 Hi, I'm Matthew Coast, head coach and founder of commitmentconnection.com and in this video We're going to talk about how to catch a man who's trying to scam you out of money But before we talk about that if you're struggling to attract the right man into a committed lasting relationship, make sure you go to my website at commitmentconnection.com and take my quest So today's question comes from a woman in our community who asks She says how to catch a liar and a crook this guy I've talked to for a year wants me to upgrade my PayPal account To a business account, but really doesn't say why except my PayPal won't take his money He tricked me before and I'm not falling again help So there's really not a whole lot to be said here other than that you need to stop Just just stop it really just stop what you're doing if a guy tries to scam you Don't continue talking to him. Stop talking to this guy. I don't know why you're still talking to this guy If you get scammed by the guy, you know the same guy twice, you know, that's really your fault You need to stop talking to this person. He is I mean, why would you talk to somebody who's Scammed you out of money that just seems ridiculous You know, I've had a few women contact me about men scamming them out of money So I'm gonna give you a few quick tips here just to make sure that You don't get scammed so First is if you meet a guy online and he's too far away from you to meet up Stop talking to him. Just stop talking to him all together. There's been situations where guys were in Iraq You know, who knows if they're actually in Iraq or not or they're you know in Australia and you know Just places that were far away from these women and they just continued to talk to these guys and you know fall in love And then start sending him money and it's just It's not a good story. It's not a good not a good thing to do So if he tries to give you some kind of sob story about how he's in a difficult situation and needs help Stop talking to him If he tells you that he's falling in love with you and you guys haven't even met yet Stop talking to him. If he tries to get you to send him some money Stop talking to him Just block him and stop talking to him don't let people take advantage of you and build your sense of self-worth and value so that you respect yourself enough so that You don't let men scam you. I mean your intuition has got to be you know ringing like a you know Major red flags popping up all over the place, right? You know, listen to your intuition, you know Have some self-respect don't send men money especially over the internet Especially if you don't know them and even if you do know them in real life, don't send men money Don't why are you sending men money? Stop it. Just stop that all together so that's it for this video if you know if you're struggling if you're having problems Attracting the right man into a committed lasting relationship. Make sure you go to my website at commitmentconnection.com and take my quiz I'm Matthew coast and I'll speak with you again soon