 Having a crush can make you feel like the happiest person in the world, but at times it can also make you want to rip your hair out We're sure you can relate. If you've seen the anime Kimi ni Tadoke from me to you, Kagoya-sama, Love is War, or any Shoujo anime ever, you know exactly what we're talking about. Those shows make you want to crawl inside the screen and yell Just kiss at the characters. As you can guess from the title, this video is for all of you having crush troubles If you're not sure how your crush feels, here are some signs they're more than happy to be around you. For starters, do they initiate contact? If you've ever had a crush then you're probably really familiar with the who talks to who first problem Should I message them? What if I seem too clingy, but if I lose my chance Yeah, that one. If your crush is comfortable around you, all these questions become easily solved It's because your crush won't even have second thoughts about messaging you in the first place When they often talk to you to tell you simple life updates, juicy gossip, or even random things They're showing that they value your judgment and that they trust you enough to be open about whatever Even shy introverts talk first when they really want to. So if you notice your crush making the effort, take the opportunity And don't leave them hanging. Next. Do they throw formality out the window? The use of honorifics is especially common in countries like China, South Korea, and Japan For those who don't know, honorifics are basically words like Mr. Mrs. Professor and other terms that acknowledge, respect, and rank Let's say you just met Satoru Kocho in Japan You would probably call him Kocho-san because the honorific-san is for people you don't know However, if you get into a relationship with him or become intimate, you will probably drop the honorific all together Or, you know, call him babe We wish. The same idea applies to your crush If they're letting loose, giving you nicknames, swearing, and teasing, you can bet they're highly comfortable with you They don't feel like you're going to judge them. So in turn, they relax and show you their uninhibited self Next. Are they tactile? According to the Cambridge Dictionary, a tactile person touches other people a lot There are a lot of reasons why they may tend to do this. See physical touch is like magic It sometimes feels like it too. It doesn't require words, but it says so much For example, when you're having a difficult time, a single hand on your shoulder can bring all the comfort and empathy you need When your crush lays their head on your arm hugs you and doesn't shy away from any form of physical contact They're welcoming intimacy into your relationship. A 2008 study published in the peer-reviewed medical journal psychosom med Shows that physical touch results in positive physiological benefits such as less stress The emotional benefits are not a secret to touching can make you feel included Nurtured and perhaps even sexually engaged But what if your crush doesn't touch you at all? That's okay People can also avoid touching to the numerous factors such as childhood upbringing, trauma, social anxiety, preference, and more There are many ways to display affectionate behavior. So try to see if they do the other signs instead Do they welcome conflict? Arguments are a natural, healthy part of relationships However, plenty of people choose to avoid or ignore conflict because they either don't know how to address it appropriately or Are scared to so if your crush is not afraid of voicing disagreements and getting into debates with you They're very comfortable According to jared anderson author of three reasons arguments with your partner can be beneficial to your relationship Healthy conflict can develop better understanding address necessary concerns and build a greater connection However, not all forms of conflict are healthy Healthy arguments only happen when both sides practice active listening open-mindedness and directness if they're constantly throwing insults Accusations personal attacks and silent treatments. You may be dealing with a toxic and manipulative person If you're finding this video helpful, please don't forget to hit like we appreciate your love and support Moving forward does your crush permit vulnerability? Anxiety is a common feeling at the start of any relationship Articles from health line nbc news and medical news today back this up It doesn't matter whether you're an extrovert introvert or ambivert You can still constantly worry about how you look how you speak or how your crush is perceiving you This is why it can be very special when your crush opens up about their deep problems quirks and flaws It can make you realize that yeah They're human just like you and sometimes it makes you like them even more It's certainly not easy to talk about personal weaknesses and insecurities So when your crush goes out of their way to let down their guard around you, you're not just anybody You're someone dear to them It's good if your crush does some or all of these things But remember that it doesn't necessarily mean they're romantically attracted to you To know if they like you back you can check out our other video floating or just being nice Thanks so much for watching. See you next time and remember you matter and deserve love