 ladies, you have every right to ask as many questions as you see fit to evaluate this person. Now, are they going to be honest? Hard to say. Most men are good guys. They tend to be more honest, or they tend to flub up, but this is your time to ask as many questions if there is physical attraction. If you two people want to kiss each other and two people want to have sex with each other, you have every right to find out as much about this person as early as you can before you give your heart.