 Welcome to Psychic Medium, Tony Green. I'm Tony Green. And the first song I'm hearing this morning is, let's get this party started, let's get this party started. I feel like such a dork singing, but if they bring things through me, I just kind of have to, you know, let it come through. So I hope my blog talk connection is strong this morning. I feel like there might be some difficulties with it. If there is, I'm gonna try to re-log in to blog talk. I can't control basically anything anymore, but hey, whatever. I can't control like the blog talk connection or the YouTube connection. I do my best to have everything set up on my end, but we never know what's going on, like with YouTube or with blog talk. I mean, they do their best. There's a lot of people using it. We don't know what's going on with satellites or anything else. So we're just gonna do our best today and like go with the flow. So the first thing I wanna say, couple quick announcements. The race is coming up. The superhero stomp is coming up May 22nd. For those of you who can make it, I would absolutely love for you to be there, bring your children. They can dress up as superheroes and do the run. I actually finally put a link in the chat and in the comments or in the description for the race. Now, if you wanna donate, if you wanna hit that link and go donate to the race you can, please let me know so that I can give you a shout out on air, Matthew Moore. Thank you so much for donating. Anybody else who has donated, please let me know. If you're a business that would like to make a donation for the charity and of it, please let me know. I'll be happy to give your business the shout out also. Okay. I'm gonna be talk and talk in the night with Phil, paranormal Phil tomorrow night from nine to 11. Okay folks, I expect you to bring your spooky questions. Your spooky, spooky questions about paranormal stuff. I think Phil will have some good answers about paranormal stuff. I'll give you intuitive answers, all that good stuff. Okay. What else, what else, what else? I feel like I should be saying, I do private sessions, tonyg.info if you want a private session. All right, I am going to be taking callers in a moment. When I call your area code, please just say your name and you're, oh my gosh, I'm already seeing orbs, you guys. I just like above my one plant, I saw blue orb. It was that big, it was awesome. Let's see what happens today. On Monday show, there was a lot of activity, beautiful angelic activity that even the viewers could see. Okay, when I call your area code, just give me your name and your area, not your area code, your name and where you're calling from, I'm so sorry. And a direct question, an exact question and I'll be, I'll do my best to answer that question. If you want to connect with the loved one, I just need your loved one's name and relationship to you and any conversation or connection that you would want to, any conversation or question that you have for your loved one. Yeah, okay, so if you, some people get on in their life, they wanna know why do I need a name and an exact relationship because once you're on and you say who's there, anybody and everybody who's in the vicinity is gonna start talking, even if they're here for another listener or watcher. I've had people show up that like people don't know and it makes it look like I don't know really like, oh, she was really wrong. No, I'm not wrong. If this person is here and they wanna talk, you ask for anybody, here's anybody. So be exact about your question and your connection and we will get you the best possible answer we can, okay? If you've called in before and you're calling in again, please have a different question, a new question available. I wanna say hello to everybody online. We have Cheryl, Lolly, Heather, Genevieve. Bon, hey you guys, Genevieve. It's always wonderful to see you, Cheryl. I love when you're on. I miss you guys too. I miss the baby so much, Cheryl. Oh my goodness. Lolly, okay, so first I'm like, Heather has a question about her relationship and I'm gonna read her question. Now, if you go to YouTube, you can put a question in the chat. If I can get to the question, I absolutely will. I will take my callers on my call log and I'll try to come back every once in a while and get a question on the chat. If you do wanna call in, it's 845-277-9131. Now, if you are watching WSCS or Rude Rangers TV or Roku or any of the other podcasts, iHeart, any other station or channel or podcast and you want to join the show live, I go live every single Monday and Wednesday at noon for a minimum of 30 minutes. I have to do the show in 30 minute segments because it does air on TV and TV does 30 minute segments. So if I'm at 30 minutes and I go over, I'm gonna run that next 30 minutes if you have to hear me babble. Typically, I have more than enough call, I can't get to all my callers, unfortunately. So if I'm running and at that 30 minute mark, if I have a date fully booked, I'll try to wind it down at that 30 minute mark. But if you do join me live, you can comment on YouTube live, in the chat section. If you join me on podcast, you can call in and ask questions. I always love the people who call in and join me whether they're new or they've been with me for a while. It's always amazing and fun. Okay, okay, here we go. Heather's question is, is my relationship ever going to get back to normal after the big blow-up that just happened with my kid, me and him? Should I just move on? I've been given an ultimatum by my son to leave him. Okay, now up until I heard the ultimatum part, I had one answer set. Then when I heard that, I have to change the answer a little bit. And here's why. You ain't the boss of me. Like basically here's what I'm hearing. You cannot let anyone, friend, family, child, unless this person has done something physically to your child, they don't get to say what you do as an adult. Even if this was your child's biological father, I get it's not. I get it's not his biological father. But even if it was, there are blow-ups in family. People fight. That's the problem with today's world. Nobody's willing to effing put in the work. You have a little fight or a big fight and everybody's like jump, get out, run. That's not the way it always works in this world. It's not about the fight. What did we learn from the fight? Can we resolve the issues of the fight? Not can we resolve the fight. You can resolve any effing fight, okay? You can. You can resolve any fight whatsoever. You can get over any fight. Did you resolve the issue that caused the fight? Can you resolve the issue that caused the fight? If you cannot resolve the issue that caused the fight, jump. And I'm hearing that Chris Carl song, jump, jump. I'm sorry. Okay. I'm not sorry. What I'm getting is, if you go, if you leave this situation, your son cannot in any way, shape or form think this was because of his ultimatum. And mostly because then in the future with whatever partner you're with, this will come up again. And your children will feel like they have jurisdiction over your relationship. No child should have that power again unless, unless there was some form of abuse on the children. Your job is to always protect your children. It is, that's just your job. It's to protect your children. Every parent, your job is to protect your children. Even if you're married to the guy, your job is to protect your children first, okay? You brought them into this world. It's your job to protect them. From anyone and everyone, brothers, sisters, uncles, aunts, grandpas, grandmas and yes, partners. That's your damn job. That's it. That's it. You protect them and you teach them to protect themselves. Now, having said that, if there was no abuse, can the issue be resolved? I feel like it can't. I feel like this issue is unresolvable. I feel like whatever caused the big blow up, that action is going to continue and eventually there will be another big blow up. In which case, then you're all just waiting for the next shoe to drop and that's not healthy, okay? I can't tell you leave this guy. I can tell you this isn't over. This unhealthy part of it isn't over, okay? Relationships are not easy, no matter whom you are with. But the one thing I can say and for you, anybody listening, listen. Number one, don't stay with somebody out of guilt. That's just an insult. Don't stay with someone because you feel badly for them, because you don't wanna hurt them. That's a freaking insult. Let them go and let them find somebody who's with them because they want to be with them. Maybe find somebody that has more in common with them. Number two, don't waste anybody's time. If you know this isn't the person, if you know you're going to be moving on, if you know you're not serious about this person, but they're just a place setting, a seat setting, a seat filler, seat filler. A seat filler until the next person or the right person or the side person gets their shit together. Let that person go. Don't be selfish. Let that person go and let that person find somebody again who wants them, who wants to be with them. I've been in both of those situations and it's a really horrible, horrible place to be. Don't waste anybody's time. Don't waste my time. If I'm not it, that's okay. My ego can handle. I'm not it. There's a line behind you. I'm kidding. I'm not kidding. I'm kidding. Sit down, move over. Step up. I'm just saying everybody's got a line. You might not know there's a line of people waiting to get to know you or that wanna take you out, but everybody has a line. There's not just this one person that's treating you like dog doo doo. That is the only person that's interested in you. If they're not serious about you, sit down, move aside. Let somebody who's serious about me or you or you jump in. Let them show me what it's all about if you can't. That's it. Now, if you're on either end of that, if you're wasting somebody's time, if you're leading somebody, even if you say I'm not leading a mom, they know. They don't know. They have hope. They have trust us. We know girls, we know girls speak up. My women, my women shout out on my chat. We know, we know. So I'm just gonna say in this case, Heather, don't waste this guy's time if you know it's over. Don't make excuses, but don't let your son believe that he had the power via his ultimatum to break you up. You can say, listen, it was a very unhealthy situation and it was difficult for me to make this decision. I did not make it because of your ultimatum, but I did make it because it was very unhealthy and I needed to make sure I was making the right choice. And that would be my recommendation if you go that route. I can tell you there are going to be a lot more blowups. They're going to be instigated by both sides, the boyfriend and the son. They both want to win in this case. Oh my goodness. It's a very difficult decision. Your son's forever, right? And the last thing that the angels want to tell you about this is if your mother were in this situation, what would it have been healthiest for your mother to do? For everybody involved, okay? I don't think this is, I'm gonna tell you honestly, this isn't your ever after relationship. I know that, but I can't tell you what to do. Okay, beautiful girl. I'm gonna go to the first caller, two, one, two. What's your name? Where are you calling from, love? Hello. Hello. Hi, Tony. Friend, hello. Hey. Yeah. I wanted to know what's around me. It could be a do-depart love one who has a message or a name to know right now. The first message that is coming through for you is you're okay. You're okay, you're okay, you're okay. The second message is it's almost done. Whatever you're going through, whatever, I get the word evaluation, but I think I'm saying the word wrong, whatever, leveling up or learning or evolution, evolution that you're going through, it's almost done. I feel like in six months, you will have completed this course that you're going through right now. I feel like in six, within, within six months, everything that you've been going through that's been so tumultuous and difficult is going to smooth out a little bit. You're gonna come out the other side wiser, which is what we need to do at this point. Don't look at it like, why is this happening? Say, thank you for letting me have this experience so I can learn from it. The one statement I'm hearing, that should be your mantra for right now, whether you are religious or not, is there but for the grace of God, go I, which means, you know what? I might be in this situation, but thank God I'm not in that situation. So a small little stupid example is one day I was driving and I was very upset because of, because I couldn't, I'm not even gonna go into why, but I was upset about my ankle having been broken and not being able to run and I hadn't been recovered. And I'm driving down the street and I see this guy in a wheelchair, rolling his wheelchair up hill. And I'm like, I'm sorry God, I'll never complain again. Like, I was like, okay, point taken, point taken. I don't feel so sorry for myself anymore now, do I? So looking at all of the players, everybody around you and realizing this might be my circumstance, but this is what this person is going through. And thank God I'm not in that situation. Thank God I'm the observer of it. And just coming out of it with that view will get you through it, get you through this evolutionary process a little bit faster. So you could be done in about three months, but depending on how you perceive what happens or understand what happens, will determine the amount of time that you go through it. Okay, beautiful soul. Thank you, Tony, I appreciate it. You are so welcome. You are so, so welcome. Bryn, thank you so much for calling in. I look forward to next time. Thank you. Okay, I'm sorry to say this. I am, I'm so sorry. You need to not use excuses. So for example, for example, when I had my dogs, I was so content with my dogs. I didn't care if I went out. I had, they were my little love bugs and I didn't care if I like went out and did things, I'd always be like, oh no, I have to go home to my dogs. Like I was using them as an excuse to not be out there. So what you need to do is really be in that space where you are not hiding behind something. You're not hiding behind something. You need to get front and center of your own life because your life is about you and whomever, whatever else is in your life is, I know it sounds harsh and I get that people don't like when people say this but any person that comes into your life, any pet that, it's kind of an accent of you. It doesn't become your whole identity or your reason not to participate in your own life or be out doing what you need to do or want to do or living or just in general living. So what I'm getting is that it's really important for you, even if you do have other things going on, this is the vocal, it's not all consuming or also living your life, you know. And Pat, this isn't listening or watching. We wanna be in a relationship and we say to ourselves, like I want somebody who loves me unconditionally, do you love you unconditionally? Cause if you don't, you won't recognize unconditional love. You won't, you won't. But what is more important is we think somebody comes in and they're gonna be our personal playmate in the bedroom. Yes, absolutely, they should be your personal playmate. Absolutely, maybe on the living room couch, the kitchen chair, kitchen, okay, maybe not the kitchen table, that's kind of gross. But like the bathroom, wherever you want them to be your personal playmate, intimately they can do that. But you still have to live your life. Okay, you still have to live your path. Oh my God, your destiny and your future. Somebody can't come into your life and that becomes your focal point and you let that take over everything. So you have to be, and even if it's Pat's, even if it's Pat's, you need to be in that space where you are having still your focal point and doing your thing, okay, beautiful girl? Yeah, it's a good thing to be contemplating and listeners can get a reading with Tony. I just saved up my money and booked one again, so. Oh, I'm so excited, I'm so excited. I can't wait to do your reading. And I'm gonna say, and Pat will tell you this too, my readings on the show are completely different than my one-on-one readings. Yes, you get honest, accurate information, but it's like for the show, it's a little different vibe. There's a lot of energy coming at me. I try to make it a little funny. I try to make it a little bit more entertaining because it is a show, but like one-on-one, it's much more private. It's all about you and your energy and like really helping you move forward, right? Yeah, it's the real stuff. You get your questions answered and you get questions answered that you didn't even have or think you had. And she channels wonderful information and I'm already thinking about saving up for my second one. I haven't even gotten the first one. I just love you, Tony. So God bless and thank you. I love you so much too and I can't wait to talk to you during your session and thank you so much for that. Thank you, thank you. Okay, I'm gonna take one more. I'm gonna try to get to one more person in the chat. Hey, I saw Sal, hey, Patrick. Patrick, how are you? Patrick is here, Sal is here, hey, Sal. And unconscious wisdom, hey. And then Jennifer is here, hey Jennifer. I'm gonna, just wanted to tell you that I went to the funeral and it was good like I said it would be. Okay, so for those of you who don't know, Jennifer is Jennifer from Canada, I believe. She called in a week or two weeks ago and asked about going to a funeral that involved an ex's side of the family. And I just said, yeah, you're gonna get some. I don't remember everything I said but she just gave me a confirmation that it was good and that the information I gave her it was valid and it worked out. I'm Patrick, I'm not saying. And Patrick says, and Tony looks even better in person. You are very kind, Patrick, you are a sweetie, that is for sure. And yes, okay, so a few things about my sessions. A couple of people have reached out and asked a few questions about private sessions. Yes, you can fly me out to where you are. And yes, I will do sessions that way. No, I will not stay at your home. Flying to your home, I can. I will not stay at your home. If you fly me out for a session with you you must also put me in a hotel, not at your personal home. This is not a way to get a weekend with me. It will not work. Sorry, but true. And if you fly in, yes, I will make sure that I'm available to do your session during those fly in dates, the dates that you are here. I've had a lot of people fly in from other countries and other states to travel in to see me and have sessions with me and healing work with me. And I try to accommodate them the best that I can as long as I'm not out of the country or out of the state, it works out perfectly. Thank you so much for joining me today. Until Monday, have an absolutely amazing weekend.