 What if I mutually got broken up with recently and this guy, you mutually, you mutually got broken up with? Okay. And this guy that is attracted to me asked me out, but since the breakup, I'm not ready for a relationship. So I told him I would consider going on a date with him in March. Is that too long? Well, I mean, if you're like, I'm a guy and I talk to a woman and I'm talking to her and I'm like, and she says, it's mosquito, and she says, I'm, hey, you know, it's, it's what it like September, right in August right now. Like I'll consider going out with you in March. As a guy, I'd be like, she's blowing me off. That's the first thought that would come to my mind. She's completely blowing me off, right? Because guys experience this all the time where women are like, oh, you know, I'm really, really busy and they're just trying to be nice. And really what they're saying is I have no interest in you at all, right? And they're like, oh, get back to me some other time, you know, we'll talk when I'm less busy, you know, we'll hang out when I'm less busy, when I've got less things going on. And so most guys are like, okay, she's blowing me off. I'm not even going to waste my time with her at all anymore. I might delete her and remove her completely from my stuff because she's blowing me off. And a guy wants a woman who is, you know, it's the same thing with, with women, right? Like we get all these women that are like, yeah, I want a guy who's as, you know, in love with me as I am with him. And then, you know, it's the same thing with guys, right? The guys, most guys, most healthy, like well adjusted, valuable men, they're, they're like the things that don't work with them, games don't work with them, right? Telling them, blowing them off doesn't work with them, ignoring them doesn't work with them. All those things that you do, they, like all those tactics, not saying that this is a tactic, but all those tactics don't work with them because they're like, I want somebody that likes me as much as I like them. And I want something that's going to be easy and fun and I'm going to enjoy. I don't want to have to convince this person to want to be with me. Why would I want to do that? I want somebody who's really into me and is excited to see me and is excited to date me and all that kind of stuff. And so will, you know, will he lose feelings? Quite possibly, quite possibly he'll find somebody else completely, you know? And it's one of those things though that you have to, you know, coming from, that's why it's important to come from a world of abundance because it's like, it's not a big deal because it's like, there's lots of people out there, right? And so, so my suggestion is if you're not ready for it, that's fine. Is it too long? Probably. Will he lose feelings quite possibly? And will he find somebody else? There's a good chance. So I, you know, I wouldn't bank on it. You know, you have no idea what's going to happen. And so I wouldn't, but you need, you need to get yourself together first. Otherwise, you're going to have problems and you're going to create problems in the situation, in the dating situation, in the relationship situation.