 When you know this about the narcissist the game Changes just out here Just relaxing Having a good time Yeah, when you know this about the narcissist The game changes This one is a real game changer So I'm not gonna waste any time. I'm going to get straight into it The narcissist wants to present this image to you As though they're so confident and secure This image of grandiosity Whether it's money physical appearance or intelligence They want to display this image to you when really The truth is They are actually very insecure they doubt themselves They don't really think that they're all that But they want people to think that they do and the reason why Is because It's like a wall they use it as a defense To separate themselves from other people and by doing that It also makes it impossible for them to ever connect to anyone Because of course to connect to people You have to be vulnerable You have to be okay with Not being perfect Displaying your flaws and the perfections which of course is something that a narcissist cannot do They have to display this image of perfection And they expect you to see it the same way as they see themselves in their minds When you know this About the narcissist The game changes because they want you to think That they love themselves and their lives are so great Everything's just perfect They want you to think that they're the shit so That's how they act they force themselves into situations and they Try to display This delusional sense of confidence war against The very arrogant and audacious and you look at it like Okay, this person must really love themselves They must be so secure But then you should also think of it like So why do they need so much attention from me? Why do they need my admiration and validation? What do they need that for? if they're so secure and There lies the greatest contradiction of all because If they were secure confident people They wouldn't need your attention They wouldn't engage in attention-seeking behavior They wouldn't need to be arrogant or grandiose And They wouldn't need to feel like they're superior to you Because it's kind of like a paradox really But when you get to a place where you really love yourself and you accept your flaws and the perfections And you really are secure within yourself You don't actually see anyone as being beneath you you see everyone as your equal No matter who they are How attractive they are How much money they have None of that really matters You still see them as though they're on the same level so Although narcissists try to portray this image They're not aware of what they're actually communicating To those who do have the knowledge They don't realize that everything they do Demonstrates fear shame and insecurity They don't realize that but even if they did realize it They wouldn't be able to stop themselves Because they need supply They have to feel like they're superior to other people They have to and this is the game changer when you know this because this goes for anyone When you see someone who's acting so arrogant So audacious and it looks like they think They're above everyone They're better than everyone People who are so grandiose And they're trying to display this image of Stability and security you see a person like that And you think you know, they must be really confident and secure people But actually all of this is just a compensate for deep insecurity That's the truth because when you really feel secure within yourself You don't have to demonstrate anything to anyone You don't care what anyone thinks about you and that doesn't mean that you don't care about people You can still care about people but How people think of you Just doesn't matter as much Although you still have that empathy there and that's another big difference as well is that if Narcissists had empathy they wouldn't want to feel like they're superior to anyone because For a person who does have empathy That doesn't feel good if anything they would feel shame They would feel like they would want to lift that person up Rather than tearing them down, but that's it when you know this About the narcissist the game changes you begin to realize that every thought That enters their minds and every action and behavior and Feeling that those thoughts lead to All come from Deep insecurity and shame all of their behaviors are nothing more And coping and defense mechanisms That's the raw truth everything they do They're just trying to cope with how they feel about themselves They're just trying to defend Their false self. I hope you all Enjoyed this live video this evening. I hope it's bye to a few if it did Please give it a thumbs up. Thank you all for joining this live video and I will talk to you again very