 So, punkie88 says, I asked if he liked me and I had no reply, a week later I noticed a change of attitude. He is pursuing me more, but what does this mean? So, I asked if he liked me and I had no reply. A week later I noticed a change of attitude. I think it is enough to know if you want to commit or not. I decided to leave my options open. I don't wait for men anymore. Should I dump him? I don't want to waste my time and energy in the wrong. Yeah, I mean like what I said before, you should be dating other people. So, I think I talked about this in one of my last live streams where guys know by the six, by the six month mark, he will know for certain what kind of a relationship he does or doesn't want to have with you. I mean if you, I mean it's kind of a weird question to send him a message where you're like, Hey, do you like me? Which one tells me that he's not showing you that he likes you or you're coming from a really needy space. One or the two. If you're coming from a really needy space and you're like, Hey, do you like me? Right? Like, and he's showing you through his actions that he likes you, but he's not saying it. That's kind of a weird question for him to get, but it's also if you've been dating for four months and he likes you, like there's no reason for him not to answer that question and be like, of course I like, you know what I mean, which is what, which is what he should be doing is he should be saying, Yes, absolutely. Of course, I like you, which is kind of weird as well. So it just sounds like there's some weird things going on in your situation. And you know, he said he wants to go with the flow like, like what you know that that one that's not a very masculine thing to say like, Hey, I want to go with the flow like, what does that even mean? You know, it's like, Oh, I just want to be super wishy washy all the time. You know, it's like, okay, you know, my, my, you know, you said you decided to leave your options open. I suggest that you do go out and date other men and you don't wait for him and that you make sure that you are do have a space of abundance and know just for a fact that, you know, let him know, absolutely let him know that it's not that whatever is going on. If it isn't working for you that it doesn't work for you and that you're looking for something more, if that's that is your case. I mean, four months is a pretty good period of time to be dating a guy and being in a space of like, you know, I don't know what's going on. And at the same time, you want to be communicating with a guy what it is that it that you do want, right? Because he's not a mind reader and he doesn't know and it's not necessarily coming from the masculine for him to try to lock you down into a relationship and stuff. And so if that's something that you want and you need, then it's something that you need to make sure that you're communicating and you're talking about.