 Hello, and welcome to Psychic Medium Tony G, where I take callers and answer their questions about life, love, career, finances, or help them connect to a loved one on the other side. Today will be absolutely no different. I wanna thank everybody for calling in today who is on the line waiting to have a question answered or to connect with a loved one. I wanna let you know that I believe everybody is intuitive. I believe we are born intuitive. And throughout our life, at certain times we all have those intuitive moments where we know, do this, don't do that, don't go down this road, or we just feel something coming in that's going to be big and life-changing. No matter what that looks like or feels like for you, I know that each and every one of us keep this throughout our life. And the more we use it, the more we practice it, the more, the stronger, the better it becomes in each and every one of us. So without further weight for all of the wonderful people who have called into the show today, I'm going to go to the first caller and see what they want today. Is it to ask a question, to connect with a loved one? Let's find out. 941, how are you today? Hi, I'm fine. My name is Carla. Hey, Carla. I had a feeling you were gonna come. I've had a feeling that there was a problem you were gonna come on. I just keep on waiting. Thank you so much for holding on. Yeah, for those who don't know, I had a little bit of difficulty in connecting to the internet today. So thank you guys so much for holding on. A couple of you held on for it. So I'm so grateful for that. So Carla, where are you calling from today? Florida. Nice. And I have a question. Go right ahead. What's your question? Yeah, so what I'm hearing is there are two opportunities that you're going to have. Oh, that's not at all what I thought I was gonna say. I thought something completely different was gonna come out of my mouth. Love when that happens. Two opportunities are gonna be coming your way. The first opportunity is gonna come your way in October. This is a good opportunity, but there's a better one coming in November. Now I'm going to tell you, you can use both opportunities if you choose to, but the one in November is the better option. You're not gonna wanna wait until November because you're not gonna trust. You're gonna think, well, what if she was wrong? I understand that completely. So the one coming in October, I feel like it's in like a physician's clinic, but this physician's clinic doesn't have any conflict of interest. It might be like a chiropractor's office or a, yeah, I feel like it's a chiropractor's office. Do not over-commit yourself. Do like, let's say, just say to the chiropractor, let's start with one day a week and see how that works out or two days a week because in November you're gonna get a really, really, really good opportunity. And I don't know, they're not giving me a lot of details with the opportunity in November. Still take the one in October. Do the one in October. Definitely say yes. And I feel like it's a co-op sort of thing. I don't know how else to describe it. It's, you're going to be there. You're going to be working there. And it might be like a piece, like a piece meal. I don't know why they're using that word, but like a split, rather than renting a room, it might be a split. For everybody, he refers you, he gets, and it's okay because these are all his or her, the chiropractor or the physician's people, and he'll start sending them to you. So it's a win-win for you even if you stay there after you get the situation in November. And in November, this one, all I can tell you about November, I see pure gold light behind it. So pure gold light, as you and I both know, is really good. I mean, that's a really good, there's a lot of light, a lot of love. I feel like there will be no conflict of interest. Everybody there does their own thing. And I feel like you will have your own room, your own space. And I feel like they work on a referral system. Whatever this is, I feel like it's gonna be a very good situation for you, even if you're in a building with a lot of like-minded people, but not like-minded practices. Now I understand what you're saying about the conflict of interest. People say, oh, there's enough for everybody, and don't worry about competition. But spiritual people aren't always as spiritual as they should be. Oh, they can be nasty. Just be true. They'll say stuff and try to learn your business or take away your business and offer it to someone else. Well, that one, you know, there are, I know a number of really amazing chiropractors that absolutely will do, like I started my business in a chiropractor's office who sent me person after person after person. He was so kind-hearted and so good. And he really helped me in that way. So there are really good chiropractors. There are really good spiritual workers. There are really good everything. And then, you know, humans are humans. There's gonna be good. There's gonna be bad. There's gonna be indifferent. Just be very open-minded. In order for you to move forward into this situation of love and light, I feel like you do have to heal all this crap from the past, okay? And part of doing that is giving people like a new chiropractor an opportunity, giving a new set of people an opportunity. It's like if you are in a relationship and it goes south or bad, you don't say, I'm never gonna be in another relationship. You try the next person. And then you hope you don't bring all your stuff with you and they don't bring all. In any case, the bottom line is you are going to have a really good experience if you open up and don't listen to what people say. Feel what they are saying. Feel their energy. Feel their intentions. And then you are gonna be in a much better place with it. The chiropractor's office, I feel like that's gonna last between three and six months. But remember, something else will come in in the interim within a month later. But you can still stay in that chiropractor or that whatever that clinic is, whatever, it could be a physical therapist. Who knows? Whatever that clinic is, say yes, jump in and at least get that energy flowing again and give them that opportunity to prove that there's goodness and graciousness out there that will work for you. Okay, sweetie? You are welcome and thank you for calling in and please call me back and let me know how everything works out. You're welcome, bye-bye. Okay, I'm gonna go directly to the next caller and the next caller is 917. Hello, 917, how are you today? Absolutely, my pleasure. Thank you for calling in and staying on the line today. Thank you. Where are you calling from? Thank you, I would like to ask you. Yeah, yeah. Go ahead, what do you want to know? Okay, exactly, what do you want to know? Because there's a lot of moving parts in this relationship. I mean, there's a lot of moving parts in this relationship. So exactly what do you want to know about you and him? Are you gonna be moving forward, staying together? Yeah, moving forward. Okay, more recently, has there been a little complication with this relationship? A little one, nothing? Yeah. Okay, thank you for confirming that. See, there's a lot of moving parts with this relationship. There's a lot going on here. There's a lot behind closed doors. I'm just seeing an empty room with closed doors all around it and these doors lead to rooms that are very dark. So there's a lot of stuff you're not telling him and a lot of stuff he's not telling you. The two of you have been kind of playing this little mismatch game so far. Both of you need to decide, because it's not just him and it's not just you. You're both like, oh, this is okay for now, but we'll see what else is going on. You both need to decide, is this what you want or not? And once you decide that everything will fall into place or fall out of place, you two, my goodness, there's a lot of moving parts with this. You two really need to have a conversation about what you really want in a relationship and where you are and what that should look like to each of you because right now you're kind of going on, for lack of a better way of putting it, a wish and a prayer and you're just seeing what happens. I think you guys need to have a conversation. After this conversation, you'll understand where he's coming from, he'll understand where you're coming from and then from there you can make the decision that's best for you. You're welcome. That's all I'm gonna say. I'm gonna say again, I'm gonna say this again, there's a lot of moving parts with this situation. There are some things that have not been talked about yet and they really need to be talked about. There are some, you're kind of going on, and for whatever this means for your situation, you're kind of going on a wish and a prayer here, like, oh, we're just, everything will just work out you need to have a serious conversation about this and what it looks like and what it means to both of you because there are some things that have been unsaid. It's not always what people say when they're getting together and it's what they don't say, it's what they leave out, the things they're afraid to talk about. You need to talk about the things that have not been talked about yet and then the two of you can make that solid decision moving forward. I hope this makes sense to you. I'm saying, okay, here's the best way I can put this. If I were moving in with a guy, right? If I were moving in with a guy, I would talk about not only the personal end of it but the business end of it. Like, what does this look like financially for us? How do the finances work? How does this work out? What if this happens? You need to talk about all the things you guys have not talked about because there's a lot of things that the two of you have not discussed yet that need to be discussed. This is a big life changing, life altering move for you more so than him. What is he sacrificing in this? You're gonna be sacrificing a lot. You need some answers before you do that, okay? If you were going into business with a person, and I love using this analogy every time, all the time, if you were going into business, if you were opening a business with a person, what would you want to know? What would you ask upfront? Because let me tell you, there's no more important business than your heart, your mind, and your vajay, okay? That is the most important business that you have is your heart, your head, and your vajay. Now, if you're going into business with this person, there are things you need to know that you have the right to know. And if you don't know those things, don't make a plan until you do know them, okay? What I'm seeing, I'm just gonna tell you what I'm seeing is there are things that have not been discussed, things that are still kind of not out in the open. And if you go there without having this discussion within a month, you're gonna know exactly what I'm talking about, okay? Within a month, you're gonna know exactly what I'm talking about, and you're gonna call me back and you're gonna say, oh my God, you were right, this is what I didn't know. And then we'll have a conversation about that. Anything can be fixed, even after the fact, anything can be fixed. But it's better to know what you're going into before you get there, okay, sweetie? Okay, okay, well, I hope this was helpful, and I look forward to hearing back from you. I'm gonna go directly to 407. Hello, 407, how are you today? Tony, this is Lori, and I'm calling from Florida. Hey. Thanks for coming on my call. You're welcome, this is the second call from Florida today. I love Florida, too, just absolutely love it. So how is everything, how's the weather in Florida? Just getting gorgeous. I love that, I absolutely love that, absolutely. So, how can I help you? Do you have a question for me today? Yes, yes, if you could please the company come to you like three months now, and today, the potential buyer. Yeah, they're going to, listen, one thing to be very well aware of, there's a lot of, I do feel like there's gonna be some interest, but you have to watch your bottom lines, okay? The best thing I can say is watch your bottom line. Don't be too, how do I say, don't be too excited about going down that road because the bottom line might not look the way you want it to look, but do allow, I think the real estate person is going to want to help, but there will be a payoff for this person, which is fine, everybody works for money. So, make sure you're watching your bottom line with everything, okay? Just watch your bottom line is the best way that I can say it, okay? It doesn't actually come from the same line set that I do, introduction, it's been by me, you know, you know we've all got our shortcomings. Yeah. The shortcomings is that. Okay, so I feel like something good will come of this, it's not gonna look the way you want it to look. Again, they're just saying, watch your bottom line, take your time with the situation, and make sure that you, just the biggest thing they're saying is watch your bottom line, okay? Your husband is, I'll do this, I'll tell you he might not be in as much of a hurry as you are for things to process the way you want them to process. Does that make sense to you? Well, because he's the one putting pressure on me to sell it, and he knows with my personality that I can sell it more. Okay. So my husband knows that if he can sell it, it's me, but he doesn't support anything I do. He won't grown up, I don't know if that way. Okay, so when I say your process and his process, your process runs one way and his runs the other. So here's what I'll try to say it another way. Do what you're gonna do without saying what you're gonna say. Don't necessarily run it by him to get the permission because your process is gonna be very different than his process, and your outcome will be very different than what he is thinking. Does that make more sense to you? You know what I am, I know what I am. Okay, so as you're going through this process and wanting to let go of the house and he wants to let go of the house, make sure you might both want the end result, but we have different visions on how to get to that end result. Make sure you're keeping your process kind of to yourself and you are working within those parameters. Anything you run past him, he's gonna have a better way, a better day. Don't do this, don't do, just make sure you're doing what feels right. It's more like it's better to ask forgiveness than permission in this case. I hope that makes sense to you. Thank goodness. Sometimes when I say things, it's really weird because sometimes the way things come out of my mouth, at first people jump to this conclusion, but then when it's explained a little deeper or they look at it in a different aspect to a different relationship of it, they're like, oh yeah, that makes perfect sense. Your process and his process are very different. Just do your process, do it, know what you're doing, and move on. Now really quickly, I had another friend in Florida, I love her, she's like a sister to me, and she worked with many real estate agents. She finally fired them all and sold the house herself for the price she wanted because nobody else was putting any effort into it. So it's okay that you do it that way, 100% absolutely, okay? No, definitely. I have no option but with his rigid way of thinking that he doesn't know it is. Yeah, isn't it amazing how that works sometimes? It really is. I wanna thank you so much for calling in. I'm so grateful I was able to have the time to help you. Remember, it's better to ask forgiveness than permission in this case. So keep going on that track and keep allowing yourself to move forward in the way you need to move forward to get done what you need to get done. You're gonna write a beautiful description for your house, you're gonna write a beautiful sales pitch for your house, and it's going to get a lot of attention. As for everybody who joined me today, thank you so much for joining me. I don't always get to tell you what you want to hear, but I do get to tell you what they tell me to tell you. So, take a deep breath, let that breath out, enjoy the rest of your week. Don't forget to make some magic. Until next time, thank you so much for joining me in this episode of Psychic Medium, Tony G. Have an amazing day.