 Hi, it's Brickett. Welcome to Above Life Channel. The purpose here is to inspire your spirit and to fill you with hope. This is a chat style video. This is not a channeling. I wanted to respond to this whole topic of gender and spirit and I think it's really important to address this because especially because I just got a wonderful email from transgender non-binary person and I have to be honest Super transparent because that's what I am. I didn't know what non-binary meant. I mean, I know I know what transgender means, but Not non-binary. What is that? I mean, there's so many you guys are so many different classifications of identification of gender that it's so confusing now all of a sudden and I wanted to first I'm gonna look I looked it up. I haven't read it yet I looked it up. So I'm gonna read to you the definition of non-binary and what that means So we're gonna have a conversation about gender in the human context and then I'm gonna talk to you a little bit about it in the spiritual context now It's a busy Day, it's a weekend day in my house and so we might get interrupted and that's just the way it's gonna be Because I really wanted to connect with you about this issue of gender and spirit So I didn't know what non-binary meant. So I'm looking it up And I'm gonna share it with you because I like to be real transparent like that. So understanding non-binary people How to be respectful and supportive is this? This is from the National Center for Transgender Equality online. It was one of the first Ones that popped up. It's from October 2018 So non-binary defined most people including transgender people are either male or female But some people don't readily fit into the categories of man or woman or male or female For example, some people have a gender that blends elements of being a man or a woman Or a gender that is different than either male or female. Some people don't identify with any gender Some people's gender changes over time People whose gender is not male or female use different terms to describe themselves with Non-binary being one of the most common other terms include genderqueer Agendered by gender and more None of these terms means exactly the same thing, but they all speak to an experience Of gender that is not simply male or female Interesting. Okay you guys so I don't know why we need all these terms maybe because There are different levels of understanding and compassion in society That's probably why we need different terms because some people are just not with it And don't get that people have different ways to express themselves and are created differently in the world and Some people just don't readily accept that maybe that's why we need that Little sassy Brigitte there commentary, but This but not in binary. I don't identify with a male or a female essence or energy That's what spirit is you guys this transgender this new kind of It's not new it's been around for like ever We just haven't had words to articulate it and lots of people haven't Haven't found each other or figured out That it's except I don't want to say that it's acceptable But that more people are coming into awareness and awakening Just like people awaken to their intuition their spirituality people are awakening to their gender. I that's what I think The spirit of things Is non-gender like that you guys. Oh my gosh Oh, it cracks me up. It's so ironic you guys When especially like politicians or some like community leaders and things can come out strong with their Values and beliefs about things that include very specific man or woman or Definitions of marriage or definitions of love And it's so crazy because I'm like this person that's so Not in understanding and not in compassion like people that are like anti Like gay or transgendered whatever people who have anti views rude people that are really rude about that And talk about that openly and are jerks about it. Let's be honest. I'm just gonna be honest I'm not holding back here on this one They have been women before in past lives so particularly one I'm thinking of a figurehead who's a leader who Is not for a gay marriage is not for transgender stuff is it's changing laws and things about military transgender people I mean, it's just ridiculous. What's going on, but those people have been women Those men have been women everybody is male and female you guys in spirit We have two big meridians that run down our body and then a couple big ones that go across our our shoulders and our hips And energetically we are all both Which means everybody in spirit is transgender So in the afterlife my friends just know this Know this when you get all whipped up like I just did about politics And governing people's bodies and values Just know that in the afterlife when you bump into those people you can say, um, I told you so Oh, oops looks like you're a girl and a boy. Oh my goodness Oh, I bet you're feeling kind of bad about that now There's an opportunity for gloating in the afterlife just so you know Those people that were all about the hate you can say see You know because the people who are accepting and understand that love is love and unconditional We'll go right in the VIP line into the afterlife and the other people that was so rude and mean and trying to impress rules to control people's bodies and their thoughts and their minds and their Expression of love as what they think is other people that they people in power think is right and wrong Then they have to wait in the long line They're going to be waiting a little longer But the rest of us who are compassionate and loving and understanding about love is love will just go right Because that's what it's all about Love that's what's at the core of spirituality. That's what's at the core. That's what Jesus represents That's what the universe represents. That's what heaven and the afterlife represents That's what spirit energy. Yes. It's just like this loving energy. It's just a state of flow of love and it's pure And it's whole and there's no need for approval or definition or identity and identification. It's just loving It's so awesome, you guys And I hope that for those of you who are watching this here at the Bublite channel that you can totally relate to that and celebrate with me And I know it gets confusing for those of you who are not sure about that like whether or not you're you're I you identify as a male or female or whatever I can tell you right now that when you do past life regression stuff and connect with your past lives It's kind of weird at first to go. Well, yeah, I was totally a guy And you can totally identify and see how you present as a male. I do. I feel that Being a very female in this lifetime. My preferences are you know to have a spouse that is male and so But that's like no big deal and whose business is that anyway, you know So particularly because I got this sweet email from a transgender youth. That's non-binary I wanted to talk about this concept of gender and spirituality and yes I know that people are going to have a lot of different opinions and I was pretty fiery in this video pretty fiery and But that's just the way it is and it's okay to have different levels of understanding, but the commonality is the understanding piece the want to understand That is the intent that is the standard is the wanting to understand Even if that's not for you, that's fine Even if you don't understand it, that's fine But you want to understand you have a general desire to be compassionate and loving And there's like this baseline of understanding that just it's just love is what connects us And there's not a lot of definition in there and that's beautiful. Although it can be complicated So this this is like this non-binary thing is totally new to me. Like I didn't know Like that there's a term for that, but I'm like, oh my gosh, it's totally spirituality That's what that's what gender is like in spirit. There really isn't gender gender is a body thing But energy does have male and female attributes. It's like an axis You know, it's a balancing point a male and female and so there is The representation of energy flow that feels Divine masculine or divine feminine there is that but it's not in the context of like gender specifically as body Okay So I mean, it's interesting. We can have so much conversation around this like what does divine masculine mean? What does divine feminine mean? Who do we identify as divine masculine representatives? Like is it jesus or jesus feminine? Think about that one loving honoring healing nature Hmm. Think about that one. What roles do we typically identify as male or female? Do we have nurturing roles primarily divine defined as female motherly? Well, what about men who are very nurturing and loving? What does that mean? What does that mean? Is that acceptable in our society and on their different levels of cultures and parts of the world that perceive these roles differently that honors some of the roles more than others or degrade roles more than others There's so much information. We could just chat about this so much There's so much you could explore in the context of gender and spirit So wow, thank you. This was so interesting to me to talk about this I do also want to say that if you've had private session with me I talk about this. I specifically talk about angels because I work with angels a ton They're non-denominational. They're not identified with a specific religion religious belief religious practice. They're just non-denominational They're multicultural. They're diverse angels But I identify them with a gender. I give them a personality that helps our minds to Connect better with them with their name as a male or a female We can I kind of formulate this understanding based upon our cultural experience which for our society experience of what human Human experience is like and so when I talk about angels, I say they're androgynous Androgynous which means they're not masculine and they're not feminine. They're both They're all of it. They're non-defined But when I talk to you in session, I will identify them as male or female And you'll probably notice that I have a lot. I don't say a lot of females But I have a pretty good mix of both actually, but I also am usually very careful to say Just because I identify Archangel Gabriel as a man as a male energy as dominant That doesn't mean that that's how you'll identify Archangel Gabriel energy. You might identify Gabriel energy as very feminine and Truthfully Gabriel for example, he's a perfect example because to me. He's like my gay friend like he's So sweet so gender fluid so Loving transgendered. I mean, he's just awesome. He's like my fun gay friend, you know And I hope that doesn't offend anybody by me saying that but that's like When I grew up in the 90s, that's kind of how it was, you know, and so But that's his vibe I love him. He's like one of my very favorites. I love him. I love him so much And but but for you, you might show up as a woman as a nurturing loving caregiver Because Archangel Gabriel often helps with connection communication and relationships so family relationships If you don't have a mother figure that was strong for you Gabriel might show up as that And you might need Gabriel to be a woman our strong divine feminine energy and showing up for you But for me Kind of masculine, but very kind of gender fluid too in a fun way in a really great loving Freedom of expression way. All right Okay, so this is Bridget. Wow. I'm really curious about the comments on this one to see Hey, I have opinions and views too. It's just the way it is, right? Wouldn't you rather know Then for me to pretend like oh, I don't ever have any opinions. Yeah, I think you'd rather know So this is Bridget. This has been a chat video here at above life channel The purpose always with all the videos is to inspire your spirit and to fill you with hope because this is your life It's your life and your job is to live it. Thanks so much for watching