 Hi, I'm Matthew Coase from commitmentconnection.com and today I have a question from a woman in our community who Simply asks how do I make him stay? Now there's this is kind of a two-part answer here the short First part of this answer is you don't make him stay. He stays because he wants to stay not because you make him and And I think that's important for a number of reasons, but Let's just move on to the The second part of this answer, which is if you want a guy to stay with you You have to be the type of woman that he would want to stay with and that really boils down more than anything to a Concept that I call alignment Being in alignment With him and him being in alignment with you He has to be able to see you as someone that he could be with in a long term Committed relationship. He has to see you as the type of woman that he wants to be with forever That's the only way that he's gonna stay with you if He doesn't see you in that way It doesn't matter What you say to him, you know, maybe there's some things that'll get you to pull him back in and and get him to stay a little bit longer But if you want something that lasts Something that's long-term You need to be in alignment with him He needs to see you as the type of woman that he wants to commit to and the type of woman that he wants to marry and No amount of forcing will ever get him to do that and That's it's that whole conversation is kind of a big topic that I've created an entire program on so if you want more information about How to connect with a man and how to attract the right man into a committed lasting relationship Make sure you visit my website at CommitmentConnection.com I'm Matthew coast and I'll speak with you again soon