 This happens when you go no contact with the narcissist when you go no contact with the narcissist You may feel guilty You may regret your decision You may miss the narcissist and you may wonder if they miss you But the narcissist does not miss you They don't miss anyone You may assume that they're missing you Because you miss them But they do not think or feel the way we do Instead they get very angry Because they're so used to having you under their control So they see no contact is unfair treatment They see it as though you're doing something wrong As though you're intending to hurt them When you're involved with a narcissist You become an extension of them But when you start to think for yourself You begin to separate yourself from them Which will cause a narcissistic injury and narcissistic rage But some narcissists will hide their rage and instead They will give you the silent treatment Because they still see you as their property And they believe it's only a matter of time until you come back to them Because many victims do go back to them They begin to think that it was their fault But even if you don't go back to the narcissist Eventually they will hoove you They will send you a text message They will come back to you They will give you a fake apology They will tell you they understand How much they've hurt you And they will promise to change And if you fall for it From that point on they will only be looking for ways to punish you They may already have a new supply They may have someone else who they're involved with But the reason why they're coming back to you Is because their new supply is not as good as they expected them to be Maybe their new supply doesn't have as much money as they thought Or maybe they're not willing to put up with the narcissist So they will declare their love for you But it's just an act They're playing you Once you let them back in You will begin to see who they really are They will turn on you They will punish you for going no contact Because they don't really care about you They're entitled And they want to be in control When you go no contact It causes a narcissistic injury It causes them to lose control And they will do anything To regain that control But once they've done that They will only devalue you and discard you Once you've gone no contact You must stay no contact Don't give them an open door Don't give them freedom of access You will only regret it in the end Thank you for watching I hope this video is in it with you Please like, comment, share and subscribe If you would like to donate My PayPal link is in the video description Coaching inquiries You can email me at coachinganarchsurvivor.uk Thank you for watching and I'll talk to you soon