 Hi, Kevin. Good evening. I know I look like a hard five right now. Hey, how are you? I'm good. Thank you. How are you? Good. What do you got for me? I want to start off, I really appreciate your podcast as well. I learned so much from you. And I love the tough love. I'm starting to think that maybe I shouldn't have like any expectations whatsoever. I'm like, you know, listening to you, I'm starting to realize that I do have two children. My children are 12 and 14. Thank you. And you know, I really haven't really accomplished much. I'm 33. Should I expect anything? Or should I just... What do you do for a living? I'm currently like unemployed. I haven't really had like a good career. I just have like little like cashier jobs here and there. I'm not really... Who do you live with? I live with my mother. And you're asking me what you should expect from a man? No, I'm starting to think that I should probably have no expectations, right? Of a man or a relationship. Hmm. Both? Don't they go hand in hand coincide? Well, they're different. Okay. Do you want or do you expect to get a relationship? And if so, then what kind of man? Oh, okay. So I guess this is the things I don't have planned. What are the children? How many fathers? One, one father. Where's he at? He's not around. He's like... He had another child after me. Okay, so I've got to ask. How do you get to be 33 with two kids and no child? How? Well, I live with my mother. I'm currently out on employment. Yeah. I think the answer is the first thing you need to do is... And I mean, I just expect you to get this adult thing together. You've got to be able to take care of yourself. Mm-hmm. Because your mother has already raised you. Now she's raising you again with your grandkids. Right. You know what I mean? What the assault is going to come in and deal with an unemployed woman with two kids. Right. So I don't know what you mean about having an expectation. Well, okay, so I guess... I'm guessing like, okay, so from that... So I haven't had expectations. So my mother said what I've been doing is I've been digging the underdog. Okay. Which doesn't end well. How old is your mother? 54. And where's her husband? On my dad passed. How long ago? When I was 14. Okay, so it's been quite a while. Where's her boyfriend? She hasn't, like, dated or anything. So you want to get her out? No, no, no, no. I'm just saying your mom, bless her heart, really is not in a position to give you advice. See, what you're in is a position with a mother. Mm-hmm. And you're in her relationship. So she has no problem with her grown daughter and her grandchildren being in the house because she has no man. Mm-hmm. You aren't doing anything. You said you don't have an employment? Mm-hmm. When was the last time you had a boyfriend or anything like that? Last year. Okay. Which is, you don't really need one. You've got to be able to take care of yourself. Mm-hmm. So expectations of a man, ma'am, you're not taking care of yourself much less your children so you can't have expectations of another man. Of anyone, right? Mm-hmm. I mean, if your mother were to put you out. Mm-hmm. So when was the last time you held a job? Um, like a year ago. I was cashier. Okay. And was there an injury or something? No. No, just I was fired from being late. So you're just lazy? No. No. I was late. I was just late. Are you trifling? Maybe, yeah. Okay. Are you trolling me? No. No. No, no, no. Let me see your hands. Put those up. Uh-oh, nice fingernails. Thank you. Did you do it on yourself? No. You went and got them? Mm-hmm. Who paid for that? I paid for them. With what? With the unplayment money. Are you trolling me? No, but Kevin, don't you think I have to look like something? I think you need to grow up. Ma'am, you're 33 years old and haven't had a job in a year. The job you have is a cashier. You got fired from being late. That's lazy and that's trifling. Mm-hmm. If you were a man, they would call you a deadbeat. The other reason you get away with this is because you got two kids and you get unemployment. So you're juke of the state. When you got the nerve to have these fingernails up, like you got money to pay for them. That's trash. But don't you think that as a woman you should like look like something? For who? You know, just for like... For your mom and your kids, you ain't going nowhere. You ain't doing nothing. This is the entitlement and delusion. Mm-hmm. The taxpayers are paying for this. Well, your money goes for unemployment. I see what you're saying. Mm-hmm. But you can't understand having expectations. I'm like, at what point do you plan on getting into life and start being an adult? All right. I mean, I hope so. I mean, yeah, you know, you're 100% right. I know. And where'd you get the phone? I bought it. With whose money? With my money. Is it like prepaid service or something? Yeah, yeah, yeah, yeah. Yeah, I'm not. Mm-hmm. I'm not... Okay, ma'am. I mean, I think, you know, the answer is that, um, no dating. Um, that's not realistic. Mm-hmm. And there's no way a 33-year-old woman should... I mean, two kids should have enough pride to be going to get a nails done. I think you should know that, though. But I feel like with some things, a woman should be kept. She's like, you know, just kept. For whom? Huh? Just in general, like, like you said, like, you know, a lady should be a lady. I feel like, you know, just one of the things that... a woman should just, you know... I would have had my kids if I was not, but a woman should just, you know, have, like, certain upkeep. Yeah. That you wouldn't afford to pay for. Mm-hmm. I mean, seriously, if you were in a country that didn't have such a welfare system... Oh, God, of course, but... No, I need to hear this. We didn't have such a welfare system. You know, if you were in a country that did not where people healthy, physically able women... Well, no, I would have a job right now. It's just that I... It's just that, you know, because of, like, the pandemic here. So I don't want to go... I don't want to hear that. I don't want... What state are you in? New Jersey. Right. When was the last time you applied for a job? Um, I was working last year. When was the last time you applied for a job? Um, so probably... Oh, like, last week. Last week I applied for front desk at a hotel. And how many applications did you put in last week? I only put in the one. One whole application. When 140,000 women last month lost work, you put in one application. Well... Guys, um... That's not uncommon. I wish I could say she was trolling, but, um... I've seen this before. No, she's not lying. She's not lying. Trust me, she's not lying. I've seen plenty of females like this.