everything and it just might be That we may not see the effects of this injustice that Allah swt is the one Who will deal with it in in the most just way so panel up this can definitely help Sometimes unfortunately a grudge can even happen due to a misunderstanding And this is where hosn al-dun, you know comes into play. It's really important that we have a good view of others Um, it may be that somebody was having a bad day. They lost their phone Um, they were looking at you with a you know terrible look on their face But it they didn't even see you so panel on so they didn't acknowledge you and you felt dismissed. You felt disrespected Um, so panel on you know having hosn al-dun of others can definitely Be helpful in in preventing future Small grudges from happening and definitely And definitely hope helping to clear any grudge that you may have Another quality or another aspect of being able to move on is again recognizing this concept That when your heart is full of something it's not really giving space, you know oftentimes we Take the mistrust or the negative experience or the toxic relationship that we have with one person We have a grudge with them and that Affects all these other relationships and interactions that we have with others Because now we're burned by this interaction and now we feel like we need to be on guard Well, why don't we take the time and address this grudge and and you know ask us fontala for help and do the necessary work Um, so that we can have more more positive interactions with other people that we're not we don't have to be tied down It'll actually improve our immune system. The more that you are harboring negative feelings. It does You know, um, you know, raise your cortisol levels and stress definitely, you know Constant or chronic stress is not good for us. It lowers our immune system. It can make us sick It can actually lead to increase anxiety and depression and you get into this negative cycle or a negative loop Where your you know, this negative experience is is turning you into this, you know Seeing things in a negative way, which then kind of makes a fulfilling prophecy so to speak You you're gonna you're gonna be involved in these other negative interactions because you're carrying that pain with you So subhanallah, you know, let's find out that tells us in the court and um in in different ways and in in different aets How forgiving is better, you know, and and um, so it is definitely something for us to take into consideration Inshallah, so with that I want to see if there's any questions any, um Uh any Yeah, does that come up here and thanks for putting the uh the the hadith on there Any questions any thoughts um before I before I close inshallah If you can either type it in the chat or you can unmute if or raise your hand Inshallah, do you have any questions on grudges? How do for your heart? Mashallah, does that come up here for the for all this advice and these reminders mashallah Does anyone have any questions? Okay, so so two questions. I see one is um Uh, what if the person is not muslim it is still in our benefit subhanallah to Um to forgive them, uh, because again, it it you know, whatever Allah subhanallah tells us to do Whether it's from tafum hamsai salam or it's in the quran It is a benefit to us some of it. Yes, we don't have that. We don't understand You know, we don't understand why so semana or atana and we we we listen and we obey But subhanallah and Allah's infinite mercy and wisdom That whatever he has told us to keep away from It is better for us and whatever he has told us to do it is better for us So so absolutely forgiving adhan muslim is going to free you From this from this, you know, invisible cord that's forever tying you to this negative event Judy you raised your hand Salaam Yeah, I was wondering because um, uh lately I've been having like some hard time connecting with my mom She's not muslim and I never really had this hard time. Not sure how it came up But I just feel like uh, like every time I try to talk to her she has like She tends to have like, uh, just to be a little bit negative, which like, um draws me away from her. So, uh It's hard for me to like approach her and want to talk and so Um, like how do I rectify that? Yeah, I know I'm I'm really sorry to hear that. Judy. That's a tough situation. It is a very tough situation So my last month I'm glad that you shared that. Um, and you know, the the thing that I can, um That I can offer to you inshallah is that this is definitely a test from Allah swt And and sometimes these tests are pretty painful Especially when it involves our loved ones, you know, like our parents And and some of the other you you guys are reaching out and you're saying that somebody in your family is cutting you off They don't want to talk to you. Um, what do you do? And and all I would say is and especially in your case, Judy, because she's in your own home This is your mom. You want to be respectful to your mom. It is hurtful. You know, if you can You know, um, it is definitely hurtful But whatever you can do to maintain good character eventually inshallah, she will come around I've seen it in a lot of cases Uh, where you know, there's this enmity whether it's because Something to do with the dean, you know, there's a difference and so all of a sudden they they feel this Almost like a betrayal. That's a strong word, but they feel the sense But subhan Allah time and time and time again Uh You know these parties that are you know, they feel this distance that they're they're upset Um, when they see that you're consistent and you're a good character You don't have to put yourself in harm's way And grovel You know or beg But to the best of your ability If you can you just maintain, you know, respect Maybe check in you don't have to always if it's going to be hurtful by, um, her just rejecting you That inshallah, Allah will open the doors for you and definitely definitely ask Allah for help in this affair To soften her heart to guide her um and to rectify this relationship and and for all of you that are asking, uh You know, similar questions and in the sense of what do you do if the other person doesn't forgive you You've at least done your part You know if you've reached out, um You know, you if you have taken the steps Um and in reaching out and if there's a mutual disagreement you you take responsibility for your part You tell them that you forgive them and they and they say no, I don't want to talk to you Uh, I don't forgive you you are um, you know, I disown you or what have you You know Inshallah, you've done your part in the eyes of Allah swt and I'm not saying that that's easy. It's definitely painful Um, so may Allah swt make it for you as sister judy and for all of you that are struggling with those similar type of situations um Uh, somebody's asking a sister if that's yeah, I hope I didn't mispronounce your name What is the reward for forgiveness from Allah? Allahu akbar, you know, think about, um, When I actually I don't want to go over the time Uh, uh, sister shemira, how much time you can have as much time as you need inshallah whoever needs to leave I definitely do is kind of shallow but just talking about here. This is great. Okay. Awesome. Awesome. Um Uh, the the reward oh, so remember when I shut up the line when she lost her her necklace Uh, and she was traveling with prophet iam say selam They were part of a big caravan the caravan had left without her because she was searching Uh, and and of course they're traveling she was traveling in the hell dutch Which is a covered carrier over the camel. She was very light back then so they didn't realize that she was missing Uh long story short the caravan leaves without her. She's lost in the desert She stays in place. She falls asleep and one of the companions whose job is to kind of come up from behind to make sure Nobody has left anything Uh, he finds her and he brings her back to town. What do people do? They slander her they said that they Must have done something uh ruining her image subhanallah and uh one of the key Participants of the slander Was the relative of abu bakr raja l'anhu abu bakr is the father of Vaisha raja l'anhu and uh, he used to Contribute to use to donate to this person who slandered his daughter And in his heart, he's you know, he's when he found out that this person wasn't this family member was involved He said i'm going to stop Making those donations Subhanallah, he didn't even say i'm going to slander him. I'm going to take revenge He said i'm going to with all the good that i was doing and the a was revealed after revealing the innocence of aisha raja l'anhu which is amazing um There's an a and and i'm paraphrasing that it's the people of virtue or the people of wealth should not hold back Uh from doing good and and and and it's really touching Aia in that same in that same aia where alas fantala is asking Us and reminding us do do you not want to be forgiven? But do you not want a lot to forgive you? So so the quite so you know the the ask here is forgive others Don't withhold the good that you're doing right even in this situation, which is very extreme and um And and then reminding us at the end of that Do you not want alas fantala to forgive you? Yes, we do We want alas fantala to forgive us. So so you're getting the reward of alas fantala. You're getting You know inshallah the increased forgiveness from alas fantala. He's he's you know in the hadith It is saying the alas fantala and and is another hadith by the way Where alas fantala for uh, um, we'll we'll you know record the deeds on mondays and thursdays and again Forgives people except for who those who commit shirk and those who hold a grudge So we want alas fantala forgiveness. He's telling us that he won't forgive people who hold grudges because of the fact It's really it has a ripple effect has a ripple effect on your heart How it affects you how it affects the person that you're having a grudge against Um, and then and then the family members and the community so on and so forth. It really has a ripple effect So that is why um It is so important for this quality inshallah um So somebody's saying how do you forgive someone a close family member who interrupted you when you told them They hurt your feelings based on something they said The words said still hurt me and i'm trying to forgive, but it is difficult jizakim lochan you you uh remind me of another point. It is difficult It is difficult. We ask alas fantala for help in this affair you know Unfortunately You know, there's a whole psychology of course on how to bring things up and and you know We don't have time to go into that right now, but let's just say, you know, you've really done your part. You've you know, you've Told somebody you want to talk to them you bring something up and they just shut you down and then I feel even more hurt Like it's really frustrating. It's very painful Remember this one of the ways that might be helpful in in forgiving somebody is actually having empathy for them Now it doesn't excuse what they've done Even in some really subhandle extreme cases You're not excusing the person that has done something But you're you're trying to understand. Well, what is the background? Why why are they this way? What has happened in their life that has shaped them this way? What makes them not able to see how they've hurt other people What makes them tough what makes them so that uh, they're not receptive to um saying sorry or to acknowledging um So in this way when you have you're just trying to understand the other person it might take away some of that That you know that hurt a little bit when you're just trying to understand Well, you know what they're me what has happened in that person's life that has made them that way Uh, there's a backstory to everything You know and I think for us to to try to understand that it removes Some of the personalization of that hurts hurt people hurt others So if somebody hurt you they must have been hurt by somebody else and again, I'm not excusing it But that takes some of the well, you know, it's because of me. They don't like me They're hurt something is going on with them and we don't know We don't know a lot of what's going on with other people Even people that we think we know pretty well that we see all the time But there is just stuff that we don't understand about them. And so Sometimes having that lens Can help with that inshallah Somebody's asking if a blood relative just doesn't want to maintain ties anymore Should we respect their wishes or still go ahead and check in on them? Occasionally, even though they will not respond, you know, a lot bless you to sariva That's a great question You know, um Somebody doesn't want to maintain ties. I don't know if it's been explicitly stated like don't ever talk to me again Or it's just kind of it's kind of obvious implicitly. They never respond. They see you they kind of look away You know, alhamdulillah by you maintaining ties in the sense of yes, you you check in on them once in a while Believe me. They see it They see it Allah may soften their heart. We never know but by you again kind of like the same advice that that that I gave um Sister I forgot your name. I'm so sorry. Uh, that he's that you raised your hand. Um A beautiful sister who said that her mom was not talking to her You know, making the intention of like I want to keep sila tarah. I'm I want to keep those familial ties. Um Those little seeds that you drop They they can't make a difference And what is it going to hurt from you as long as you mentally prepare yourself? I know this person May not want to respond. I did my part. This is a charity. Well, it can be considered inshallah The eyes of al-as-fantala anything you do for the sake of al-as-fantala You say, you know what? I might brighten this person's day This person knows that I still care about them Even if they don't respond to me and even if they don't reciprocate So al-alham, you don't have to again. You don't have to But at the end of the day all of these things that we're talking about is better for you inshallah Somebody's asking how do you constantly view others in a good light when they clearly do bad things to you? You don't have to see them in a good light Allah alham right again, we don't need to be buddy buddy with somebody who's harmed us We don't need to put ourselves in harm's way It is good to be aware actually if somebody has you know done they've very clearly done bad things to you al-as-fantala puts that feeling right like okay this person you Interact in the way that it is appropriate If it's close family, you know, you can't really avoid not seeing them You know, you just at least do proper you give yourself them, but you don't have to Constantly interact go out of your way, you know Uh constantly be talking to them or being super close You don't have to see them in a good light, but you can still work on removing that hatred You know, sorry for them. What happens to them? I don't know. Why are they mad at me? I did my part Allah help them, right? And that's beginning of the journey and the ultimate justice is with al-as-fantala and that begins to remove that That you know that process of personalizing that grudge some things with me You know, they don't like me and then you're hurt, especially when it's a family member On especially if there's like a power differential, like, you know, it's it's like they're your parents or you know um, it's difficult, but I believe it's our mindset It's our mindset that can help us in this process by Sincerely doing it for the sake of al-as-fantala and leaving the rest up to Allah. It was sister to duty. Yeah, thank you. Um How do you practice being humble if forgiveness comes easily to you? If forgiveness comes easy to you, alhamdulillah, that is great You know, you know in practicing our deen. There are some acts of worship Like salah like fasting that are hard for some people and and but at the same time Things like forgiveness hosna dan, you know, thinking good of people being charitable Uh Helping others it comes so easy. So, you know, we ask al-as-fantala to bless us and all of our efforts Of course emphasizing the farah, it's you know, we don't want to Leave leave what al-as-fantala has commanded us in favor of of the things that are are recommended So obviously we're doing our best, but not to belittle the the the good qualities that we have Uh and to be grateful for it Uh, inshallah the gratitude will help us and to stay humble inshallah And then always recognize Your difficulties and again ask al-as-fantala to help you in those difficulties And if everything is is easy for you then increasing and giving back based on the level of ease that al-as-fantala has granted for you Right, al-as, you know Some of the scholars had said the test of ease or the test of wealth Is more difficult than the test of difficulty or the test of poverty Uh so panelist so if al-as-fantala has made all of these things easy for you Then you you know to be grateful for it is is is going to be that much more important And then to act upon it towards others and help those others will be important too inshallah What a colorful. I hope I I hope I answer all the questions. Is there if there's anything else?