 This is more of a cultural reality that we have in many cultures where we feel that, well, we can't go, we can't reach out. We're, we're shaming ourselves. When we put our, you know, when we acknowledge to some other party, some other individual about the fact that we're not getting along and we need help. So number one, when we seek help, it's important that we seek it from the right sources, right? If you need medical help, you go to a doctor. If you need religious advice, you go to Imam Tahrir, Allah bless him and preserve him. Or if you go to, you know, XYZ, you go to the expert. Fasaloo ahla dhikri in kuntum la ta'lamun, as Allah says, ask the people of expertise. And the same thing goes here, right? You go to people that are going to be able to help you in the best manner and going to help you bridge that gap, who know how to bridge that gap. And that is not putting yourself, that is not erring your dirty laundry. That is seeking to help to repair the rip in the garment. That's seeking to fix what has been broken that you don't have the ability to repair yourselves because there's a lot of hurt and there's a lot of pain and there's a lot of argumentation and there's a lot of, a lot of emotions that don't allow you to get to where you need to get to and put your attention to where you need to put your attention to. There's a famous incident that's related about a man, he comes to the door of Sayyidina Umar and he was having trouble with his wife and he comes to Sayyidina Umar to complain to him, my wife doesn't listen to me. He comes to the door of Umar and he hears Sayyidina Umar's wife giving it to him. Right? And so the man, he hears from outside what's going on inside and he's like, let me get out of here. Man, he has his own problems. So the man starts to walk away and finally Umar comes to the door and the man is walking, he says, come, come, what did you want? What did you need? And the man, he says, well, I needed to come to you to get advice how to deal with my wife because I can't deal with her. And Sayyidina Umar, he said, and but I found you, O Umar, Ya Amir al-Mu'mineen, that your wife, you have the same issue. So Sayyidina Umar, he says, this is my wife. She cooks my food. She takes, you know, care of my needs. And even though she doesn't have to and even though, you know, she's doing this on her own accord. And so can't I be patient with her because she's patient with me? And so Subhanallah, you know, the point here being related to the question that they sought, they would seek advice, they would seek to speak with each other to kind of figure out how to deal with their marital needs. This is the time of the sahaba even. So that we have that precedent there as well. Now, there's time for one more question.