 And it's time to be thoughtful about whether you pick up the phone anymore to those people that bring their energy demands into your life. It's time to review perhaps your relational world to think, well, do I really want to spend another evening in the company of those people? Because I think every time I'm there, I feel so drained and so drawn on, and I didn't need that tonight, and I didn't need it for me. I could have been home with people that don't do that to me, but you seem addicted to supplying someone else. You seem addicted to paying other people's bills, and it will kill you and aid you before your time.