 Welcome to Psychic Medium Tony Green and I am Tony Green. So as usual today I'm going to take callers and I'm going to be communicating with everybody on YouTube. I go live every Monday and Wednesday at noon for a minimum of 30 minutes, sometimes 60 minutes. If it goes to 60 minutes and you're watching on a 30 minute venue you can come to YouTube and watch the rest of the show or just wait for part two on Rude Rangers, WSES or whatever venue you're watching or listening. I also want to let you know that if you are watching on YouTube or any venue, any live streaming like Roku or Rude Rangers or WSES, hit that subscribe or follow to find out when new shows come out. If you're listening on a podcast please. Again, if you hit that subscribe or follow you'll know right away when a new show is going to come out. Okay, I think that's everything I'm supposed to say. If you are watching on YouTube live with me, give me a hello in the chat. I'd love to say hi back to you. Right now we have Heather, Vaughn, Mimi, Sal. Hey Sal. Sal is Psychic Guy Sal. Psychic Guy. Maybe it's just Psychic Guy. Major something? Major magic? Okay, so my eyes are really bad so I'm really sorry if I can't read your name. Once we get going I have to lean way closer to read it so I'm going to just major events. Hey major events, how are you? Okay, in a moment I'm going to take colors. When I call your area code please let me know where you're calling from and your name, your first, just your first name and then have an exact question available and or an exact connection from the other side. Now if you want me to connect with somebody from the other side that's fine. I'm happy to do it. If you have a specific question for them or something you want to know please state that right away. It is one specific question per person, one specific connection per person just because you know I try to get through everybody in the 30 to 60 minutes without rushing people and I can't and some people try to call in for months before they even can get through. Now my my loyal listeners know if they call 15 minutes ahead of time they'll get in at the top of the line. So if you call in a little earlier you'll probably get in on top of the line instead of near the middle or bottom. Now having said all of that I want to say hi to my little brother Stevie. Stevie, hi I hope you're having a great day. He cracks me up you guys. He is so funny. Every time he sees one of my shows he is all about calling me and telling me that oh he just saw me on the show and like what what I talked about it's so adorable he's such a sweet peek. Okay everybody ready for callers? If you're listening or watching you can call in the number is 845-277-9131 and here we go I'm gonna go to the the very first caller 814. 814 what's your name? Where are you calling from? Hi this is Amy and I'm calling to see I had an interview last week and I wanted to see how you felt that it went. The first thing I hear is good I feel that the interview went good I think you and I keep here down to two down to two down to two I don't know if they're going to do a follow-up questions or a follow-up interview but I feel like it's down to you and another person. I do feel like they are going to make their I do feel like okay whatever this is I'm hearing Friday Friday Friday so maybe you're going to hear by Friday or you're going to know by Friday what direction they're going to go in. I would love to be able to tell you this is your your jam you're getting it it's your gig but they haven't decided yet it's it's it's still down to I think they're going to I want to say they're going to I hear they're going to know by Wednesday and everybody will know by Friday but I I want to make sure of that I do feel like they might have one follow-up thing for you one follow-up question for you one follow-up I don't know what the follow-up is but there's going to be a follow-up of something and I feel like maybe that's what you hear on Wednesday I'm not sure but I do feel like you you're one of the final people that they're deciding between who I hope that's helpful love look but let me do this let me do this for you everybody listening everybody re listening watching rewatching we're going to do a clearing that the perfect position the perfect job the perfect work is coming for you now and I get to know that it's not so we're going to we're going to say we're going to clear this to a yes I want to tell you and it's really important that you know this if you do not get I feel like you're going to hear about something else another position before the end of the week I feel like you maybe it's you that's going to have it down between two maybe you're the one that's going to have the choice of two but whatever it is I feel like there's going to be a choice between two now I do feel like you are going to hear about something else between now and the end of the week and it's great that the next thing you hear about if you haven't already heard about it it's going to be very favorable to you you're going to be very excited about it okay love thank you so much for calling in and I look forward to thank you so much you are so so welcome okay um hi lali hey jessica jessica oh my gosh jessica I love you girl um I'm so happy you're here with us today so jessica is um um is how do I even describe you sweetie she's she's just uh really amazing sweet person and uh good a good person to have on your team I I don't even know how to describe her she's awesome I'm so happy you're here today um and then the next one is breezy boy breezy ray breezy I'm just going to call you breezy what up breezy okay I'm going to go to my next caller who is three one four three one four how are you today what's your name where you calling from hi I'm Marissa I'm calling from Missouri hi how can I help you love um I was just saying if you could connect me with um whoever comes through okay okay it's always better if I have somebody specific because when I say whoever comes through we might get somebody you don't even know but I I am seeing an older thinner male okay now I'm going to tell you because you're not asking for a specific person this could be a great grandfather grandfather or a great great he this person I'm I'm thinking it's a male I haven't seen their face yet and they're they're older and they're thin and they're wearing a hat and the hat is it has a brim around a brim around it and it's it looks like it's straw but it's it's not strong okay um whomever this is they're very um slow moving so you may or may not be familiar with who this is but I'm going to give you their message for you today is to um oh okay well their message for you today sweetie is to and I I don't I I know when I give a message I know it's really needed and it's not always the message everybody wants like the person receiving it wants to hear but their message for you is let go and let god there's something you've been holding on to that you have not wanted to um like surrender to um there's something that you've been trying to manage or fix maybe fix is the right word they're saying um and you have been trying to like I want to say make this work but it's it's not going the direction that you want it to and then I hear the word exhausting so whatever this is it's just exhausting you it's really exhausting you it's taking it's taking a lot of your energy and they're asking you to surrender that and just like if you like they're showing me if you just lifted your hands and you let go and you just let it go in whatever direction it was going to go in you'd end up where you're going to be now I'm going to say like I I don't know specifically exactly what the situation for you is I do know this could be relationship this could be work this could be something with a child I don't I don't know what specifically they're talking about and I'm going to tell you you have at least 10 ancestors here I don't see them all so please don't ask me who they are but there's they're telling me there's there's at least 10 of them here and they are all they're working together to give you this message because they want you to okay the other message they want to give you is on the other side of sadness on the other side of struggle is happiness and joy and peace so if I I don't know if if this message makes sense for you right now and I really really hope it does I really don't do I really hope it makes sense for you but they're saying when we let go it doesn't mean it's over it means it gives the other person a chance or the other people a chance to steer the boat for a while or to to like row the boat for a while to grab the oars and row it for a while and again whether this is a work situation a family situation a relationship situation I'm going to tell you they're letting you know if you surrender a little bit you won't lose it maybe you'll get a better version does that make sense to you good yay oh sometimes I'm just going to confess a little confession here folks sometimes when I'm giving a message I'm sweating more than you I'm like gosh I hope this makes sense gosh I hope this is for the right person gosh yeah I was just letting you talk okay okay thank you you are so welcome beautiful thank you and I'm going to go directly to the next color who is five two zero five two zero what's your name what's what's your name where you're calling from win I hope you win so how can I help you oh that's beautiful I won just yeah okay they're very evil I had encounters with him so he knows you know he's an adult sure he is an adult I agree and he's going to do what he wants and I agree to that too and I'm very upset with my question okay so um of course yeah yes I do I do hear that um I feel like if he is going to visit them and has to stay physically with them it won't be for as long as he thinks it's going to be I think he's going to get there and he's gonna um like I'm hearing the statement and I'm sorry and I obviously don't know anything about this situation but I'm hearing the statement house of whore house of whores not whores house of whores I don't know maybe it is the first one I don't know I'm just talking to my brother last night he's the only one I talked to and I reminded my brother I said I didn't even want to talk to you again and I said this is happening I said you know relatives that we're all connected to and what my concern is he'll be back in touch with those there's also want to see him and it's never wise to anything good okay so here's what I'm going to say sometimes we have to get like snapped at by the snake in order to remember it's a snake okay so if he is feeling the need to understand or know for himself god bless him let him go let him learn let him do it um the experience he's either gonna walk away knowing you're right and that's a win-win or he's going to have his own different experience which might be healthier every hopefully everybody changes and grows and heals that's not always the case I don't feel like it's the case here I feel like you will be vindicated I feel like the experience will not be as healthy as it could be however sometimes we have to walk into the lion's den to remember lions are you know not a den that we want to be in no matter what you say or do he's going to do what he wants to do so all you can do is say well you know what I'm here if you need to talk and don't push against it because there's a point where everybody goes through a certain amount of rebellion and they want they just want to know their family they just want to to to for they're using the statement see how the other half lives it's not that he thinks you're wrong it's that he just wants to know understand or experience that side better or a or for him something that's all you can at this point that's all you can let him do because if you try again if you try to push against it it's it's going to work against you and then if they come off shining you're going to look like the wrong person I told them last night I'm letting him go I said I'm detaching from you I can't do this anymore because it's been a uphill battle I mean I'm not even talking about all the stuff I've been through with him you've been severe severe consequences when you know I'm part of that with the family right so do you think he and I will mend things together I actually yeah you know what I actually do feel like the two of you will mend things I do feel like again I feel like once he gets there it's not going to be the experience he thinks it's going to be I feel like there's going to be some turmoil but I do feel like and I know this is really difficult I do feel like he has to experience this or re-experience it on his own just to at least confirm in his mind that what he remembers is correct or incorrect I think it's safe to say that every single family has people who might be less functional or ourselves or we feel like we want to we feel like we we want to reach out for nostalgia and then and then we can be back in that space where okay yeah my memories were correct this wasn't healthy never go against the grain with whomever it is because they'll have their experience and they'll be back very rare is it the person that changes and and gives somebody a healthy experience when in the past they gave them an unhealthy experience what tends to happen is when we see family members or friends we fall back into that same old pattern so let him have his experience when he comes back you can discuss it remember he is an adult it's all you can do and try to be understanding and patient of it and we are all flawed that you know we're all victors we're all villains we're all healthy we're all unhealthy we all make mistakes and we've all hurt people and we don't even realize that we've hurt people they may never confront us on that so none of us are perfect I mean I I'm a Gemini for the love of sweet baby Jesus um there are things I've said that people have taken in a way that that I would have never meant it that way but it comes out of my mouth that way I mean you've heard my show you know how I talk I just kind of say things plus being a channel things come flying out of my mouth I can't control half the time so I mean I've said things I've done things we've all been there done that it had those unhealthy experiences and if my family still judged me at the things I did when I was 20 and by the way my life was so much more fun when I was 20 but whose life wasn't you know hey we grow hopefully we all grow when we get to the next stage and we're able to move forward in a healthier way um I'm gonna go to 610 if you are watching on YouTube please check in say hello hey Patrick hi how are you Patrick it's wonderful to see you here today okay and Jana how are you oh Jana I have something I need to send you if it's okay give me a yes it's um gonna be over the I'm gonna send you a text so if you are interested let me know okay 610 back to you hello how are you hi thanks for taking my call absolutely how can I help you today what's your name where you're calling from my name is Tometta I'm calling from Philadelphia PA okay how can I help you my question is my question is um a relationship question um I'm in a pretty serious deep relationship with another female her name is Christine she is older we did have an argument of falling out a couple weeks ago um you know we you know I have a diamond ring and jewelry and everything from her this is a pretty solid relationship but she's kind of you know being quiet over there so when do you see her coming forward coming out of her shell and wanting to reconcile and talk about things here okay so I'm gonna I'm going to answer your question I'm I'm hearing tomorrow now tomorrow in the spirit world doesn't always mean tomorrow it could mean within this week I do feel like you two are going to have some form of communication this week it could be something as uh like a text I do feel like she does need her time and space and I feel like it's respectful to give it I do feel like this will be reconciled now here is what I'm going to say because I want the two of you to be able to move forward in a healthy loving situation and not just like when we have something like this happen oftentimes we get back together and we're just so happy we're back together that we don't say hey listen let's communicate about this first and foremost as I say to everybody never use the word I and you when reconciling or talking about things always use the term we we have some difficulty in communicating not you not me we because it's a partnership and in order for it to be a successful partnership both people have to acknowledge that that communication didn't go well so we the second thing is ask her and you do the same thing to please write out how things can be better for both of you and here's my favorite question what do you need to make this work and for you to be happy and then decide can can I show up as this person can I show up in this way I don't think that just getting back together is going to be the best solution here it's going to be nice and it's going to be good um and it will be good for a minute but if you want something more long term and the both of you do there's there's a lot of love here if you want something a little bit more long term what you might want to do is talk about moving forward what each of you wants and even one step further for further is how do you how do you see us you know in in like five five whatever I they're giving me like three different things to say in this moment and I'm trying to separate all the things they're trying to say right now um what does that that's it thank you what does a healthy relationship look like to you what does a healthy relationship look like to you and what does that mean and when you do that it's really taking those it really important steps to be healthy not only when she comes back but for all of the future and I think but I do feel like there's going to be some communication this week I do feel like the two of you should take the time and really figure out what's the most important things for each other and what healthy relationships look like and that way the two of you will have a much more solid relationship moving forward I feel like one of you feels like you're not heard one of you feels like the other one overpowers the conversations and that's usually done out of fear of not being heard or being afraid of what the other person is going to say so I recommend if it comes to that point just use a notebook and pass the notebook back and forth because that way each person gets to complete their sentence and their statement and when you're reading things you're not coming up with your defense you're understanding it and then you can communicate your answer and writing and when we write something out rather than let it fly out of our mouth we have a tendency to be gentler with what comes out and we get past the ego and more into spirit so that would be my recommendation moving forward again I do feel like it's going to be this week but I do feel like and and that writing cannot be texting it pen to paper folks I want to thank everybody so much for listening and calling and joining and watching rewatching thank you so much for spending this time with me it means more than you could ever imagine I want you to know I love each and every one of you from the bottom of my heart and I will be back on Wednesday yep Wednesday at noon taking more callers communicating with people online Genevieve I'm sorry we didn't get to connect today um call in on Wednesday hopefully it will be a better connection and Genevieve I love you so stinking much you're so amazing um and uh yeah that's I think that's everything if you like the show please subscribe please like um whether you're listening or watching on a venue and then you'll know whenever I'm here so you can call in join in or just apparently laugh with me thank you again everybody have an absolutely amazing rest of the day