 Hi, hey Welcome to above-life channel the purpose here is to inspire your spirit and to fill you with hope today We're gonna do an episode of Sunday morning coffee the podcast. We're gonna talk about radical acceptance now This concept is actually inspired by Molly McCord. She is astrologist and you can find her on iTunes she's got a podcast and also on YouTube again That's Molly McCord. I think she's great I follow her and I get a lot of info and like, oh, yeah, okay That's why as far as the astrology goes and she talked about for this week The concept of radical acceptance This is what is and So I thought that would be a good topic to have a conversation about today All right, so before I get too far in let's check the sound I am also gonna mention that tonight. We have a first group experience of twin flame So if you would like to join that there is going to be a There will be oh, let's just see here if this is Whoops. Nope. Just a minute At 6 p.m. Tonight on March 3rd Sunday March 3rd for about two hours, we are gonna have a twin flame group session where I am going to First the first part I'm gonna share my twin flame experience So that's like some juicy stuff. You might want to show up just for that It is a service that I am providing So the second hour is about strategy and tips and how to navigate at least just starting to have a conversation about Navigating that twin flame experience And of course, we're going to highlight the difference between twin flame and soul mates But we've already done that here on Above life channel the difference between soul mates and twin flame So if you're interested in this topic make sure you check that out. It's here Okay, there's actually a playlist for the twin flame stuff So, let's just make sure you guys can all hear me Okay, let's check that out and see how that goes For some reason my phone doesn't have just a minute. I can't hear my phone That's interesting communication. Are we having a communication barrier? Are there something going on communication wise? Let's check it out Okay, it was working. So we're doing good. All right. All right. Glad to hear it Here I am radical acceptance of what is the tricky part here. I think is that This whole idea of it is what it is Kind of sounds like a cop out doesn't it sometimes like come on come on. Don't you think it is what it is We're not gonna have that conversation and we're gonna focus on the idea of acceptance of getting to a place of acceptance and and Sometimes that can feel very very very radical as I'm contemplating the twin flame group tonight. I'm thinking about how Radical it is to just accept the scenario happened the situation happened Or I'm in the situation that I don't want to be in when you're in a twin flame scenario And I don't understand it. It's really intense and I would like to have my life back Thank you, but at the same time it feels like when you separate from that person or that energy There's this myth that like you're gonna die or something, right? Well, I can tell you you're not gonna die It feels like you are and in some cases holding on tightly to that stressful Dramatic traumatic twin flame energy could actually kill you. I can tell you that it can literally Give you broken heart syndrome, which you do not want I do not recommend that am I being dramatic? I'm always a little dramatic, but am I being truthful? Yes Yes, so the radicalness Is sometimes something that you can Embrace and then utilize it use it like you're yielding a sword of truth Okay, Archangel Michael come on in. Yeah, that it kind of energy that protective energy Tonight I will be working with Archangel Meditron Meditron is one that really aligns the energy systems and Recalibrates the grid system so our second hour of our group session tonight We'll be working a little bit with Meditron will be available to help re-align some of the energies so that you know where you begin And where the other person begins so you don't Just take on their entire identity because that's kind of what happens So this idea of radical acceptance is something that really spoke to me It really made me feel Like I had power like it it invoked some powerful energy like a power power Hey, thanks in the chat. I just got a super chat. I appreciate it. Thank you for that Hey rebel. Hey v I am always always an advocate for your soul and for your healing process Where in sometimes you can't see the force through the trees with the complications of being in relationship and This concept of radical acceptance. I think is extremely extraordinarily poignant when it comes to that twin flame energy or when it comes to a relationship that is one-sided or imbalanced if there's Consistently imbalanced whether it be the energy matches are off or There's a lot of given and a lot of taken And it's happening over and over and over again the same person the same person's venting all the time the same The same story keeps coming up over and over that other person has so much happening in their lives Where they are leaning on you way too much That is Really difficult as an empath and that is going to just erode your wellness overall and your energy structure You're going to get impacted in other areas of your life. You're not going to be able to focus You're not going to be able to sleep. You're going to ignore your priorities your kids your family stuff your work stuff You're going to put things off move meetings around to meet with that person and that is not acceptable, honey That is not acceptable So then what is radical acceptance? To stop in this moment and say this is what is This is what is it's not this is the way it is. I can't do anything. I can't I can't do anything I'm not talking about victim hood which sometimes Really intense relationships can put you in a state of questioning yourself bring it up self doubt and Insecurity and and just causing you this like crazy making And and I'm not even talking about relationships that are abusive like narcissistic or toxic relationships I'm just talking about an imbalance can really throw you off and You are human and so are the people you're in relationships with and so everybody enters in at different times and on different levels of development and evolution and the the key is is the evolving and growing together and it's This is just the way it is Isn't about lack of change or the fear of change I'm not talking about that because it can be really difficult to face resistance our own resistance And we know we're going to be triggered because that's what relationships are about right showing us our shit Which unfortunately for that other person can be very tumultuous and dramatic But let's not let's not lose sight of the point of all of this All of it Is to be in this place of power with that radical accepting what is What if you believed someone? What if you believed what that person in relationship with you was showing you their actions If their actions and behaviors aren't matching what they're saying and telling you there's a mismatch an imbalance there Maybe just maybe you could radically accept that there's an imbalance there the facts The truth the truth is is they're not balanced We don't have to judge people We don't have to look at somebody and say oh you're bad Or oh you need healing Or oh, you're so much better than me. Oh poor me. I just oh you're so much better You're so much farther along. You're so oh and just please, you know I just I just can't be with you because you're just so great and I just suck I mean you can't I mean that's an imbalance So we don't want to necessarily get into a place where we're judging But we also want to recognize when things aren't a match So radical acceptance is the recognition Of what is Is the truth So say you're in a really I'm really talking about relationship stuff right now and I'm utilizing relationships You you empaths, you know, this is the year of the empath. We're talking about that a lot this year empathic stuff Stuff for sensitive people I'm really it's really on my mind. This twin flame stuff is so on my mind. It's so Not just relevant, but it's like freaking everywhere and now I just had another person This morning a friend of mine a psychic friend of mine a yogi psychic friend of mine yogi friend of mine yogi psychic Are you psychic come I'm trying to think Yeah, you are I'm just gonna say you're intuitive for sure. She's very embodied And she texted me and said hey look at this and I'm like, oh Oh Oh, she and I have been friends for a well over a year now and she had said um shared with me her Experience with I'm gonna say twin flame and she said is this a twin? I'm like, yes is the twin flame thing and this morning she happened to get some weird energetic thing where that person's Information just showed up on her like as a recommendation on tiktok or something and I'm like what you guys know I'm on tiktok, right above life channel is on tiktok. Yes. Yes, it is yes And she's like look look at this. She texted it to me said look at this and I'm like, oh It's twin flame day. I'm talking about that. I'm like, oh Lots of people have that that person you can't let go of that person you cannot forget And so where are we at? Where is our power? Where is your power? That's what I'm gonna ask you You can complain about them. You can vent about them You can tell me all the past stories of how they did you wrong and they did you dirty And then you can tell me about how much you ache for them And you know what I am not going to judge you because I've been there multiple times in the state in the cycle with the twin flame experience that I had and I'm gonna share that tonight And I'm not sure my personal stuff tonight is very juicy. I'm gonna share it, but I'm not gonna record it So you don't get a recording that Because that would not be right to spread that all over the internet, but As a person that can mentor and facilitate your healing around this topic. I am glad to share it with you I'm glad to be open about it with you because you know what? Nobody escapes that energy. Nadia. I don't care how good a psychic clear you are you still are human We still we are the same you and I empathic heart-based people And the people we're attracted and drawn to are not necessarily bad people They're just in the bad of the timing of things and maybe wrong place wrong time. Maybe they are They are in a big mess And You are not here to fix Anybody's anything because I'm guessing You might be working on yourself stuff I would hope you are if you're here on above life channel and we're chatting with our sunday morning coffee that I hope you are working on your stuff Yes Yes queen is queen here. I bet she is if she's not hey queen chatting out to queen Hey drus here. Thank you drew. Thanks for that super chat. I appreciate it So if we just say People are who they are And when they tell you or when they show you who they are over and over again, just believe that You don't have to judge it. You don't have to make them bad. You don't have to make them Make them you don't have to punish them. I mean, I know girl. I know you want to do do them some hurt I know I know It's like you're really hoping that next relationship. They're in just sucks But And you can do that because that's a human thing, right? That's a human thing But the truth is And the thing the thing that I really really really want all of us to just really understand Is that like our lives are about us Your life is about you. My life is about me, which means you're responsible for you And the choices you make and how long you stay in The intensity of the grief of the last Of the loss of the person that isn't even really worthy of your love let alone your grief and instead of getting down on yourself and feeling bad and going into that The the bowels of depression. I've been there It would be so much more Purposeful and meaningful for you to see what is And to just radically accept that Radically accept that that person Is that person? They get to do what they want. They get to say what they want. They get to to Feel what they want. They get to make their own choices and when they affect you you get to decide if you're going to accept that Receive that as part of your problem Or if you're just going to radically accept them for who they are and be like about your way go about your way And if you are going to be a fixer if you're going to be a people pleaser to the extreme and you're going to Really the people pleasing vibe is very similar to victimhood I'm just going to tell you and I know because it's been hard for me to handle for myself because I know I'm I am a fixer I got four kids. You know how much I get a chance to fix. I am like bob the fucking builder here Trying to take care of this person not paying their rent and this person's college situation and this person's car isn't working and this person lost their job and this person's not turning in their math assignments and Has an empath It is not our Duty to be in service to the world in a way that depletes ourselves You don't have to be an asshole. I'm not saying that I'm saying You get to radically accept what is Accept other people where they're at But you don't have to be there with them You get to decide you don't have to sit in that and I know it's hard and I know it feels like they're the love of your life And I know it feels like it's hard to walk away from it's hard to like Freeze that kid out who is in addiction or who isn't getting help and you've done everything you can and you just can't do anymore You can't you have to have the boundary for yourself because you need to maintain a level of self respect And honoring and beauty for the sacredness of this empathic heart that you have and it's on you to take care of it Nobody's coming in to fix you if you want that That is the the depletion of energy and that's the victimhood energy that is sucking us all down That's why the economy sucks. That's why the world is in a shambles because we are all playing into that That place of i'm a people pleaser. I want other people to like me I need to take care of everybody. I need to fix things and therefore i'm never good enough because I can never fix everything And I i'm not solving world hunger or world peace or i'm not i'm not i'm responsible for everything and yet not responsible for myself And the truth is What is Is if we could radically accept that we are the answer We're the answer to the world's problems But not the way we have been acting Not by trying to please people make things better calm people down and help people and to our own detriment You can't give what you don't got If you're well as empty, you don't have water to give somebody that is thirsty And by the way, it's not your job If you don't have it, it's not your job And it's not your job if you do have it I mean I get that we're regenerative and every energy is regenerative, but when you're in a relationship cycle We're over and over and over again You fall into the people pleasing mode and then you go to victimhood because they are so close people Fixing seems all powerful like you're oh look at you You're fixing because you're not dealing with your own shit And you're triggered by theirs. So you need to fix them's that you feel better Hey, don't try to snow me on that one. Let me just tell you I see that you might say oh, no, no I'm not doing that. Oh, yeah. Yeah. Yeah, you are and you learned that pattern from somewhere because you got some kind of recognition or love by doing things for other people that they wanted you to do so instead of Disappointing other people you're constantly in a state of self-doubt self sabotage and disappointing yourself. Does that sound familiar? Those are victim traits and characteristics I know because I get into that place too sometimes like oh poor me kind of thing I mean, believe me. I mean I mean I can go there too I just don't live there and I don't stay there very long if I realize I'm in that space I grab my staff and I climb myself out of that space and I go into a state of radical acceptance Because the truth is the people around you are going to be the way they are You can influence by inspiring You are the answer lead by example Just fucking do it lead by example, and I don't mean start an own profit and write a book I mean be the person that you are created to be That is not easy and that will focus your energy Don't get distracted by other people's problems and messes Don't don't be fooled by By being in a state where you are trading your soul For this love that is conditional based upon how other people feel about you for what you've given to them Or how you make them feel I know this is complicated. I know there's a lot of info coming in here, but you guys I'm riled up because it's radical We're so radical um We just have to accept that we are responsible for our lives We are responsible for the fucked up mess that the world is in we are responsible for the mess our lives are in And that's harsh. Yeah, but it's the truth and who else is going to tell you But the good news is you can change at any time you can shift your perspective all it takes is a perspective shift It's little tiny things that make all the difference. Let me tell you Now I get excited Even more so you know how much I love if you follow me on any kind of social media You know that I post a lot about the sunrise And the sky and the colors. I mean I love the rainbows. I love the The the clouds and I love the sunrise in the morning watching the colors kind of just peel off of The the energy coming up on the sky and it kind of just peels off like the the edges of the earth It looks like off in the distance. God it's gorgeous And now more than ever I get so I get even more excited to see that The sun the light you can see the light it's coming in and out and it's going to be a super beautiful and It's it really is those subtle tiny little things over and over and over again that that boost us that fill us up that feed us Those are things that are simple and accessible to us That is filling us up that is bringing us into alignment that is putting our energy right back where it belongs Come to mama. Come home to mama. That's what we want. That's what we need That's what will make a difference in the world. That's what will make a difference in your kids lives That's what will make a difference for you at your next job Because you're leading by example because you're being that By allowing yourself to receive those little things in the warm cup of coffee You know snuggles from your puppy Great book or an awesome new song that you just heard or an old song. That's fun But if we can get into a state of radically accepting what is What we're really doing is we're being present right now And then recognizing that when we want to create change or want things to look differently We get to do that. We are so at power. We are so in control as individuals and then what we do ripples out and impacts others just like that person in your relationship that that disjointed imbalance of power kind of energy just like that Just doesn't quite feel right doesn't quite fit When you give yourself that permission to disconnect from that disengage from that and come back into your home Your heart home and yeah, I know it's sad and it's hard at times, right change is difficult loss is difficult So you build yourself opportunities for grieving and for healing and that looks different to different people for artists That they might go go in the studio and create musicians. They might write lyrics to beautiful songs And for the rest of us, we're just gonna get up and look at the sunrise You know, it really is that simple it can be that simple I look forward to it every day. I don't have all the answers, but I'm willing to show up I'm willing to show up Are you? Whoo, this has been a super charge sunday morning coffee I Hope I'll see some of you tonight in the twin flame group. I think I will do another one It depends. It's a kind of as hard to say. I think I will I'm definitely doing twin flame coaching It's one of my new services that I'm offering And you can see that if you just click the link on my services There's a whole menu of services that you can see that I'm offering now including a monthly audio forecast Mm-hmm where I do an audio I kind of spin around a compass like energy a beautiful compassing energy To plan out the month for you energetically and I do an audio recording for that That's a new service. You probably haven't heard of before so you can see that and then I am obviously doing intuitive life and energy coaching as well like I've done before in the past. I actually have a Small group coming up too for the old school inspired psychic experience where we do kind of psychic greetings in the round Kind of fun stuff. That is a group that I will be hosting once again That group is going to show up on march 21st at 6 p.m. Central time I do try to do those groups monthly. So and that's a very affordable service I think it's only like 40 bucks or something. It's super cheap and it's only like an hour and a half or whatever Um, it's it's fun. I enjoy doing that. Um And then I'm trying to think of what other ones what other coaching stuff did I have I shared I'm trying to think of all the stuff what I did make live and what I didn't make live yet um Yeah, I think that those are the big The big heavy hitters right there my mentoring program, of course is also available Um, so you can sign up to have a conversation with me about that if you're interested in Intuitive mentoring with me So, yeah, all right. So that's it for sunday morning coffee. I am I have a couple ideas for tomorrow for our monday video I'm not sure which direction we're gonna go So I don't want to commit for sure because I feel like stuff is bubbling and shaking if you haven't looked at the astrology You might want to because there's some stuff and so let us all commit to just being in this state of presence today and taking care of ourselves in a way that We're gonna give ourselves some space from some some people and some things maybe that are kind of leaking our energy And maybe we could do something like maybe we could journal Maybe we could do Some cards if you have oracle cards, maybe you could go outside for a nice walk if the weather is Nice where you're at just really simple recognition of self Okay, and right where you're here where you are now. This is not about judging You're not far enough. This is not about judging this person's better than me or i'm better so much better than this person It's not about judgment at all. It's really about This just Acceptances to what is right here right now in this present moment Okay, and so I thank you in this chat for showing up and being here with me. Thank you v Thank you nash Hey lisa nice to see you 18 muses. Oh my gosh. I haven't seen you forever. I think Hello Mackie grand rising. Okay rebel rebel already said hello to you. I know I did My dear and drew. Oh, thank you. Oh, thank you so much. I appreciate you all so very much I look forward to talking to you guys soon. I'll see you tomorrow here on above life channel remember i'm also on tiktok at above life channel on tiktok i'm working on A schedule for maybe getting on facebook too during the week, but that's going to be a bit that'll probably be after Probably be maybe april or may before I add that one in again And um, yeah, i'm my website's not done yet. I'm still working and I've been on like I don't know how many iterations of this thing has been taking me forever, but that's the creative process That's how it works But in the meantime if you need a session with me go ahead and sign up all the descriptions will be in the The description section here of the video, but it will also be under just the first thing for current services click on that And it will show the whole list so Thank you so much for being here so much love to you all have a fabulous day I hope I've inspired your spirit giving you some hope and this Tell it like it is I was gonna say ted talk Pep talk This is caffeinated. I think you probably noticed Oh My poor family they're gonna have to deal with me. I already did yoga and I already meditated now It's time. I think to go for a walk or hit the treadmill. So All right. Thank you so much for being here. I'll see you tomorrow Maybe I'll see you tonight