 Yes, yes, yes, and we are back. Thank you so much for being part of Why in the Morning. My name is Ram Magukko. If you are just joining us, this is the best place to be each and every Thursday. It is WCW and in this particular conversation of the day, we want to talk about finances in relationships. Now ladies and gentlemen, in this particular area, many people get it wrong. And why do they get it wrong? Well, the reason why they get it wrong is because it run a kusana. Okay, part of what a kusana, one person is right, another person is wrong, or both are wrong. But at the end of the day, when there is a disagreement concerning finances, there is something we need to solve in regards to this. Now, this is in regards to young relationships. Kama umewama mueloko, 40 yas, 50 yas uko, tafadali kana waze uko. Now, let's talk kama vidyana. We're going to Nakulza Pali Swali kwenye Facebook. Head over to our Facebook page, Tumulza Swali Pali. And the question is so, so simple. Let me just get that. One, two, three, four, five, six. So, Pali kwenye Facebook Tumulza Swali. And Tuna Sema, what's the most amount of money? What's the most Ushayi spend kwa patina wako? What's the most Ushayi spend kwa patina wako? You know, sorry, Tumulza Pali kwenye Facebook. Tumge kama vidyana. What's the most Ushayi spend kwa patina wako? Many people have already given their comments and regards to this. We shall sample your feedback a bit later on. But ladies and gentlemen in studio to help us in this particular conversation. I am to my extreme right with Sam Mumo. Karibusana Sam. And of course next to me, Piya Apai vidi kwa nakashiks kai gai. Karibusana Shiks. Kusalama. Both of them are students, so we are going to hear from them. But first things first, Sam, I would like to be your student, yes. Nafanya Ninu na sumia wapi to Kianza. Thank you for this opportunity. I am a finalist student at UN, Arab University. Nafanya journalism. And right now, I am an attachee at KBC. Nafanya journalism. How far is it? Man, it's fun. And for anyone at home who wants to do journalism, it's a brilliant career. You can do it. It's an opportunity to shape minds, to shape opinions, to shape stories. And I would encourage you to pursue it. Kabisa. In the post on 6. What are you doing? I'm studying broadcast journalism as well. At the second college university of Mombasa. Alright. So what was 2? Phanolia. Meza mpia Phanolia. Expecting to see the graduation, but it will be very soon. Yes, sir. You got it. Zendio. I am very sorry. I said this on our tour. UN Massive, well represented. Zendio. We took to the university of Mombasa. Also well represented right here in this conversation. It's all about finances in relationships. First things first. What is the most amount of money you ever spent in a woman? And if you haven't, then why have you ever spent money in a woman? Atago, why have you ever spent money collectively? Atago? Well, kulele isasimusama hee nai, nirthima do ildi, nirthima do mop. Well, it depends. For me, I value the occasion, what me and her are going to do. What it's going to cost. As long as it's within my budget, the amount does not really matter. How many do? Inadi pan, kama ziko ziko. Kama kuna si, na feya laia pia. Jum, whese spend kitu ahuna. Nakamukon na mtum janza pia. Ataku value ending in debt, domandem jibambe. So for me, I prefer making it about what we're going to do. If you're going on a debt, if you're going to a safari, if you're just going to hang out somewhere, um, I think I'm lucky the people who have been in my life, so, kusirani na watu, nipesa ahma kaniage na na, na watu somebody who has a big mind na nana future, na mtua nai laia, kama ziko tuti bamba, kama ziko. And I love this particular conversation. Before I go to the lady, I love our Facebook page, Y254, but before you do anything, follow that page, like the page, and scroll down, you'll see our question of the day was the most which I spend kupa na wako. Umaitu mi anini, was the most which I spend kupa na wako. Talk to us, the hashtag is one in the morning. Tag me at Ram Maguko and at Y254 which is the station handle. People engaging with us, remember streaming through our website www.kebc.to.ke4 slash Y254 that's at www.kebc.to. dot ke4 slash Y254. What's the most which I spend kupa na wako? Well, you know, alwaysy, alwaysy, let's get to hear from Shixx. Kama, kama, kama kama kama siyana, kama dem, kama dem, umaitu spend kupa na wako manome. Yes. I do, yeah. Ladies don't want, this is unique. It's rare. You agree, it's rare. Why is it rare? I don't know. Madyumanga na kumanelementalitya nipatia. It's not up to me to give you. So you spend on a man? Yes, I do. What's the most you might spend at a go? I don't have records. For real, e o manishaya ati, it's supposed to be a man spending in a relationship alone. That one is unknown for me. Personally, it should be done away with. So you don't keep records about how much you spend on a man? Why will that? Yet you keep records about Makosa refiner on 8 March at this time. Okay, Makosa na finances. Those are two different things. Because when it comes to finances, okay, Makosa na finances nigili aneja. Akiu na Juneza Kasiri, kia Juneza finances. So you na koni kama Makosa. Okay, that's a bit different. But in most cases, napata, mani na kwa a big issue kwa relationships, ati nizafanya some relationships but I really don't think that should be an issue. Because if a man a kuna pesa and is a spend, if a woman here a kuna pesa, then they should share the expenses equally. So you can spend on a man? Of course, yes. Kuna wanome wengina wana sema, ya kuama, they feel awkward when a woman is the one spending of them. Unfortunately, a man of them. Comfortable. When she's paying the bill, doesn't matter kamaata mania, be atu na yung peliki out. Well, depends on who she is. If she's a tip person, I will not have a problem because if I also spend on you, pia mimi mi sezi skewi, bye, if you tell me, let me take you out. Mama, let me buy you. Mama, ono muna patana kitumzuru kuende, you just bring like a gift. The best I think in my mind, I communicate to surprise. A surprise feels nice, but in a situation she is the one taking care of the bills and taking care of the son. In relationships, we have to be money compatible. That's right, yes? What do you mean by money compatible? What do you mean? Am I comfortable with you paying the bills are you comfortable with me paying the bills as well? Him saying that he doesn't feel comfortable that means you have a problem because the one sikila siku sandi ok, that's what people say sikila siku sandi na pia sikila siku mvo unyesha. As well, it's not kila time uta kwa na do. True. Ita fika timingine, umepata maybe salare jengia. Ita fika timingine, umepata senaka kitu do zimeisha and the woman has money uta taka spend on me. Lakinu, wana jomikitwa sikitwa sikitwa sandani when itchali, wana feel weird because umstia na mekunu a meofa kukubaya lunch first I have been there I have been there and I say I have to live for the waiter meku ya kwam and expect me to live in your person. That's not what we know. That's not what we know. If you come and live for a bill before you tell me let me send you the money you ukwa ni kama ni wumi but technically have the one who has paid. So it's best to meet your person before you approach a bit embarrassing then you pay. Actually she has a point. We come up for you. Depends kama kama sinado kabisa kabisa I have been in that situation kitambu where nili kwa sangiri na jipata I was not sick when itchali so the person was with back then sometimes kama tuna travel kama kama act nana jwa minisha malzado lili kwa nipatiado before itchali na tasi kumika big dealati lili perni hand to do uli mabi ya rana do na jwa if you really care about you should not really hide your financial situation kus nezapata senginisa yukona do simta spend below konger kisha why should you pretend it's still there and it's not So this she kus lili kwa atakama henda itchali afam na itchali afam and it would feel nice I mean it's a secret but it would still feel nice that atakama sinado and still there and it's still there na kimi kusimu kule okipara do utambia demwakum nime perado well it's I prefer kumambia tendeven kutali afam na ma tendeven kule kusima babe nime pata hi pesa because you know atakama henda kumpelike manikia akuna ishida actually lakini there's a problem when you disclose your finances people raise the expectations niki kuja ni kwa mbi e lini kwa nime pega deal nika pata 20k utanzaku ziplani atu subconsciously sosa kwa ya 20 akini paya moja he doesn't value me akini paya tanon na fakini paya kumisa nimi atakini paya zote sisi katakuna so they start muntuanaku gates according to how much mempatia lakini na neza kwa ajui kwa e 20 badulu kuna fewili parent jifanya shope lafufkosumpelike outu so disclosing the finances it's a two way thing neza baku fire aki jo cheli akuna pesa when apana jam atakuna the best ever akuna ita na fani let me say actually he's right if you're still dating do not disclose your money because he's a newcomer so don't disclose at all but if you are married but si una jo sa easy burden mko kampo mko shule na mimi kuna hasulu liya na kapa tapa na pale alafu kapa tapa pesa tamambia si tamambia na ingapi si tamambia atini if I've gotten 10,000 I might even lie niko na 3k nimi me patat 3k only why would you lie why would I tell him I have 10,000 so ladies they are based kama nipata do kama nipata pesa 10k don't disclose the actual amount 10k above it's not necessarily 10k I'm saying do not disclose the amount I can't just say ushing is a wrong ok kama niko na pesa say this much nimi pata this amount it can help us do this pay for this but kusama tini exactly 10,000 he'll sit with me kwa table and I'll say kwa plan nipata pesa he'll say yes he'll say yes he'll say yes he'll say yes because most kampas relationship zikianza kaka kwa nga liya trust onata kwa nga liya mokeo na suma ishule na fanyahi na kama ni gigu kona isahid hasola pa na pali and they will want to know how much you earn if you refuse to tell your partner about how much you earn wouldn't you feel like they don't trust you how do you break trust here nyu there are those people who take that very personally na nasa masasa kama wazini trust na kitunda gukama hi kutia chicks who use a guys salary kumgage kama piya nyu trust nizapata somebody for example na make 40-45 kipi gya sabuza nyuomba if you live together nami naba ki 20 na kwa yo 20 the chick only sees maybe one or two na manapela kwa salon too atangzaku liza isi ginezen na api na kwa masasa kampas gais So, wana nishi pakeao? Depends on the compass. But they are actuallywing you out, they are very many who would live with their girls. Crimea to do some kind of a job. K Tiha kwa kwa kwa kwa kwa kwa kwa kwa kwa kwa kwa kwa kwa kwa kwa kwa kwa kwa kwa kwa kwa kwa kwa kwa kwa kwa kwa kwa kwa kwa kwa kwa kwa kwa kwa kwa kwa kwa kwa kwa kwa kwa kwa. And you might find that guys not even stable. Maybe murder not even say. So do. Kenza kwmbe yon verbrembo, onva tonga 2k for example. Na yutu kendom zea me kutumiya, nahisha wiki ma wikimbiliye, yo mte kule yeh dey tu gati, 23 hindi 11. Haiz Yeha mbe ya, ai shukonado lehendae, 22 hindi 11. Que shifu me tei exact tamout. That's it, and that's final. okisa yemo, mambo zita heragana. Aslong as if you don't tell him kawm parado, You don't feel offended if he doesn't tell you? Not really. He doesn't need to tell me the amount of money he has received. But it's good. Kama ni yo ni ni juyana sama akuna otakua insecure asipo sama the amount of money he has. Apru gzimet basi mambi ni mipata between 500 to 5,000 apu. Kama, in the case of muko shule, alafu ni yo kuna doi ni mipata, ino kuna kuna kuna kwa nanda those times ya lanchama gionia ni disapa sasa. Sasa ni reta na kukula ujuwi umambi etuneti kule pa moja ama ya ishe tuzake. In the case that maybe muko kampas moja, in the same school, na mla de pa moja, should you always be calling him or calling her mambi? Everyday lanchama kukula pa moja, so you spend money on him or money on her to buy her food. Ram, not really. You don't have to be calling her every time to spend doku ake. Janesh doi? On the other hand, there's one risk, kuna risk kwa kweki expectation ya daily, jis kwenya una, ata kununi, ata kama kuna do. At the same time, kuna kwa nyana koga skwenya ni kuna kakitu, of each, lazimu jipango, make sure that it's as often as posipo kuna do. Si sapu na mfu na mzuha yashatu, lakini skwenya una do na mambi na mape ama. Mimila, na mtno be able to go buy you sapu. Kamoneza pata plan bi, ta futa lakini kwa sapu, anya bia tuntada wiliyantadi. Maapunun ta kwa sana? Konengi na nuna nga muntana na mazata kama bi, it's okay. Na shanga it's okay na kusamani. Na miluna kumia banda it's okay na kusamani, it's not okay. And what is the problem in the case where someone asks for money? Onza kubali chali aku mpe pesa, ama dem aku mpe pesa. Ni yote muka kampo? Well, that depends. Anata kwa kufani anini yo pesa. Kus in most cases, onza pata kani chali, anata kwa kunda bach na ezodu. Lazimu kwa bia? Yes, anembi unata kwa kufani anini, anata kwa diza anini. And ma dem ni gulizuwa, menda kwa irini ma sema, you don't trust me? Chuna sema inga. Chuna sema inga. Chuna sema inga. Ramwendo wambi angu. Ramwendo wambi angu na chesu. Ramwendo wambi angu na chesu. Adi na zaka wambia ho, ni keko nales. Ni keko nendewa na damtanya na jea kaya mania nales. Akinu. Personali, akiniti shado, yo chali waka mpe pesu yo. I ask, I try ask what he wants to do with the money first, before giving him. Lazimu kwa bia? Yes, he has to tell me. That's it. I think there are situations that call for that financial unity. For example, kama in Nairobi, kama mta me shiko, for example, na tembe alet, na pataw na doh, and perhaps we have been harassed for no reasons, kama na doh, you might need to call a few people around you. Na kama na jamtu, ako kwa na doh, na mesunda manali, na manakwa gana doh, na neza kwa kwa leha, in such a situation neza mta futa. Ama, let's say, na taku ekilaka biz, good business opportunity may come up, it's time-sensitive, wana doh, he can come to an agreement. Mama bia, you loan me this cash. So, let's call loans from your partner. I've come to realize that they prefer that, especially the girls. Demo na penda kumbe wa kumbe pese? Not all kumbe doh is kumbe kama loan, lakini wewe, at least mimi nimi kwa ni experience, te chikiwa dating, aki kutzianga doh, zingini nika kama loan, as an expectum runishi, which is like most of the cash, unless I spend on both of you, on something fun. First things first, demu na, aki kumbe pese, will you want to know the purpose, as to... She should tell me, atakama niya kudzi bamba, niya bia niya kudzi bamba, just try to be honest about it. Kwa isu kwa loan, unneza pate chelo kwa loan? Yes, but he doesn't really need it. If you are that serious, if you are seriously serious, niya na na fuchana, who are you? But you know Kujawa. I pray it and I say this. Sizi pia na loan. So it's like a measure of what the chick thinks about the guy. If... I don't know the future. If we have a future together, I don't really think I can loan someone on personal level. If you have a future? Yes. But if we don't have a future, me na kumbe ata 50 bob na ndi kakwa kitabu. Kwa? Hey, you know what I'm saying? That's what I'm saying. Ram. Hey! We should have a Stingy Women Association. Aki. Aki. Kwanzaan doengi. On the aspect of pet, leginu kupia na. Plus, I can only give to someone me na nipia. You know there's a man they can't even spend on you Ram totally. You call him today. Atakama you don't call him frequently. You call him today. Ati, hey, hi. Onza ni saidia na tau. Anu kumbe wei aki sa nimeshikana. Sa isi na anything. Is that why campus girls go for sponsors? Exactly. That's one of the reasons. So is it about money? Is it about you being kept? Is it about love? What is this relationship about? And the question is, as a man, why can't you provide for your girlfriend to have a zinoka sponsor? Zinoka sponsor. Yes, why can't you? There's also that leginu jokwa a campus student. We go in as a part-time too. Oko busy for example of an engineering. We are not part-time yako na kuhaso. Atakama sa zinoka kuhaso? Hey, kuna tu. Aja kuna tu kashulia before here. To my engineers, to your architecture and stuff like that. Mtu anasa ma throw out na lala kiamkana fkiriato. Skulok, skulok, skulok. So such a person who's expected kuna sa idahaso lansnik to online. Kwani anasa a kushule from 4 a.m. to 8 p.m. in the evening. There are people who really, really study. Like, kuna kwa si zingina complicated. Manze. Manze. Achan kumbe. Journalism kwa tu nifan. Nira isi. Laki na tu engineering. They are not famous for no reason. They suffer to some. Something kahuyo. Who is the expert? Aku. Aku treat. They say, Spanii na laku treat. Jum say, ana depend upon what you do. Ya manze. Ya tu manze from the village. As a man, even if you are in campus, how would you depend on your parents to give you money? Why? Of which, I really wanted to ask this question here earlier on. Kama umepu wa 2k na namzai. Umepu wa 2k. Umepu wa 2k. Uda sawa invaadje. Wewe, you depend on your parents and at the same time, wukuna girlfriend hapa shule, mune piyana depend on you. Ya. That's tricky. Ya. Tiki nama na na bidingi bueza kwa mezi panga. Not after kafum. Kaku kakufanianga. What you are good at. An opportunity is supported because do yamsazia zito. Atatuli Facebook pali. We asked a question. What's the most, which I spend with your partner? Now, of course, in this story, I am youth, youth. Let's talk about this. Umepu kukampu. Let's talk about this. What's the most, which I spend with your partner? So, let me sample a few. Of course, I will comment on this. Ya. Goto le shana na sama. My time now, he has wasted it. My time now, he has wasted it. Ya, na sama, but I spend a lot of money for it. I spend money on it. And I wasted it. You spend a lot of money on it. Ya, na sama yo. Bili, he will find out that I spent 20k for his shower. So I will tell him. Oh my God. Poliwra. Ya, I have a convoy, and I will tell her it's not enough. But I will tell her it's not enough. I spend 20k to use it. 20k is a shower. I would like to know what you had to say I asked him for answer —he must have felt it —I understand —He said he must be very tired —Because he just wanted to響ama to sponsor the event —Francilla, can you say that you can't wait to get one and spend nothing? —What? —You can't have fun —I always wanna have fun —It's too real Natilatani, na kwa yagreza? but na jyotona mbo na kwa mentalitya mbo kwa jizilifu mbo kwa gandakia kwa mahi uzikima yag kwa mahi uzikima kwa mahi ukunara na kwa mahi ukunara kwa mahi kwa mahi kwa mahi kwa mahi kwa mahi kwa mahi, kwa mahi ukunara kwa mahi kwa mahi, kwa mahi kwa mahi kalaza, ­Nu obtained I bought her a phone more expensive than I was using not to be a chana too but it's in her life fell for it Adjupende kwanza before you love someone else make sure you love yourself first more than her kini madem piawa na penangasimu? yes more than her atisimu mademu na penasimu na penasimu the newest phone in town na nantashapitana okay senya ayo naiwe ukweli wango apasiko karani kelvoja nasama nuliswa in 500 nikamunulia manguo yandani na viatu abrakuwacha nilibe bazote sitakangiyu fara okay run when you buy for someone a gift or something atabliya nasama member ya manguo just touch yaha what she what's wrong with campus boys una una kitu and then after menunom kiyachiana una takava akurudishi what did you buy it in the first place? I think that's a poor person's mentality because we keep a gift una fainu nachana na ya the same way mutu kikupia kitu you don't expect them to come looking for it unless you come excited here so your mentality that transactional mentality that I think it's toxic they don't believe I can't spend on someone living under another roof destiny manguo yandana sama a whole lot now so it's a metaiwe moji ya heart broken na ile kuhili ya apuivi ya na konegin api uchungu konegin uchungu apuivi jo nikii yandana sama 6 was the most I spent 6,500 last valentine she dumped me last week pole bro watu anakua heart edupunze people are being heart 6,500 that sounds like somebody's rent renta miye zimbili kuwana renti mela la flat lafeshafungu ani umbanasa sa last month man last month too it's like exactly one month ago somebody is still recovering on their finances from expenses of valentine ya kone li fanyanini zu alimfanyanini mdew muna kumgempesha lume na zaji bam baka bisa hey, the girls do cannot take that wana jukumpe anama best isa anana hey, best yangana pili kwa out wana gina pili kwa studio api wana gina pili kwa to alafososa si ati unipotie kama wani post na ebi kwenin takulama wana the girls do cannot take a guy who can't spend hekini fia the big boy don't need to alafom hekini fia wana pili kwa na pili kwa sabi akunu za wana pili gaji loan wana pili kwa loan kuspen valentine, the size is too much wana zaputa, mdew wana tabu last month too size in one month later badawa jali pa yu pesta wana zapili kwa simi muna loan haba riya kwa na nga na ha kimi anasama I will spend my time but a bad person is a bad person even though you wash him with silver he will see you have done nothing that's a trick that's true because if a person doesn't love you atom baya gaji that is nothing to her tisha jemkinz mwangi kwa bena na nga nga na nga nga nga densi bebti e, imagine na fukinu densi nga na nga na nga nga na nga na nga nga na nga nga na nga nga na nga nga na nga nga na nga nga na nga nga kwa? He said, that he doesn't have fifty points but 95 per cent But then, there are two sticks blade-laying but they aren't like crickets I am sorry those girls really don't want to give a guide she doesn't like聲 also, they think it is a sign of weakness not sure as a man in our society It is said that you're not supposed to borrow money from a woman. Ya, so you're in a changiapia, but I think that mantra should be done away with. But you said that you'll not give a man a loan. Yes, I can't loan him, I just give him the money. Oh, just give him the money. Ya, you just give him the money. Okay, nilisema Ram, if I have a future with him, or if I say future with him, I can't loan him, I just give him. Just give him the money. But if we don't have a future, 10 paupukichu kumimu pikei to naandika. Samil Sheyman na suma, adasi wizi ya sabu juhimu mii mii mii mii kajote pamoja na spend kwa kenikama uliataku jenga biluna kip record, hadi inafika mahali, una changanikiva, unawa chana na record sasa. Hey, comments are so many. Let me just reveal a few. David Nga chan na suma, I'm David from NIBS. Mi mi na regretu kuspend pesa na regretu kuspend pesa ya kwa jote kwa muntuna bado ha appreciate kudet kamponyu kuzi. Ya. He has a point. Teagals who don't appreciate atoka fanyani. One is a part of me spend kamaudama 65 wu medita liya giluna. He has a argument extra. But Teagals we just be like. Do you think that kampon relationship even last? They don't last. 65% do, but most don't. They don't last at all. If the chick is not about money she knows what she wants in a guy and if the guy also knows what she wants in a chick and they are building for the future he can a chance. But kama it's about the money money money even the girl get her that's a point takama kuna zoma inga people don't like being used. But you chumusana kuselma that most kampon relationship is not last? Ya kuna. They don't last. Apart from money wu na jokun liya kuzueyana wu ya amezueyakuni tisha do amezueyaku fanyahivi amezueyaku fanyahivi amezueyaku fanyahivi amezueyaku fanyahivi Respect it Aisha. Ya. Okay. I think we are going to talk about Facebook after the week we are conversing with you. Again, we are going to talk about 3000 don't mind spend. Sijawaii pigo character development I can't regret. The girls. They, they, they. We are going to talk about money money kuskasoma. Hana jia na suma na suma I will spend my love and time. All right. Na shira muhanji na suma I will spend two bob na iluka kipitong. Final comment. Tengambayita ano. Ha? Ha tanga five. Ya five. Mbili. Sos ya ni moda man mbili aza. Ya. Yipiritanga pidu. Apiritanga ma genu na za bob. Na kunaya sumuni. Na bili moja. For real? Yahu na kaya tibob. Akunanga piri. Sos ya li bai mbili. Ali bai inne. Aja suma kwa wiki. Lilian na ibe ya na suma Five kina kumbe anatumi ya beboa ke Ali bai mbili fungua. Tengawa ni mba sa ibiaki. Alikua kumbe chelikia. Kumbe chelikia anatumi ya sasa. Anatumi ya dinia kumili azi fungua. Wow. Wai. Moon rays. Mbili kuna mbili ari ni chosya. Ari ni chosya. Ari ni chosya. Ari ni chosya, she loves me. Just like that. Hatabila. Pesa. Nani dey manapenda. Kuhang out. Ni skam a relationship. It's true. Omma dimupenda kubbash tuki la wikend. Sidi yo. Uya uya pa na. Nani bai aras. Now, we will talk about relationships. And of course, a big thanks to everybody when you are here. I will come and talk to you. Ah, you is, Sikosa kusama. Xavier Maestro, Mwela. Hey that's my friend. Xavier Kuo. Yeah, Xavier is my friend. He's your friend, huh? Yeah, classmate. My kuma class mentioned in uni. We spent on a lady who is what who reciprocates limitslessly. You know, there are chicks who, it's transaction of them. You know, if you spend on her and I feel I should pay you in a different way. So maybe one day, nasa ma pay it back limitlessly. So there are chicks who, there are chicks who take a guy spending on her as a measure of herself for us. Kuna, kuna dem, kuna a guy doesn't like spending on her as a kujuli, zaka nishi dango nini. But if a guy really likes spoiling yonakulati, I think pina janganga self-esteem at dem or something. And she might feel the only way she can give back is, you know, sexual favours. All right. She not really be the case. Yeah. Yeah. Yeah. Yeah. Yeah. Yeah. Yeah. Kami say ma fika. Fika, fika. Asana, asana. Now let's talk about a few other things before you wrap it up because I see we have time on our side. When it comes to now the normal day-to-day campers life, what's it taking the guys to this? Dei ma me amkas bui indio a kuna classes, a kuna fana kama kuchu uo, but at the same time, a kuna some, you know, plans, a kuna kawa chali watano kwenya nomba do ko kila umse a nomba do ko huyu, ko huyu, ko huyu so na yuohana. Dika ma anasa nya do. And at the same time puna ma chali me nepia wa kuakam po how one nomba do ko ma den wegi the same thing. What kind of a man asks different types of money? That's not a real man. That's not a real man. Honestly, because a man, it's either just hassle, okifika 18 years just hassle even if you're in campers. Promise to us man. That's just, a man who is needy, it's a needy man. Needy on several levels but I'm not sure. It should be discouraged because de man na fe kuwa pia na mentalitya hu hassle. For me, for me what works for me I really like a chick who knows how to make her own coin. So that pia me miskuwa nyan takua I will need help. I will not have to look at my boys when he pia kuna ishuzawa na ma de ma pia me anasa kuwa rock pia me. I do me prefer somebody who can also help me save plan and follow up on those plans rata tan tuwa tukule hindo tukule tujibam before and after. De man nomba do kilapal? Anomba kwa kinana ni. Kufa ni anini. Kwa ni ini. Kama we ni. Kwa ni ma boyfriends waki. Kana ma chali wegi. But ok, you know many campers ladies unapata kuna chali mani uyu anali parent uyu ana buy food kwa nyumba uyu ni wakuni li pia niwale. Uyu nukuni li pia nils. Uwich that should not be the case. Matipul partners idakulete wgunjwa. Itakulete shida shida utapata STIs utagunjeka. So that should not be the case. Ma prefer just have one person kama he's not that financially stable as you want him to be just look for a job. Look for a side hustle. Everything it have fallen into place. There are these chicks who I think they cosmetize prostitution for lack of a better word. They are girls who jukama sasa you have multiple people na it's just unto akuja jibambe alafaki anakwa chedo. In a difference na doing it at a brothel and if you offended forgive me. But people need to have a certain class of their own where una change mentality into you don't have to kupik pesakum fukui aatu which is kujitavti ya ma shida ma kujikumit into issues you don't want to get into. So you should have that mentality of what can I do, what service can I provide around here? What business can I open? Atakama si minta kuna shinda apu pahapsa kudemplay someone to be running for me. Yeah. Yeah. At least kukuna some order to change even if it's an approach video. Ya. Saksana kwa bambadu. Ya, adi demana kangatu kwenyombati una nga da boizam tu miyakakitu she loses her value real quick. Even the guys get tired una kwa tu in a transaction too. So na kuduna nga tizakai una ditaatu but committing seriously to that chick most guys want. So even as I miss your dream guy because of that. Ma demo kampu na macha do kampu wukiya nga liya how relationships na kwa nga kwa campas most of them na kwa nga tu just for clouds as yine tapara nga wato jubikane social media. Nesla pacha? We are rich guys. Ima have the finest chick. Ima my clique ni wale wa sumi where is that? Ima check if I will buy you a gift on Valentine's and then a Snapchat. Nama Snapchat? Yes, Snapchat. Nama filters. Nama filters. Nama the wine that you buy. Let's mapig a picture. Who does that? Okay personal, I used to. You used to? Yeah. That you call who does that? Okay. In Afikanga, time will grow up. Akili na grow up. So okay, that time I keep okay, no no no no. I will buy you a chipo, kuku on the first Instagram. On the first Instagram. No, aku na mtwa je kulachipo. Aku na mtwa aku ni wine. So you will post ni leto na tukaku show off. Eh? Atami meneza baiwai. What is the most usha you spend kwa patina waku? Nge miswa you to moza pali Facebook. What is the most usha you spend kwa patina waku? Na and of course that's the conversation you were having and it's a wrap. That presents with the end of this morning show. But before we conclude na takana per the time you have a final word. Sendio. Your piece of advice, your take home to to that Kijana kwa usha pali ni aza na nani aza ni aza nawebe kwa gana na kwa gana pali na kamerako. Final word. Tukira pita. Tia kwanza na zasema to boys and girls it's not just about money even invest in your time and love into someone you have to choose carefully. Don't just choose the finest chick ama bestia kwa without investigating how a person really is bila kujo karapte amtu because it can be really frustrating as a relationship when you feel you come out in bogaj you don't have the kind of money she expects you to have so just from the off choose wisely if you already there just try taking some sense into her, women come and they comfortable sufisha. Shakes Final word to Mazi. To my fellow young women and ladies let's have you moyo yaku save pesa okipata kakitu kakitu. Don't just spend. At least save, save, save, save, save, save. That's all. Just save money. At least utapata doza kutumi ya kama tahauna. We don't have to depend on men to pay for your bills. Another thing, we have to carry ourselves with dignity. Don't get money from men. Uki danya utawapatia something else. As in return. Kama unataka pesa, just let your thoughts equal to fine. Kama nido ni hizi ni hizi, na kama umto ako fine kuni pachedo without expecting any favors, then that's okay. Alright. That's all the sana. Shix, nashikuru sana. Thanks so much for joining me today. Fano is the first time I'm having you guys and it was fun. Thank you. Thank you. That was the end of this morning conversations right in the morning. But even as we keep engaging with hansamia, kama a dutapata is why at the morning. at Rongo University. The hashtag is Y254 Campus Tour and we at Y254 really, really appreciate each and everyone that is our fan right here on Y254. Well, my name is Ram Maguko. It has been a pleasure being with you. That brings us to the end of this morning show right here on Y in the morning. Keep engaging with us, keep talking with us. Stay tuned for more of our programming right here on Y254. On my end, I would like to say a big thanks to everybody that ensured today's show was a success. May God bless you. May God bless the work of your hands. Have a blessed day.