 This makes the narcissist come crawling back to you you may have noticed how When you give them all of your attention all of your love and validation They just don't want to hear it. They don't want to be involved in that It doesn't interest them They get bored They just make some push you away even more. It makes them just want to Go off on their own and Find something else or do something else rather than Wanting to be with you rather than wanted to work things out They just want to leave you to try to fix things But when you do that, they really don't care about you. They don't give you any of their time or attention so let's talk about Making the narcissist crawl back to you to do that You need to take your attention off of them You need to stop focusing on them Stop trying to fix things Stop caring so much the person who cares the least Has the most power in the relationship when you care too much You're giving your power away Because they don't care at all. They don't really want things to get better If they did they would have taken the proper action to make things right Sometimes you just got to stop and ask yourself Why are you making all of the effort? Why are you trying to make things right? When you ask yourself that question And you take a step back Then the narcissist Is doing all of these crazy things to try to get your attention To try to get you to come back to them because they sense it they feel you pulling away They feel that they're losing your energy and they hate that They can't survive without it, but they'd rather just put you on the shelf Where your attention is still on them While they don't really care about you That's the perfect setting for a narcissist, but if you're watching this video You really need to take your power back You need to understand that You don't really need them anyway They need you far more than you need them and when you realize that They makes them Come crawling back to you especially if you still fake interest in the narcissist If you pretend that you still went to relationship with them Which I don't really recommend But if we're talking about making the narcissist Come crawling back That will do it But you have to make him you have to make them think that They need to fix something for you They're not doing enough for you because narcissists they do want validation That's what they're seeking But when they feel like they've already got you They feel no need To make an effort with you anymore Just some of my thoughts for today On this topic it's starting to rain now, so I'm gonna end this here But thank you all For joining me. I'll talk to you all in another video very soon