 what's up guys let's jump into another topic today and a big problem I've noticed that happens to a lot of people is that they become incredibly dependent on things that outside themselves what I mean by this is they become dependent on the government their friends maybe their parents anything else besides themselves and when you get a position like this you put yourself at risk because what happens inevitably is you're going to be disappointed you need to rely on yourself if you really want to self actualize because some of the things that you're going to need to accomplish are going to need a lot more effort than what other people haven't planned for you for example I see a lot of people they join a gym and they start training with their training partner for example and they use their training partner as a catalyst for motivation they can't get motivated unless their training partner is with them but what happens more often than not is the training partner starts to linger off starts to go less and eventually just stops going to gym and these people use that as an excuse as an excuse to no longer train themselves because they don't have the motivation they relied on their training partner as an outside entity to help them stay motivated and of course disaster happened you don't want this to happen another way I see this occurring is through people and their finances people think that they'll rely on their government in Australia you have superannuation in America it's your Roth IRA or some shit and the they think that just putting a little bit of money into those accounts saving a little bit and working is going to give them the life they want at the end of the day what these people felt to understand is the cost of inflation they felt to understand that job security is pretty much gone these days that more often than not they're going to get fired or made redundant and they're going to have to find new jobs a lot of these people live in a daydream they think that the government's going to take care of them that by the time they're 60 that everything's going to be all good what you need to understand is there's like seven billion people on this fucking planet what's so special about you to require special attention there's nothing when shit hits the fan everyone's in for themselves you know it's gonna be down to who invested on themselves in the early days those are the people that are gonna come out on top your education is what people rely too much on outside education only rely on school and they think that once they finish high school or college their education is over but there's enormous gaps in the education system there's so many things that people don't learn in school that you're going to have to understand at some stage in life if you want to come on top do you have emotional stability they don't teach about meditation in school do you know about investing they don't teach you about leveraging money in school do you know about relationships they don't teach you about any of these things you're gonna have to figure it out yourself you're gonna have to self-educate go to the source and then come back and use that that's how people that self-actualize do things they go to a source and they come back and they use the direct material that's why i'm always talking about reading and whatnot all this good stuff but let's not get off the topic here so the main thing is you need to be independent you need to be one of these people that's able to go to a different country altogether i'll give you a ticket you go to a different country you need to be able to navigate your way around you need to be able to find a hotel maybe get a job etc like that things like that you need to have independence you don't want to rely on other people you need to gain the skill to approach that person you like and play the field see what you like and get in a good relationship you don't want to fall into the socially conditioned narrative that so many people fall into where someone likes them and they get married and they get a shit job and they're stuck in the rats wheel you don't want to be these people look at what everyone else doesn't do the complete opposite do the inverse because if you do what everyone else is doing you don't get the results that everyone else is getting and i'm sure if you're watching this channel you don't want those results i'm sure you want something bigger and better than average so these are the ideas i'm trying to give to you to help you i'm in this path as well don't think that i'm outside don't think i'm just some outside entity just talking shit i follow these things as well i'm trying to be more independent i'm trying to grow as well so that's the video for today guys hope you enjoyed it make sure you give it a upvote if you liked it make sure you subscribe if you're not subscribed why the subscribe we're growing every day we've got good shit here subscribe peace take care