 So try to convince a man that you're right for each other, that you're a good match, that he should pick you, or that you're exactly what he's looking for. And so, if you are trying to convince a man, and I get this all the time, right, like this usually happens when a woman isn't getting her needs met, right, a guy's not pushing things forward, he's not moving things forward. A lot of times what will happen is a woman will start trying to convince a guy that they're good for each other, or if he doesn't want to be exclusive, she'll start counting all the ways that they're good for each other. If he breaks up with her and they meet up again as friends, she'll start talking about all the things that, you know, the reasons why they're good for each other and they're perfect for each other. And we're such a great match, and you should pick me because there's no other woman that'll treat you as well as I will, right? And all these things of like trying to convince a guy, and that just makes him feel like you're not the right person for him. And so, it just comes off as really needy behavior, and it shows that you don't get men, and that you don't get relationships, and that he's just too good for you. And so you need to prove to him that you're worthy of his time, his tension, and his love, and really this only, it just turns guys off, it just turns them off, right? Because he doesn't, he doesn't, it doesn't make him think, right? Like, a lot of women are like, oh, well men think, you know, logically, and men are more logical, they're the more logical, you know, of the sexes, right? And men don't make decisions based on logic, right? It might seem like they make decisions based on logic, and there might be more logic that goes into decisions opposed to being, you know, just feeling stuff out and stuff like a lot of women sometimes do. But guys make decisions based on how they feel, right? And if he feels a certain way, and I'm going to do a live stream on this maybe next week, where if a guy feels a certain way about you, then he's going to, he's going to move things forward. He's going to push things forward. He's going to fall in love with you. He's going to do all the things that you want him to do because he feels it, right? And he feels like it's the right thing to do. Like, guys don't buy nice cars because, you know, nice cars are logical things to have, right? Guys buy nice cars for a lot of different reasons. One of them is because they feel good. They want to feel like they're important. They want to impress women. They want to do all kinds of things, right? And so that's why men do things, just because of their emotions.