 All right, so getting ghosted what should you do if a girl ghosts you if a girl ghosts you the short answer to this question is Move on go out there go and get other girls Ironically, even if your sole goal is to get this one girl You're better off going out and getting other girls because if you keep hitting her up if you keep messaging her even though She hasn't messaged you anything. She's gonna lose respect for you and that's a really tough position to be in Okay, that's the short answer now There is actually something else that I like to do which is a little secret Which I'll tell you at the end of this video something that I like to use if a girl ghosts me Which you know if it does happen doesn't really happen that much But if it does this is the most badass boss way to handle getting ghosted All right, so let's talk about getting ghosted for a second basically men women business partners everybody People ghost each other. Okay, it's just a part of life now that we have technology and people are messaging It's just it's a kind of an easy immature way to get out of a situation and quite frankly everybody does it Okay, I've ghosted women women have tons of women have ghosted me especially when I was younger And when I was just coming up and my skills of women in game Weren't that good? I was getting ghosted a lot and dude. It sucks man It sucks getting ghosted when you've like when you felt like you had something with a person You were responding back and forth things were going well She knew she was attracted to you when you got the number or whatever Maybe the dates you thought were going pretty good. And now she's just not responding. I mean it sucks, man The reason why it sucks so much is because you don't get closure and because the girls not messaging you back You don't know what's going on So your mind starts to go crazy and you start inventing a lot of like reasons Oh, maybe she's we know she okay like what did I do? You know, I just want to know what I did So this is the trap that a lot of guys fall into Don't do this don't try and psychoanalyze her Don't try and figure out what's going on in her life that she would do this You know, you should focus on what you could have done better, but only to a certain extent I think what people tend to do when they get ghosted is they tend to overthink situations And then sometimes like, you know, they send an angry message like hello, like why aren't you responding or like, you know Like, you know, I would really appreciate a response blah blah blah or something like that These types of things it's just not going to be beneficial for you It's gonna sound petty and I know it sucks. I know she's not in the right on this But ultimately I'm trying to look out for you and what's gonna be best for you And even if you do get an answer from her or you she does tell you, you know, she gives you a reason Why she's not responding to you anymore. It's gonna be a lie She's not gonna tell you the truth people aren't gonna be honest in the situation So if you are looking for honest and good feedback, it's not going to come from her What you need to do is you need to go out there and use this as fuel To go out and hit on other girls that are gonna be worth your time that are gonna be valuable for you Okay, work on yourself figure out where you're falling short figure out what skills you're missing figure out how you can improve your confidence All these types of things are important and you owe it to yourself to figure them out now If you've been ghosted like let's say you've been you this has happened to you like three times Like three girls in a row have ghosted you obviously there's a pattern there and the comms in on meter is You so you'd figure out what's going on Maybe you're super confident when you get the number But as soon as you get the number you start acting all needy or maybe you do the opposite You become a complete asshole and you get comfortable or something like that. I Know the most common reason for a girl ghosting me is them realizing that you know This relationship probably isn't gonna continue past my bedroom, you know as well So look in your life. You really have to like go out there and try new things and figure out what's going on If you have a dating coach, they can help you out with this too They can pinpoint the things that you're doing wrong things that you wouldn't even see they'll be able to find out And so that can be pretty helpful too. Okay, so now that I've told you what you should what you should do This is that's the advice that I would give like 99% of the population But there's a trick that I like to use sometimes and I don't use this every time I don't really get ghosted that much but when I do get ghosted sometimes I'll do this What you should do is You should friend zone them as soon as you find out it's starting to happen Basically what happens when you get ghosted is it doesn't happen immediately She'll she'll start to take longer and longer to respond. Maybe she's taken a couple hours now Maybe she's taken half a day now. She's taken days to respond. It happens in this kind of gradual manner where they just kind of fade out So as soon as I start to see this happening usually when she's taken like hours to respond or maybe like half a day now or days I'll cut it right off right then. I know it's not going anywhere. I know it's not gonna happen So I'll basically just send her message say hey, you know, I really like hanging out with you Like I think you're really cool You're an awesome person, but it just doesn't seem like things are working out like you got other stuff going on But I'd love to continue as friends or something like that You know to say something like that now this this is gonna start messing with her mind She's gonna start thinking like, you know women especially a girl like this She's probably not used to getting friendzone. Maybe she's I don't know how many Guys have friendzoned her probably not a lot, but it's gonna start to mess with her mind She's gonna start to think okay. Well, what went wrong? Was this guy like why didn't I like this guy? Was he just was he too nice? No, he's pretty cool. Was he too mean? No, he was he was a pretty chill guy Was he not did I not find him attractive? No I found him attractive when when we were talking and she's gonna start to over rationalize She's going to think about it and I guarantee you There's about a 70% chance that in about a few months. You're gonna get just a hi You know girls like to send that just a hi Message sometimes with the period sometimes not So you might get that message in the future now at this point I know what you guys are thinking I know you're thinking like oh, this is the way that I'm gonna eventually win her back This is the secret to getting to not getting ghosted or to fix getting ghosted. Don't Go out with her because even if she's like comes back to you really quickly and says hey We should go out this Saturday or something like that say no Don't hang out with her cut it off. She's done delete the number. You basically said hey Let's be friends as a courtesy The chances are if this girl has ghosted you one time She's probably going to ghost you again And if you are a high value guy you're gonna value your time and you're gonna spend time with people who also value your time And like you the way you like them what a low value guys thinking is he's thinking oh, there's hope this might happen This might happen in the future or something like that High value guys already have a lot of options. They already have people in their life that will value their time Be one of those guys adopt that mindset figure out What's going wrong with you and use the trick that I just told you and that's how you get over getting ghosted All right, thanks a lot you guys if you made it to the end of this video consider subscribing come over the videos like this every single week I don't do the typical 40 minute long RSD talk to you know RSD video to know where This is practical actionable dating advice for those single guys out there that are trying to live the best life that they can live And try and be successful with women so stay tuned for next week. I'm coming out with more videos Thanks a lot and good luck out there