 When the narcissist forces you to have a child When they force you to have a child against your will Against your freedom of choice They will persuade you to have a child with them By using force or threats or they will emotionally manipulate you They will refuse to use birth control Or they will lie and say that they are using birth control Or they will say that they are infertile They will say that they are not able to get pregnant Because they don't care about how it will affect your life Or the child's life They don't even care about how it will affect their own lives They will emotionally manipulate you And then they will sexually abuse you They may even threaten and intimidate you This has happened to a lot of people Who have been victims of narcissistic abuse They have gotten pregnant against their will Or the narcissist has taken their control over whether or not they choose to have a child By refusing to use birth control Lying about using birth control Or saying that they are infertile Which then resulted in them having a child with someone Who they did not want to have a child with Which may not mean that they don't love or care for the child But what it does mean is that they have been trapped in a situation Where they've had a child with someone They didn't choose to have a child with Against their will And against their freedom of choice Narcissists are abusive They are possessive and controlling They will force you to have a child with them So that they can have power over you They can influence your behaviour And direct the course of events They want to keep you under their control They want to dominate you When the narcissist forces you to have a child with them It can make your life very difficult Because they will hold you financially responsible for the child And raising a child takes up a lot of time Which can then affect your work It could cause you to lose your job Which could affect your performance at income But the narcissist doesn't care They're not concerned with how their behaviour will affect you They will lie about taking birth control Or they will poke holes in the condom They will take away your choice to decide whether or not you want to have a child Because they want to maintain power over you They want to control the relationship They want to make it difficult for you to leave them So that they can secure you as their source of supply So that you always have to deal with them So that you can't get away from them so easily When the narcissist forces you to have a child with them They will abuse you financially They will steal money from you They will say that they need money for the child But then they will spend it on themselves You might have made it clear to the narcissist That you do not want to have a child with them But they will lie about taking birth control Or they will poke holes in the condom They will say that they are infertile To cause you to have a child against your will Against your freedom of choice There is nothing wrong with having a child It is a beautiful thing But there is something very wrong with forcing someone to have a child It destroys the experience And some people do not want to have a child Which is their right You should not force someone into parenting a child Because by doing that You would be taking away their free will You would be taking away their right To decide whether or not they want to have a child Which can be a very traumatic experience for them It is abuse And abuse is wrong Thank you for watching I hope this video resonated with you Please like, comment, share and subscribe If you would like to donate My PayPal link is in the video description Coaching inquiries You can email me at coaching.narsafiver.uk Thank you for watching and I'll talk to you soon