 Love is something that you experience within yourself. It need not be enslaved to anybody or anything. Relationship is individual. How you relate to this person, how you relate to this person, how you relate to this person is entirely different because the transactions cannot be same with everybody. Your child comes, you grab him and put him on your lap. Your neighbor comes, you don't do such things. You'll just do this, but with the same amount of love you can do it. Love is about how you are. It's got nothing to do with anybody. If this distinction is there, all relationships will go well.